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Posted: 13 years ago
#81
thanks for the superb update and analysis sweety

Will edit my view after watching epi 😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Nightstarr :Its not clear whether Prashant later married or not ...tomorrow the suspense might come out why he called Aarti in mandir ...mayb to rub further salt on her wounds since his male ego is hurt seeing his ex-wife getting married again 😡...so Prashant wants to get sadistic pleasure by seeing Aarti coming to meet him with hopes thinking he might return back and then he will royally crush those hopes in the mandir to satisfy his male ego
@Mano :Thanks for the compliments ..and would love to hear from u too ..your thoughts on episodes sometimes 😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Nightstarr, excellent points.


On Arti's self esteem:


Self esteem is so precious and so fragile. Like many mentioned, sadly that is what Aarti is lacking.😭 However, I don't think her low self esteem manifested just by Prashant's betrayal. I think it took roots in her way before Prashant entered her life, maybe from the time she lost her parents. She mentioned that she doesn't even remember their faces. Then, who guided her through her younger years? Was there anyone she could depend on? Her need to feel that she belonged to someone probably propelled her into Prashant's arms. Raising her self esteem is something only she can do, by facing some hard truths. And again I think this is where Yash will play a role because he will be the catalyst that will push her into taking this journey of self reflection.


On Aarti being weak:


Also, about Aarti's character being weak, I am not sure if I am completely sold on that one. The way I see it, strength and weakness are two sides of the same coin. You can be strong in certain areas but weak in certain others and vice versa. And what makes you rise above your emotional weakness is your awareness about your self and about people who are important to you. In Aarti's case it will be the 3 important men in her life: Prashant, Ansh and Yash. So, if one day she is quick to wield the hockey stick does not mean she will every time. At certain times it will take her longer to wield the hockey stick. But tomorrow for the sake of us -the audience- I hope she does it with Prashant. 😕

Now that Prashant is truly what I would call a weak character.😡

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Posted: 13 years ago
#84

Originally posted by: jyoti06


...so Prashant wants to get sadistic pleasure by seeing Aarti coming to meet him with hopes thinking he might return back and then he will royally crush those hopes in the mandir to satisfy his male ego




@jyoti - So true... Wanted to smack that all knowing smirk off his face...

I truly get Aarti's desperation to try and work things out with Prashant - something which Prashant knows.. And he uses it to his advantage.. He is playing with her mind this way, dropping in in her life every once in a while - to make sure that he is always on her mind... So that she will never be able to truly get over him.. The only way Aarti will see Prashant's true colors, is when his actions will hurt Ansh or will try to separate her from Ansh.. Hope tomorrow's confrontation paves way for that..

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Posted: 13 years ago
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@angake :
What you said about her being lonely when she fell in love with Prashant seems very likely what happened.. For he picked a time when she was most vulnerable, brought her out of her loneliness, gave her a home and family, and then packed up and left - without a proper explanation probably.. thrusting her back into the depths of her loneliness and despair, craving for him to come back and bring her out of it, like he did the first time..

I get the feeling that fact that the husband who promised her worlds of happiness, abandoned her is something that hasn't yet sunk in her. She is still waiting for her fairy-tale life with her - it makes me want to puke to call Prashant this - Prince charming... She has been living life on autopilot waiting for him to come back to her.. Once call from him shakes her to the core.. The reality of her marriage ending has not yet sunk in her for her to even think of giving someone else Prashant's place in her life..

Same with Yash, I feel that he is more unwilling than Aarti in this marriage.. Aarti has the hope that Prashant will come back to take her away from this whole fiasco, but Yash doesn't even have that... Both are like two islands surrounded by deep waters of fears and insecurities, to even begin to think about letting go of the past..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Angake :Aarti's weakness is her past where she is still stuck up feeling guilty since mayb she thinks she was also at fault why Prashant left her since mayb Prashant wanted an independent lifestyle while Aarti was more into family and kids 🤔...
Once she is freed from this guilt and she is sure in her mind and heart that only and only Prashant was responsilbe for it ,she will make it her strength to move ahead in life ...I m hoipng this will come tomorrow ...😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Sns23 :Yup he might demand for Ansh's custody or might give her good news regarding his own marriage or his GF's pregnency 😆..this will make Aarti realise what kind of moron this Prashant is 😡..and this will make her feel much better to go ahead with this remarriage 😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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My POV.. Prashant is coming back for laying claim on Ansh ...Male ego..he cannot see her getting married to a better fellow...that too if he has been dumped by his GF :/ or he needs Ansh his progeny...cause Prashant cannot have kids any more 😕...Poetic justice if he is shooting blanks now and can't bear to see Yash become his beta's daddy now 🤔
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thank you for the update,
Aarti is a sensible, hope she realizes that she needs to forget Prashant and move ahead in life for herself and her son. Yash and Aarti being in the same temple was a good sign this will bring the positive thought that they can see future together,
The main parts of these two in temple made the episode moving in good direction.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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great analysis all...today i just want to talk about one thing..and it relates to jyos post
Aarti's desperation for Prashant ..Is it love or just a safe excuse to avoid Remarriage ?? :


See i dont know why but from the moment we found out prashant was back i wasnt completely sold that aarti wanted to meet him just bc she's still in love with him...oh dont get me wrong she's still in love with the IDEA of him, but id ont think is in love with the real hiim (which she will quickly be reminded of when the reality check happens). And i also started to think that prashant offerred her the getaway card she had secretly been searching for. Aarti's not sold on this remarriage, the only driving force behind this whole idea is to give ansh a papa. But if she can get ansh's REAL papa back then she doesnt have to worry about who Yash really is, whether hes a player whether he'll be good father...and i wont even began to talk about the crazy in lawas. I mean seriously if prashant comes back then everyone (at least hte ppl she loves) wins, the dubeys get their son, ansh gets a dad, and i think the most important thing for her isnt that she gets a husband, BUT that she gets to STAY where she WANTS to be...with her mom and dad...

plus lets not forget she thinks yash is a creep, she KNOWS his parents are creeps, and frankly anyone would run i know i would...besides she was absolutely fine with the life she was leading previously...so if this simple interaction with prashant could fix EVERYTHING...then you know she's gonna tak the chance...

i agree tht seh is carrying an illusion of who prashant is...and this meeting needs to happen at some point she needs closure not only on her past but to see the kind of man prashant REALLY is..tht way when she sees the honorable man in yash she will have no choice but to have heart thaw...i actually think its a good thing this interaction is occuring earlier than i had expected, its gonna be the force that carries aarti into her new life not constantly lookin over her shoulder for the man she thought she wanted, but to look forward at the man she deserves...


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