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Posted: 14 years ago
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hmm since i did not participated in the game so no right of me to comment in this thread but as far as the discussions going healthy i dont mind to discuss .now the talks r on p wanting to change k see i think prats want him to b a good responsible man as se has to spend her life with krishna and she is thinking about her making a family with k she saw that when k was not working his family members treated him like shit so she just wanted her future to b secured and as a wife she has every right to think about it plus i feel there is a lot f pressure on her as she feels she is the only one who can change or reform k as no one in house is least bothered wether he works or not thats why shes thinking too much and as a wife worried its not only p changing k in krishnas love pratigya has changed a lot remember in her house men women sit together at dining table and eat together but in tn in krishnas home its not like that she adjusted her self she changed herself because she loves krishna the day k said to her u have duties regarding this house too we can she her less visiting to her parents house and k can see all this thats why he wanted to change for her too its in a marriage both partners need to b changed need to b reformed this all changing shows there love and respect towards each other in the nd long live mkap
🤗to all of u i hope i havenot offended anyone i never meant to do so
stay haappy keep smiling and long live mkap
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Posted: 14 years ago
#72
she does not need a husband but a puppet that is voice operated and programmed to her bhashans
honestly i am losing interest in this show...because of thischaracter...
should havegone in politics...so what happenedto her articles...
cant she get free advertising for dhaba with paper...
already ff mumfordgunj parts...komal has more loyalty and chutzpah than her.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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True..again the only issue here is both K and P are too diff..only Love binds them together

P changed a lot for K...KL too changed a lot for P..he was taunted by his own parents , but he supported P.. he always supported her...P started to support him/love him after she realised he was not behind the kidnapping...as far as P wanting K to be like her dad... I feel she wants him to be like her dad...coz for her thats the way a perfect man is..cant blame her...girls do tend to idolize their Dad.. I do too..😆, but believe me my hubby is the complete opposite 😭
...but you cant ,ever marry your ideal man...and you cant change a man..I mean can Shakti 🤢 ever change? But you can gently push a person to the right path...if that person is ready to change

P too gave up her dreams for K...but some where they lost the spark..you have to work on your marriage..talk..communicate... if you cant understand each other/or allow other feelings/issues to get in between...thats where the break starts..


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Posted: 14 years ago
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@prernacda== Loosing interest in the show( I totally understand)...I started becoming active when I felt the show is loosing its charm..I started watching coz I loved P's icy cool nature when dealing with the ruthless Thakurs, and K's fiery response to his problems..


After the bigamy track🤢 when the "MISTAKE" was forgiven so easily..I mean, that was the limit...this show started to go downhill...Come On..we have two strong leads..unlike other soaps where Saas and Bahu are the leads... Pearl Madam should read our posts... I mean viewers saw how P supported her dad(angad killing/murder- Sax did let go of angad's hand...murder/accident I dont care..he did it for his beti) and Arushi(she was the reason for Kesar's horrific ordeal)

, then why not K(He beat up radhe--again only after his Wife's dream was threatened)? Dont bail him out if its against your usool...at least talk/listen to him...until he said sorry she ignored him...


K and P should forge their own path...and P should loosen up a bit. life is not a technical manual where books have all the answers..and K should calm down a bit..bashing up guys whenever anything goes wrong will not solve anything...K should understand Revenge is a dish which tastes better when its cold
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@mishti- is it just P's job to try n understand K? Is it not K's job too understand P? N here P nearly lost her life just to keep him out of jail n he had promised her never to resort to violence again...but what did he do? He not only broke his promise(so many times in the past too) but also lied to her again(so many times) n P is not even allowed to b rightfully angry n hurt but must support him like some slave...when K always lies n breaks her trust n claimes to love her people find reasons to justify him but when P gets angry at him rightfully then she is bashed...P is not changing him for her selfish motives but for his own good...P is GOD's gift to K who has never known true love in his life n is living among false pretended hidden n fake relationships in the form of his father n mother... If u look at K u will see that its only P's n TC's love to him that is true,pure n eternal devoid of any hidden face,agenda n selfish motives...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@dhakarn--I never bashed P...why do you say that?I just said that if she can support her Dad(He Killed angad) and Arushi...why did she not listen to K..I also said dont bail him out..just listen to him..he lied to her...fine...that was wrong...but tell do you really think that P never made a mistake?No one is perfect...K is hot headed,violent..P flips flops on idealism...Why one set of rules for her family and another set of rules for K? Again Arushi knowingly committed bigamy , a major crime..thats forgiven coz she is "BACHI"...K who was born in a violent family and was trying to change for P...reacted after his dream was burnt down...and P id not even listen or talk to him ?

P took a bullet...but K sucked poison out of her...saved her...when he was technically in shock...when he thought that she had betrayed him...thats what a marriage is...Husband and wife are there for each other...

As I said my analysis is based on what I understood...I still feel K should calm down and think bfr he acts...but P too should at least listen to K and not start bhashans whenever he tries to talk to her...as noted earlier...for 26 years he lived in a very diff /ruthless env...and without his support she would not have survived in TN..especially in the earlier days for their marriage...also I noticed that P's supporter's never comment about her support for arushi or her dad..when they both committed major crimes(legally they were wrong--if she understands their POV...she can at least try to understand K---AGAIN--don't bail him out---just listen /talk to him or at least talk to TC)

We all know P is a good wife...even K knows that...but I would like to say this respectfully 😃 that K is trying to be a good husband too...I am not a K deewani..but I understand that idealism cannot survive without a dash of realism.


Hopefully the coming track will try to show how K and P forge a better marriage where there is a mutual compatibility..😊 and both retain their identity..so Peace ...we all love MKAP---we just have diff POV...
Edited by mishti1983 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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house men women sit together at dining table and eat together but in tn in krishnas home its not like that she adjusted her self she changed herself because she loves krishna the day k said to her u have duties regarding this house too we can she her less visiting to her parents house and k can see all this thats why he wanted to change for her too its in a marriage both partners need to b changed need to b reformed this all changing shows there love and respect towards each other in the nd long live mkap
🤗to all of u i hope i havenot offended anyone i never meant to do so
stay haappy keep smiling and long live mkap Waa well said nazia. i think the bold one everyone has to understand that is what a marriage means. both have to change,adjust and sacrifise. it is a selfless bond. both have to support and be there for each other. nazia all said in couple of sentences. nice one liked it.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: laks76

house men women sit together at dining table and eat together but in tn in krishnas home its not like that she adjusted her self she changed herself because she loves krishna the day k said to her u have duties regarding this house too we can she her less visiting to her parents house and k can see all this thats why he wanted to change for her too its in a marriage both partners need to b changed need to b reformed this all changing shows there love and respect towards each other in the nd long live mkap

🤗to all of u i hope i havenot offended anyone i never meant to do so
stay haappy keep smiling and long live mkap Waa well said nazia. i think the bold one everyone has to understand that is what a marriage means. both have to change,adjust and sacrifise. it is a selfless bond. both have to support and be there for each other. nazia all said in couple of sentences. nice one liked it.

thanks dear 😊🤗
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramanbabitha

Every woman look out for her father's qualities in her man... if she really respects him... its a psychological thing and its proven... But P sure is not expecting tht simple Shyam Saxena in K... she just wants her hubby to be good and out of problems, which every wife thinks...

Babs... you know my threads are done with light entertainment and fun... not all are looking for serious bakaity threads.. and like a bit of light entertainment. I never said this was wrong if P is looking for K TO BE MORE PRINCIPLED, HONEST, LAW ABIDING.. to have the same qualities as her father. Because P to follows her dad more than her mum. She talks about her dad being more the perfect citizen, she never mentions her mum being the ideal wife. Because despite Naina's crying, she has always been a good wife and mother. Even Komal has more praises for Naina then her own daughters.
In a nutshell... In my POV upto a certain extent now.. I also think this merge has an element of truth.
You may not believe that.. and my job is not to make you conform because in your POV I'm sure you are right and I respect that. Many things which were not meant to offend people take it in a offensive way...
People need to lighten up.. and go with the flow again.. I know everyone's stress levels are high due to the recent track.. but all are different. My threads are to cater for the different POV's of this forum.. I do not side one party. For God sake I tried to be fair with Arushi... But people took that out of context too.
Hence I decided to walk off this forum... Let this ship sink, Lets see how long bakaity alone will keep it alive.
When you guys have discussions, you will hardly see me coming in and cutting you off, unless I feel something is taken out of context...Infact whether I agree with you or disagree, I'll press like on your post just to Thankyou for coming to my post and participating and sharing your POV. I do not like to insult people's thoughts or work. I also expect the same.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: dhakarn

@carisma : SS accuses P of trying to change K to sax n taunts K for it when all P wants is K to do what is right...surely SS was barking n insulting K in his anger...the CV's r intending to show SS anger n irritation in that scene...this is why i said the CV's have failed in conveying their ideas , they show some thing n we see something ...pls give me any scene in which P wants K to b like Prof...if u r taking SS's taunts as true then by that theory K is also a naamard, naalayak, kutta n what not...n like amma said to P one day she is not prof's daughter , n like dadi says komal is dividing n destroying their house, like sakthi says K is 'kutte ki dum' who will never change for good, K who considers P as his life, breath n what not once said to her that he considers marrying her is a mistake, P called K a man lacking manhood etc etc n video evidence can b provided too...

Thanks Dhakarn... I see the underlying problem that you have with this post - is the fact that it has offended you. If it was a mere figment of my imagination then many people would not have agreed.
The inspiration for this idea came from SS''s words. Now MKAP doesn't always give you the answers of what it is portraying. This is where you stretch your own initiative and and figure 'out of the box'. With Literature... without being emotionally attach.. look at all the angles of a particular dialogue, track, action. Search for the irony and search for hints... for future tracks. Because of this habbit of mine, I can see both the good and the bad in the characters, the bloopers and also by the time I reach the end or a mystery.horror film or book - I already have guessed the culprit.
But that's beside the point.
In my POV and in the POV of many others they can see a transformation in K's character and u'd think where will it lead to in order to please Pratigya. He is satisfied with the way she is and that's what he wanted. Dhaks.. you come and go and give your opinions... but my role on the forum is different to yours. Like when you write your FFT, you possibly concentrate on the romance of Kriya, but not Komash, because you know people will not be interested. But some of us are, I Like the Komash jodi too, When I came to this forum I liked both the Jodi's - but importance was always given to Kriya. So you cater for your audience. I have to cater for the majority of the audience here who have different POV's. I do not side into any group. I keep my views open on both sides in line with the current track. My role here is to entertain. Even FFT for me is a bakaity thread.. but I do that at the request of my friends here who want my view and take on things. Again that too I try and cater for all readers, silent readers too. I could disclude the Sax's but I'm sure there are many out there who do like them, and enjoy a discussion on them.
Dhaks... you know my threads are done with light entertainment and fun... not all are looking for serious bakaity threads.. and like a bit of light entertainment. I never said this was wrong if P is looking for K TO BE MORE PRINCIPLED, HONEST, LAW ABIDING.. to have the same qualities as her father. Because P to follows her dad more than her mum. She talks about her dad being more the perfect citizen, she never mentions her mum being the ideal wife. Because despite Naina's crying, she has always been a good wife and mother. Even Komal has more praises for Naina then her own daughters.
In a nutshell... In my POV upto a certain extent now.. I also think this merge has an element of truth.
You may not believe that.. and my job is not to make you conform because in your POV I'm sure you are right and I respect that. Many things which were not meant to offend people take it in a offensive way...
People need to lighten up.. and go with the flow again.. I know everyone's stress levels are high due to the recent track.. but all are different. My threads are to cater for the different POV's of this forum.. I do not side one party. For God sake I tried to be fair with Arushi... But people took that out of context too.
I never said that Pratiya has implied this.. but through SS's words to an extent the show HAS.
Its about our thoughts extended, as to would this be the ideal hubby for P. Because I have always thought that upto an extent K was rather ideal. Regarding working.. he never thought he had to.. or that he will join his dad's business. He never realised that he will marry P, who will not like him to get imvolved in SS's business. (Which in her way, she is right).
Hence I decided to walk off this forum... Let this ship sink, Lets see how long bakaity alone will keep it alive.
When you guys have discussions, you will hardly see me coming in and cutting you off, unless I feel something is taken out of context...Infact whether I agree with you or disagree, I'll press like on your post just to Thankyou for coming to my post and participating and sharing your POV. I do not like to insult people's thoughts or work. I also expect the same.
Enough said from me... or else you might fall asleep.

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