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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: carisma2

@ bold... I chose this format very carefully... 😉

Public throw out was carried out by SS.. So it cannot be taken as evidence.. sorry.

did his silence while it was happening not imply his approval of what SS did? ... or when the cops came to arrest her?
I guess what I'm really trying to point out is that the slap & the hospital incidents were not premeditated public events... but the concert today was a well planned & executed event so I for one wouldn't put both under the same umbrella.
Edited by yemi3006 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: yemi3006

did his silence while it was happening not imply his approval of what SS did? ... or when the cops came to arrest her?
I guess what I'm really trying to point out is that the slap & the hospital incidents were not premeditated public events... but the concert today was a well planned & executed event so I for one wouldn't put both under the same unmbrella.

Thankyou - your view is valuable...
The slap incident - was one I thoroughly enjoyed.. but in prat'z place I would not have done this in public... bec to an extent in my view in desperate measures even - one should not publicise domestics on the road. Even Krishna.. was wrong to make this plan, especially where as he has always shown that he likes to try and sort his problems out in the Kriya bedroom. Because now all her neighbours are aware of the situation too. Though the performance was brill. a pleasure to watch..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: carisma2

You may feel this is a double meaning post... But the I wouldn't be the only one to write one - would I be Pragmatic?



What 😲 So you are openly admitting that this is a double meaning post 😆

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: PRAGMATIC



What 😲 So you are openly admitting that this is a double meaning post 😆

Like I said you may feel that it is.
there is no meaning in the post that any intelligent member will miss.
It is a clear case of does the former statement contradict with the latter statement. Yes or no?
In yemi's view - It doesn't.
In Anondo's 2 words yes it does.
For me - it is confusing - Bec both were wrong... but did something similar. In Yemi's defense to Pratz - her actions were an act of impulse and Krishna's was a well sought one.
Edited by carisma2 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: carisma2

Thankyou - your view is valuable...

The slap incident - was one I thoroughly enjoyed.. but in prat'z place I would not have done this in public... bec to an extent in my view in desperate measures even - one should not publicise domestics on the road. Even Krishna.. was wrong to make this plan, especially where as he has always shown that he likes to try and sort his problems out in the Kriya bedroom. Because now all her neighbours are aware of the situation too. Though the performance was brill. a pleasure to watch..

well... considering that its just his 2nd attemt its not a surprise he crashed & burned 😆 but really, the answer to what krish needs to do to get her back to their room lies within himslef... he just hasn't dug deep enough into his memories to find it... (no suprise since he's allergic to deep thoughts 😛😆)
Prats responds better when he talks to her about whats going on inside him in a calm & matured way... re: the adda speech & the surrender scene speech.
Personally i wish the CV aren't going the filmy route with him threatening suicide (if the TC article is to be believed)...
But It would have been nice to see him come to the house and ask to speak privately and maybe take her up to the GH terrace...then tells her what he told his family... that a piece of paper doesnt define his marriage to her (since thats whats hurt the most... that he so easily sanctioned the end of their marriage ... and whether she voices it or not, I think she's scared and her hesitation is purely out of self preservation)
then he can tell her about the day he went to get the tattoo removed... and how the reason that made him not remove it is the very reason he wants her back in his life... that their souls are intertwined for eternity whether they like it or not. And after the jolt that SDS's sheneigans gave them by attempting to rip the soul apart, he's even more determined that neither one of them go thru such pain again ... so 1st come back home and then we figure out where to go from there
Now tell me which girl wouldn't swoon when the love of your life looks in your eyes and tell this to you... with no drama, just straight from the heart honest talk 😍
Edited by yemi3006 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Yemi Kiddos to u. u said it right. yeap that is what prats wants and krishna has to understand that. that is what she tells by changing him. to mature and do it in private . she is a private person. she loves to show her love also in private. what all she did for him. well said yemi👏👏⭐️
well... considering that its just his 2nd attemt its not a surprise he crashed & burned 😆 but really, the answer to what krish needs to do to get her back to their room lies within himslef... he just hasn't dug deep enough into his memories to find it... (no suprise since he's allergic to deep thoughts 😛😆)
Prats responds better when he talks to her about whats going on inside him in a calm & matured way... re: the adda speech & the surrender scene speech.
But It would have been nice to see him come to the house and ask to speak privately and maybe take her up to the GH terrace...then tells her what he told him family... that a piece of paper doesnt define his marriage to her (since thats whats hurt the most... that he so easily sanctioned the end of their marriage )
Yemi i also think what bothers Prats is that how can he sign the papers so easily without any thoughts abt their relationship and says he loves her to his heart. that is what bothering her a lot.
then he can tell her about the day he went to get the tattoo removed... and how the reason that made him not remove it is the very reason he wants her back in his life... that their souls are intertwined for eternity whether they like it or not. And after the jolt that SDS's sheneigans gave them by attempting to rip the soul apart, he's even more determined that neither one of them go thru such pain again ... so 1st come back home and then we figure out where to go from there
Now tell me which girl wouldn't swoon when the love of your life looks in your eyes and tell this to you... with no drama, just straight from the heart honest talk 😍Yeap yemi that is what she wants ya she wants to hear it from his heart. i know now people will say he said sorry and he talked first. but he has hurt prats so much . she won;t do it at first attempt she will take time. when krishna was behaving bad withher we all wanted that prats shouldn;t forgive him so fast. he has to learn how he is hurting his love of life.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: laks76

Yemi Kiddos to u. u said it right. yeap that is what prats wants and krishna has to understand that. that is what she tells by changing him. to mature and do it in private . she is a private person. she loves to show her love also in private. what all she did for him. well said yemi👏👏⭐️

well... considering that its just his 2nd attemt its not a surprise he crashed & burned 😆 but really, the answer to what krish needs to do to get her back to their room lies within himslef... he just hasn't dug deep enough into his memories to find it... (no suprise since he's allergic to deep thoughts 😛😆)
Prats responds better when he talks to her about whats going on inside him in a calm & matured way... re: the adda speech & the surrender scene speech.
But It would have been nice to see him come to the house and ask to speak privately and maybe take her up to the GH terrace...then tells her what he told him family... that a piece of paper doesnt define his marriage to her (since thats whats hurt the most... that he so easily sanctioned the end of their marriage )
Yemi i also think what bothers Prats is that how can he sign the papers so easily without any thoughts abt their relationship and says he loves her to his heart. that is what bothering her a lot.
then he can tell her about the day he went to get the tattoo removed... and how the reason that made him not remove it is the very reason he wants her back in his life... that their souls are intertwined for eternity whether they like it or not. And after the jolt that SDS's sheneigans gave them by attempting to rip the soul apart, he's even more determined that neither one of them go thru such pain again ... so 1st come back home and then we figure out where to go from there
Now tell me which girl wouldn't swoon when the love of your life looks in your eyes and tell this to you... with no drama, just straight from the heart honest talk 😍Yeap yemi that is what she wants ya she wants to hear it from his heart. i know now people will say he said sorry and he talked first. but he has hurt prats so much . she won;t do it at first attempt she will take time. when krishna was behaving bad withher we all wanted that prats shouldn;t forgive him so fast. he has to learn how he is hurting his love of life.



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For you both, Yemi and Laks 👏, for some reason, I didn't wanted to get into a serious discussion today. I tried my best for the last few days to say what you have posted here so well !!! Yemi 👏.

Edited by PRAGMATIC - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: yemi3006


well... considering that its just his 2nd attemt its not a surprise he crashed & burned 😆but really, the answer to what krish needs to do to get her back to their room lies within himslef... he just hasn't dug deep enough into his memories to find it... (no suprise since he's allergic to deep thoughts 😛😆)
Prats responds better when he talks to her about whats going on inside him in a calm & matured way... re: the adda speech & the surrender scene speech.
Personally i wish the CV aren't going the filmy route with him threatening suicide (if the TC article is to be believed)...
But It would have been nice to see him come to the house and ask to speak privately and maybe take her up to the GH terrace...then tells her what he told his family... that a piece of paper doesnt define his marriage to her (since thats whats hurt the most... that he so easily sanctioned the end of their marriage ... and whether she voices it or not, I think she's scared and her hesitation is purely out of self preservation)
then he can tell her about the day he went to get the tattoo removed...and howthe reason that made him not remove it is the very reason he wants her back in his life... that their souls are intertwined for eternity whether they like it or not. And after thejolt that SDS's sheneigans gave them by attempting to rip the soul apart,he's even more determined that neither one of them go thru such pain again... so 1stcome back home and then we figure out where to go from there
Now tell me which girl wouldn't swoon when the love of your life looks in your eyes and tell this to you... with no drama, just straight from the heart honest talk 😍

you absolutely right and I agree, they need to communicate and that is their problem, in his thaks family they do everything but talk. Regarding reunion, I don't want her to forgive him...just yet. Of they get back together then I don't want her to reform him. Working on his positives would be more better.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: yemi3006

did his silence while it was happening not imply his approval of what SS did? ... or when the cops came to arrest her?
I guess what I'm really trying to point out is that the slap & the hospital incidents were not premeditated public events... but the concert today was a well planned & executed event so I for one wouldn't put both under the same umbrella.

And How abt putting his thumb print on the divorce papers... did he not put his marriage at risk???? Whatever he does in anger , its fine n something P said in anger creates ripples here...
I know ur point i sa valid one... but he did so many things tht cannot equals her lost... he sent his wife to jail, he didn't even bothered to look at, why he didn't even thought of her whn she was in jail, how she will be behind bars... for loving him, she went thru so many... n I would say he too went thru lots... but the thing is he has to grow... thts what she expects from him n nothing else...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hi Cari,

Pratigya's behavior after K's performance is justifiable and very natural in the circumstances. It cannot be forgotten so easily what this woman went through at the hands of the husband who promised to be by her side. What did he do in return? Abandoned her, the time she needed him the most. Disregarded her existence in his life. He let the police drag her in front of him and while he silently watched her miserable state. He then declared that she had no place either in his heart or his house. And above all he literally divorced her by putting his thumb on the papers. Cari, it is next to impossible for any wife to digest the fact.

I personally feel that the cvs are very partial towards the males. They spent about 2 months showing K's hatred and anger towards P and in return just a week for redeeming him. What nonsense? I would not want P to forgive him so soon. The message is a man can be stubborn and get away by threatening to kill himself and the poor wife has to accept the situation out of pressure. Where is the justice here?

I seriously would want P to keep a distance from him once they get back together. Cari, the cvs have spoiled Kriya for me and the way they have planned the reunion is not a sensible one.

Anu
Edited by anusarkar - 14 years ago

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