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Feeling like making a topic after so many days. so here is my two cents for turbulance in lives of Yash-Aarti with various words of meaning.
Fear retrench our will. Faith enhance our courage. Here I can see Yash standing on pole of faith and Aarti on pole of fear. Both have at least reasons to stand firm on their believes. Fear of Aarti has over-shadowed her faith in truth. Whereas Yash is a believer of faith and trust which can solve any problem. Here I am relating to more with faith. Everyone has fears of losing our loved ones. Some are afraid of losing them in a material way and others are in emotional way. But lie for saving a relation where you are object of lie strengthen fear. One lie makes your fear more dominant because you have more things to conceal now. Saying truth is never easy but concealing it is hazardous. Here you make it irrevocably dominant.
Aarti lied because she feared of losing Yash and her marriage. But here faith could easily work. Staying true to yourself is most important for a relationship to last. She is under burden of lies, consoling herself with justifications which don't even stand as wind shield. Telling truth with a faith that he would understand, could have been much easier than lying. Here fear retrenched your vision where you have faith in you and your husband.
On the other hand, Yash's theory about truth and lie is worth relating too. A restlessness of concealing truth and continuing it is killer. I am sure most of us feels that way. Sleepless nights and hyper active mode is some symptoms of restlessness which I usually feel when I try to conceal things and finally end up speaking the truth in minutes.
In my theory of love, it is selfless where we don't do things which can hurt our spouse or love. A well consented lie of course will be a heart achier for partner on other hand. You are afraid of losing him that is a case of self-centered love where you don't even have sight of hurting your spouse on disclosure of your lies. Aarti is successful in making him smile with a perfect world of her where she is happy and known to Yash but still she is going to hurt him today or tomorrow. She gained his love but for how long!! Its like building a beautiful tree-house on a tree whose roots are as rotted as an old lie.
A selfless act would be here of telling Yash the truth whatever happen next and then wait for his reaction. She saved her relation but gambled their future. Me or Us!! Me won! and yet lost!
She said she was obligate. If I recall her condition from few past days, yeah!! She was obligate to her parents. She had to do some things against her will. But was there no other way out of those obligations? Lying was a easy and fastest way out of a problem. She was obligate and she chose first way out "Lying". That almost washed her shield of being obligate.
Situations made her liar but she surely had choices and chances which she missed. Her obligate status is going to make her swim out of sinking relationship but what she chose was easy way out.
Yash is such a believer. Is He Self righteous? I think "being clear and straight about your beliefs is an aid in relationships where you tell your spouse that when you could get offended or hurt, He is clear about his conscience and that leads to his simple life. He most of the time get guidance in difficult decisions from his conscience. That's how he gets less complications. And still, in areas where he feels lost or confused, he consults Aarti with all faith and no amount of fear. That's how he is simple living person.
Love
Aditi
P.S. Your replies are anticipated😳
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