QUESTION OF THE DAY (OCT 7 2010)

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Today's questions.......lots to figure out so speculate away

1., Is Arushi walking into a lion's den worse than the one her sister did at the Takurs? don't know about it being worse, maybe equal in different ways. Her motormouth will get her in trouble. I suspect she will have to grow up quite quickly. From all the updates and discussions, the PC comes across as very cold - that will be something to watch out for.

2. What will or should Krishna's next move be? He is visibly shaken, insecure and unsure at the moment. He needs time to adjust to all that is happening. I think he should look around to see if there is anything he can do to contribute, that will stop his parents in their tracks. Moving out is still some way now, if ever. They cannot leave kesar now and if 2nd wedding is happening, then they need to be around. So best thing is he earns and pay their own way.

3. Are the Saxes really blind to the clues before them about the Mathurs? As I said before, too blinded by the white educational certificates😃. I'm thinking the CVs wanna show that education does not make the man, it is just a veneer and behind that this family is the same as the Thakurs. As for the Saxes, maybe they are desperate to get a good damaadh for one daughter - to the Kayasth, education is very important. I wonder if they have investigated the Mathur family? isn't it the case when rishta comes, you talk to others who may know the family and ask Qs about them?...I foresee more grief and strife for the Saxes, more tears and 'bhagwan, why do this to us'?

4. Whose picture is KN holding to SS that brings a smirk to his face? As I said in the update, I think it is Aarushi's...cannot think of anyone unless it is Pesiya?😃😃...Tomorrow I think SS's leg will shoot out and send KN flying across the room (think of those martial art films, crouching tiger...😆)...Their blood is going cold at the thought of another Sax girl in their house...the first one is already a big, big, big headache to them....😆😆

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Today's questions.......lots to figure out so speculate away

1., Is Arushi walking into a lion's den worse than the one her sister did at the Takurs?

It looks like a dark lion's den. Their incredibly complex family of orientation and pre-war situations is already giving us a headache. Their family status quo sounds tad boring, something like the father is concerned with parking space, the children with outer space, and the mother with closet space. 😆I can see troubles ahead for Sax-girl.

2. What will or should Krishna's next move be? He is visibly shaken, insecure and unsure at the moment.

Actually I am ok with how life is throwing K a couple of curve balls. What I feel is K needs a rude awakening! He cannot live forever under a great deception that life is about letting Thakurs usual tantrums/abuses/misdeeds fall on deaf ears, living in a laid-back life style without taking any responsibilities whatsoever and living under the weight of your parents. These few red flags of his insecurity syndrome thats been going up might not be just a phase...but his instincts talking to him. K has started feeling it in his bones, his skin, and most importantly his gut. "No regrets, just lessons learned".

Next move? Lay out your options..do your homework...straighten it out keeping in mind what he wants in his life, what is his part as a loving and responsible husband? He wants to be a Thakur laadla or a truthful daddy's boy? This mightn't apply to Shakti but to K because K has that potential to front a standard life in a non-thakurian-way!

3. Are the Saxes really blind to the clues before them about the Mathurs?

Yeap!...Educated Fools 😆

4. Whose picture is KN holding to SS that brings a smirk to his face?
If it's Arushi, I wonder why would that bring SS a smirk to his face , can't think 😕

Well if it was to Amma's face, I would say its her thinking "Aaayegi yek aur Padhi likhi Maharani Elizabeth mere pairon ki paani pine (feet washed water)😆😡"

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Today's questions.......lots to figure out so speculate away

1., Is Arushi walking into a lion's den worse than the one her sister did at the Takurs? Hmm, I don't think it can get any worse than the Thakurs, but they're probably just as bad. The families are very similar. These Mathur's try to put up a happy front while a volcano is bubbling underneath, the Thakur's volcano is always erupting. The PC seems unnecessarily strict, kind of like SS. A powerful man, wanting absolute control over the house. Then the son(Gaurav=shakti) who obeys the dad, but has his own issues. A docile bahu (Gaurav's wife=Kesar), A good upstanding son (Krishna=Aman). The CVs probably just want to show how an educated family can be just as dysfunctional as an uneducated one, and how Arushi's problem's will be kind of similar to Prats post marriage.

2. What will or should Krishna's next move be? He is visibly shaken, insecure and unsure at the moment. Aah, the honeymoon period is over. First, Krishna will become more and more demanding of Prats using her as a means to overcome all the stress his family is giving him. Then, when she's fed up of this attitude, they'll have a major fight, she'll threaten to run home to mummy papa, he'll regret but RED will try to convince him he's better of without her. Finally, he'll realise his family is troublesome, and will leave the house to make a Pratigya Niwas 😃.... ufff, what a weird story I made up 😆

3. Are the Saxes really blind to the clues before them about the Mathurs? They're too blinded by Aman, he glows like a tubelight you see😆 The glare from Aman's white milk-like complexion doesn't allow them to see anything else in his presence 😆

4. Whose picture is KN holding to SS that brings a smirk to his face? Must be some random new girl. It is definitely not Arushi coz SS/Amma would not be happy to see her. And KN is anyways not interested in "Marrying" Arushi 🤢