i don't agree with both of them...

i don't agree with both of them. as we saw in previous many episodes that Aarti was very much pampering Ansh all d time. she always neglected his mistakes whether they were big or small. she always supported him blindly. that's why he has that much guts today.Ansh was guilty no doubt

but at d same time i am not agree with Gayatri also. bcs she did totally wrong today. though Ansh is very much knotty but he is too small. he is new at their place. as Yash said before he did that in his innocence. he didn't understand consequences of that prank which he did with Yash. we can not teach small children discipline by locking them or by beating them. they r too small that they never understand why we r doing this with them. in this case they will get more scared and introvert. may be they will loose their self confidence. so this is not d proper way to teach them any lesson or make to realize their mistake. Gayatri is really very cruel and she didn't want to teach him lesson or anything she just wanted to fulfill her cruel motive and just wanted to satisfy her ego bcs she doesn't like Ansh at all. that's it. just disgusting...

and may be this strictness also converted in many bad things. like we saw in innocence Ansh himself always tell the truth to Aarti. but after this punishment he will never do that. may be he will hide everything in future from his family when he will make some mistake.he will become more violent if he feel neglected.
so all in all Aarti and Gayatri both r wrong.

I understand what you are trying to say. however, I feel that aarti has not been pampering her child. She has always told him right from wrong and when she learnt about what he did she took him to apologise straightaway. Ansh has been AArti's life ever since her husband left her. Alongside with the motherly instincts, she wants the best for her child as well as wants to see him happy. We cannot forget that Ansh is a boy and he is meant to do a few mischievous things. At that moment he felt insecure and jealous and afraid that he will lose his right over his mom to Yash.

Originally posted by: solesole

I understand what you are trying to say. however, I feel that aarti has not been pampering her child. She has always told him right from wrong and when she learnt about what he did she took him to apologise straightaway. Ansh has been AArti's life ever since her husband left her. Alongside with the motherly instincts, she wants the best for her child as well as wants to see him happy. We cannot forget that Ansh is a boy and he is meant to do a few mischievous things. At that moment he felt insecure and jealous and afraid that he will lose his right over his mom to Yash.

These are the feeling that he has not portrayed towards Aarti before as this scenario did not arise. hence, he may not have been always naughty. Aarti has told him to speak the truth and he literally does that. In the long run, Aarti is going to make Paridhi stand on her 2 feet and Vidhi to solve her issues. This teachings between mom and son will influence the whole family.

As for MIL, she should not have done that. Furthermore, that kid is new in her life, she should have observed him first instead of listening to her grandchildren. If she had brought up many kids, she should know how boys are like. Instead of creating fear in them, she should have used a different approach. As it is, Ansh was avoiding her, and he is going to do that now.

I feel that indirectly, MIL was getting back at AArti as her husband did not say anything to AArti as well as AArti questioning on their too much discipline. The issue here is that Ansh is getting too much love from AArti, while the girls did not receive as much attention from Yash. He has been busy in his work hence the girls have been with their grandmother.

Hence, gayathiri was wrong in her move as she should have approach this situation in a different way. She only did this because her ego was hurt by both mom and son. Son did not listen to her and hence she did this. It was more for her self image of being the main one. I think we should give credit to Aarti as she is able to understand Ansh and able to make him see her viewpoint. In return she does things on his insistence such as wear high-heeled sandals so that their relationship is fair and they can approach each other like friends.

ya i agree with u. and i am not saying that Aarti is totally wrong. after all she is single mother and her only source of life is Ansh. that's why she is so concerned and possessive abt him. that is ok and i agree that at least this time she was scold him for his prank on Yash. but in previous many episodes she only ignored his mistakes and loved him blindly.she just told him always 'Ansh don't do that' that's it. nothing else. but still it's ok.
but ya Gayatri was total wrong. bcs i think like Payal,Palak Ansh will also become introvert,speechless and self centered if Gayatri will give this type of punishment again and again which will not good for his total growth or total personality development.this is really cruel behavior of Gayatri .