Does Yash really deserve this?!

This post is not coming up because i am a GC Fan. I like the actor but i am not a blind-eye fan. This is what i have been feeling ever since Aarti accused him for what happened with Ansh.

You have raised good points, but I guess by showing steps yash is taking is trying to put point of view against the normal norms and way of thinking.

Whether a step is right or wrong one never knows unless it is taken , secondly how far it is right or wrong depends on the result.

I AGREE WITH YOU

Kishti_Kunal, a very interesting post.

You question if this were to happen in reality, what would be the repercussions on Yash. I feel in reality, if this were to happen then Yash would always second guess his actions and decisions regarding Ansh from now on. But also, in reality Aarti would have run away the second day after marriage. No woman in her right senses would want a family like the Scindias.

Now, coming to the reel life, again I agree with you. Yash did not deserve all this bashing from Aarti. But Aarti did not deserve to be faced with her son's death either. Like you mentioned Yash could never have foreseen something like this happening but the fact of the matter is that all the incidents that took place since the marriage proposal was considered, has indeed lead to this traumatic event:

- Yash and Aarti refusing to talk before marriage about what their expectations are from this marriage,

-Gayatri demanding Ansh not come with Aarti not once but twice,

-the Scidnia's snatching Aarti's identity,

-Gayatri demeaning Aarti at every turn,

-Gayatri's blatant dislike for Ansh,

-inability of rest of the Scindia household to openly challenge Gayatri's torture,

-Aarti's subsequent overprotectiveness of Ansh,

-Yash and Aarti's further refusal to talk about their kids with each other and overtly help the kids to adjust and accept each other,

-everyone including Yash, undermining Aarti's genuine concerns as just being over indulgent or overprotective.

So, in my opinion both Yash and Aarti did not deserve what is happening to them. Now coming back to reality, in such a scenario, blame game absolutely happens. What is important is how the individuals heal in the aftermath of such an event.

Wether Aarti yelled at Yash or not, Yash would have felt guilty. That is his nature. Aarti voiced out loud what Yash has been feeling since they came to know about the kidnapping. So I find it very difficult to say one's behavior was right and one 's behavior was wrong. It was unfortunate and should never have happened to either of them.

Absolutely agree with you that Yash intentions were not bad and what he had done to Ansh is for his good future. But the time was wrong for Yash.

As per Aarti accusing him, she is helpless because her son is lost, and she can accuse only one person who she gave the responsibility of her son. As a mother she is very afraid of what will happen with Ansh.

Anyway, after he will save Ansh, Aarti will trust him blindly.

I agree that Yash couldn't have foreseen that Ansh would run away, however when a child is so vehement about not going to school shouldn't the parents take the time to figure out what's wrong. Especially considering that he had gone willingly the first day. It wasn't until he was made the butt of a prank at school and the girls' threat in the absence of Aarti and Yash being in the room that Ansh panicked. They should have picked up on the fact that something had gone awry and probed into the matter.

Both Yash and Aarti didnt deserve this. Fate is playing games with them. Aarti and Ansh didnt deserve this kind of treatment in Scindia house. Aarti yelled bcoz at d moment it was d only method to ring bells in Scindias' ears whose faces dont show any eagerness to search for Ansh and Aarti thinks they will not do anything at all.
It is not Yash's fault that Aarti doesnt trust him and Ansh got kidnapped. He must be feeling bad abt this all but for now Ansh is his first concern. After rescue of Ansh, he may show his hurt and frustration. Aarti definitely needs to understand him better bcoz he doesnt let his emotions come out unlike Aarti who cries,yells and argues whenever she feels bad.

Both Yash n Aarti r at fault...

Originally posted by: Kshiti_Kunal

This post is not coming up because i am a GC Fan. I like the actor but i am not a blind-eye fan. This is what i have been feeling ever since Aarti accused him for what happened with Ansh.

We have a proverb in my mother tongue that can be loosely translated as

'Crow perched on the branch and it broke. Dont kill the crow for it'. I feel same for Yash.

He never intended anything bad for Ansh. All he really did was care for him, he wanted Ansh to have a better education, a new chance of having a privileged life - something he did not have till the time his mom decided to marry Yash.

The thought, the intention was not bad however the Timing was bad. So it happened that Ansh cried. He was reluctant to go to the new school and then he ran away or rather he was made to run away. How could Yash have foreseen this happening? Furthermore he has no idea of what is brewing in his daughter's minds. No adult would ever envision two 5 year olds to have a scheming mind like that, let alone their own kids.

I understand Aarti's grief and her plight but i strongly feel that all the bashing and packing someone off to guilt trip in this case was uncalled for. The true culprit here is someone else and if Aarti really is so fearless, she should point her fingers to the correct person who is responsible for all this - Gayatri. It was her fear that caused Ansh to run away, not wanting to stay with Sindiyas and all the other complications that followed.

Why is it then that Yash is being held responsible for what he had never thought would happen?

Does only the end result matter? Do intentions and thoughts have no value?

May be not in this drama cause i am sure Aarti and Yash would fall in love after the kidnapping drama is done but in reality, if i were Yash, i would have thought 1000 times before taking any decision about the child because i have no idea what would go wrong when and i will be blamed for what 'wrong' came out it, forgetting every good thing that i had actually intended.

Would love to know your thoughts. Again, i dont want to bash Aarti. As a mother, i understand what she is going through but i am sure Yash is feeling worse at this time. 😡

Originally posted by: Telly.Addict

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And in English it is said "The road to hell is paved with good intentions".

Yash's good intentions were caught up in his neglect of his daughters after his wife (Arpita)'s death. All the interactions we have been shown of him with his daughters, apart from showing him in their room in the resort when they were sleeping, either of their uncles would behave in the same loving indulgent manner. It is clear he did not have hands-on parenting. Yes this is the way of this household, but he was happy to let this carry on as it gave him the option of living in his Arpitatata land.

If he had been more aware of the way his daughters were being brought up, from the way they have shown his character, he would have done something about it.

He did not remarry to improve his daughters' life now, but with the feeling that when they are young women they will need a woman's understanding, and a mother would be needed then.

So his good intentions for the future of his girls has also played a part in him and Arti being at this point in time.

So yeah, the road to hell is paved with good intentions. So far the ones who have been to hell are Ansh and Arti, and this latest situation has sent Yash to hell.

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