1. Continue being a good mother to the kids. They at least will love you.
2. Do not show him your face.He is convinced he hates it. Smile for others, never for him.
3. Do not speak to him... your voice is annoying to him. Let him only hear your laughter from afar.
4. Do not do anything for him... he is capable of doing for himself... in any case he has his mother and Bua to run after him.
5. Remove yourself from his room and his bed. Do not sleep on the floor...that is for the dogs.
6. Ignore him totally.
7. Ask him for nothing.
8. Above all, CONFUSE him.
9 Keep your chin up and your head high for you only loved him.
10.You can't give him hate, but at least give him a generous dose of indifference.
Soon enough he will come to his senses. When he does that, show him your strength. Do not be a weak woman grateful for scraps from him. You deserve more. Hold out and Yash himself will remove Arpita's obscene photo collection, will respect you and long for your voice, your 'beautiful hair', your touch...
And we will see the metamorphosis... and enjoy every moment of it.