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Originally posted by: stillhopeful

why should Krish say or do anything when neither Kesar or Arushi have indicated that they are in the slightest bit offended or victimized by the arrangement

casper kesar keeps making mournful faces yet is happy to be allowed the privelige of living in the house like an unwanted third arm😲😲😲 and is every willing to service (non-sexually) the man who has abandoned her without the batting of even an eyelash for several other women.

I see nothing wrong in Krishna's attitude.

Live and let live

if nobody in his family has a problem with it especially the victims why should he?

Plus prats has done nothing to stop the marriage....she even escorted Aarushi to her room to have her SR!! Now when K asks her why the long face she says KN is not the right guy for Aarushi That's it.... He is bound to think prats has a prob with his family and she's creating unnecessary tensions.....I think K has suppressed a lot of his own feelings/opinions for prats's sake...he was always the one compromising in that relationship.....realistically he is bound to explode one day. Maybe it's his pent up frustrations that are coming out now.....P & K are two radically different persons with very different mindset and I would like CVs to address that in their marriage. That is a concept I was interested in when I started watching the show. How two people unfit for each other go through an unlikely marriage and make it work?

Originally posted by: shy2729

Let me put in my two bits as bluntly as possible. We all know K was totally besotted with her P.Since there was no major reason for P to break her marriage, she decides to carry on with life, marriage and all its concomitants. She was doing whatever she was meant to be doing as a good wife. I feel that woman like P would have been truly fulfilled if she had a level of mental compatibility with her husband.

Kriya's relation is based not so much on pure love but on the practical premise of give and take. Nothing wrong with it really, provided you are not

fooling yourself by thinking of this as love.Its unfortunate but true that marriage does not necessarily mean culmination of love. P wants supports in order to exist in that enemy territory. K gives her that and gets what he wants!

K wants carnal pleasures and P's constant company. Gets that and declares her support even on issues he cares two hoots for like the KN's remarriage.

Anything based on such a weak premise was sure to get jolted some day.A is just a flimsy excuse.

K and P were mutually humouring each other but after while this can get tedious and taxing and this is what is happening now. The real personilities have to come out. You cannot go on faking your POV forever. The real Kriya story starts when they like each other after the masks are off.

My views may be controversial but think about it.

Originally posted by: Aeryn

I agree with what you said except that I think that K's humouring has more to do with his love for P.

A guy just wanting carnal pleasures and company would have not traded his life for the gal and would have packed his bags a lot sooner IMO. The thing is he's more attached to this farce of a marriage a lot more than P. He wants a marriage with her and sex is a part of it ---nothing is wrong there. He's afraid of loosing her hence is willing to compromise with his real feelings and convictions .....but I have to agree that realistically he's bound to explode someday, constantly repressing your own feelings can proved to be mentally exhausting....There would be a time when he won't be able to humour her anymore and they would have to have a heart to heart discussion regarding their relationship's future.

K takes marriage as complete package where physicality plays a major role. There is no doubting his commitment but I feel he gets irritated with P's priggishness and preachy behaviour ( can't blame him tho') but puts up with it just so that his applecart does not get upset and P's bad mood does not spoil his day and nite! That's where he tries to humour her .

Edited by shy2729 - 14 years ago

Originally posted by: shy2729

Let me put in my two bits as bluntly as possible. We all know K was totally besotted with her P.Since there was no major reason for P to break her marriage, she decides to carry on with life, marriage and all its concomitants. She was doing whatever she was meant to be doing as a good wife. I feel that woman like P would have been truly fulfilled if she had a level of mental compatibility with her husband.

Kriya's relation is based not so much on pure love but on the practical premise of give and take. Nothing wrong with it really, provided you are not

fooling yourself by thinking of this as love.Its unfortunate but true that marriage does not necessarily mean culmination of love. P wants supports in order to exist in that enemy territory. K gives her that and gets what he wants!

K wants carnal pleasures and P's constant company. Gets that and declares her support even on issues he cares two hoots for like the KN's remarriage.

Anything based on such a weak premise was sure to get jolted some day.A is just a flimsy excuse.

K and P were mutually humouring each other but after while this can get tedious and taxing and this is what is happening now. The real personilities have to come out. You cannot go on faking your POV forever. The real Kriya story starts when they like each other after the masks are off.

My views may be controversial but think about it.