Originally posted by: Dreamygal301
Krishna has been deeply insulted by his sasurji today. For right in his face his sasurji said no one from the Thakurs can come but he turns around and said P should attend. He made no mention of his SIL - the one who showed time after time how much his wife means to him. He even gave his life for her.
Krishna should now take a firm stand and refuse to step into the Saxs house at all. Pratigya should look deep inside herself. If she loves her husband and wants to be in this marriage then she should acknowledge that her husband has been slighted by her own parents and therefore take the stand to support him. Which means saying no. She should take this stand always to show to her family that her husband means a lot.
If she attends the wedding without him, a pattern will be set. The IG won't stop at this, there will be many other functions where the sisters would need to attend...once P comes alone, it will be expected for her to come to those as well - alone.
To my eyes, no marriage will survive this. P is showing to her family and the Mathurs that they mean so much she is willing to set aside her own husband and attend their functions without him. To K the message is given that he is only good enough for her to be seen with in his family and not within hers. That alone will crumble the marriage. These two have overcome so much and so many differences to nurture this wonderful love they have, a realistic love with warts and all. Even with a love like this, it still needs cossetting now and again - and this is one such a time. So I hope P does choose wisely.
But as I believe in irony, I have a feeling we will soon see guruji regretting throwing aside his elder SIL.....oh yes, the time crying is just around the corner...IG will show his true colours.