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sk aka sumbul khan

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

whatever she did i love her

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Mahi

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Aarti is confused, 😕, but she's still cool!😎

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Nikita

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Well, why didnt Aarti connect Yash's anger to her rainy night incident - because she assumed that Yash had no clue about the night and what he doesnt know cannot hurt him...hence, she was trying to find an incident that he knew about...

why didnt she tell anyone - well, we know now that Ansh's accident prevented her from telling Yash... Moreover, as I stated in another post -

She didnt think it was a big deal - well, I agree that "NOT big deal" is taking the relation ship a little too light...yes, Aarti did fault there but then my question to myself and many others in the forum would be, put on her shoes and tell me, if your hubby have made it a point to remind you ample amount of time, that you are ONLY his children's mother and he has absolutely no intention of making you his "WIFE"... Your hubby keeps his first wife's gallery around, keeps reminiscing his days and is contended with this arrangement... Dont get me wrong, he respects you for the job well done with kids and house and family and for the values you stand, but you dont get the real "wife" comendation...Time and again you are reminded that dont try coming close to me...dont share things that wife would share with a hubby... We respect each other and we are under one roof for children!!! ... After living with this equation for months, what kinda mindset would you be in when you are stuck with your friend in the night due to Mumbai rain... When you meet your hubby the next day, what would go on in your mind? When I put myself in Aarti's position, I was confused...I was dwelling in my mind, should I tell him, should I not? Would it be crossing my boundaries set by him and enter the territory of being a "wife" or shld I remain in my limits of "children's mother" and not tell him anything thats "not his business as hubby"... With endless reminders from him, I decided not to tell Yash and take it light and not give it too much weightage because he doesnt care about the wifey aspects...

Having said that, Aarti in my mind turned out much much better because as such she atleast thought of telling him and circumstances didnt let her...

Edited by Dancingdoll - 13 years ago

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Raveena

@Loveforlife

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Now if she knows she has not done anything wrong with Aman and she also feels that Yash doesn't know anything about that night...so she thought that will not be the reason for his anger... plus he is not telling her directly the reason for his anger!!... I don't think she had any reason to add fuel to the already burning fire by disclosing this event at that point of time and anyways Yash was beyond reason and least interested in listening to her... and I don't think she need to tell it to the family!! ... It was only when the incident came to light and the family demanded justification from her that she told about the incident!

Plus we all know how our darling Aarti is... bumbling and tumbling every time... does take some silly decisions sometimes... completely understand her character!! I in fact love it!!!

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Taahir

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Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Yash said infront of Aman and Aarti that he trust Aarti , Aarti forgetting about the incident is not a big issue when Yash got back they took Ansh to hosiptal .

Aarti staying out until 3.00am was due to the heavy and traffic

this is can be one of those things that slipped her mind , in the morning Yash was in just a rush to head back home so I don't think its Aarti's fault

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abhialka

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Posted: 13 years ago

#16

Well, I still dont think that coming late would be the sole reason for his anger, Yes, I think that Aarti should have told this incidence to at least Vidhi if not anyone else. Her considering that it was not necessary was not acceptable for me. Whatever their relation was, but Yash was always a caring person, yes he never gave the rights of a wife but he was always caring towards her, so not as a wife but she should have told him this incidence as a friend or at least as a family. Considered that she didnt got the time to tell, that was absolutely fine with me, my point is, when everyone was asking her tell what happened in Mumbai, then she should have told at least Vidhi because this was part of Mumbai trip. However unnecessary it was, she should have told this.

I understand her state of mind and believe that if I was at her place it might have slipped from my mind too. But I just want to add, if Yash's behaviour is not acceptable to people here, then Aarti's carelessness should also not be acceptable. Both are right and wrong at their places.

Now, I just want CVs to show something more strong of a reason behind Yash's mindset.

Hoping something positive and great out of this track

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umaa

@uluvmg

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

yes aarti a married woman having boy friend is ok but not telling the reason about night spent with boy friend to her husband is not accepted.. this show is family show so elders like MILs (my mother)are watching this show & aarti's behaviour can't accepted..at any cost she should have to tell her husband about night..when yash was over angry still she a married woman not remember the major incident is horrible.. buaji is over acted but this type of people are still here & watching this show..they may thinking that aarti is hiding this to family also so something fishy with their friendship.. now agnipariksha should not accepted.. but she is ready for agnipariksha is proved that she is inocent..now aarti learn a lot from this incident..

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