Love, Insecurity, Sex

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Amazing how a scene can leave you with so many emotions! A wrenched gut, a sense of wonder and awe, empathy and a feeling of inevitability.

My heart tore a tiny bit when Krishna ripped up a Pratigya for accepting Kesar's baby-clothes. He saw those not as a gift from a shattered woman but as discards being accepted by an indigent couple! That is how far off balance he is feeling, how wretched he is that he has been unable to provide for his wife, how deeply his self-esteem has been shaken. And typically, in the time-honoured way of a male who is not feeling very good about himself he lashes out at the woman. Suddenly now it is Pratigya who does not respect him, Pratigya who is at fault for doubting him. Pratigya who has not uttered a word!

Then later feeling further tormented by his own behavior, he seeks to assuage his tortured feelings with the best remedy known to a Man, that is, through sex. His wife is tired and emotionally wrung out, she wants the woman's way to peace, she pleads a need to rest. He turns on the lights and accuses her petulantly of not loving him. She realizes that his need is too great tonight and lets him have his way in the sweetest manner possible; playfully, romantically, without letting him know that she is being kind putting her own need away for his, which of course is the kindest thing women often do for love. It was poignant, a little tragic (because the very first flush of romantic love has been infected a little bit by the bile of the outside world) and still spoke of love, but in a whole new different way.

Pratigya is proving the strength of her love in every way!

Krishna however has been thrown a very severe challenge, his first steps faltered. May I add, as usual? But when have we ever known for Baba to ever really fail at anything. He is a spoilt man, he is a somewhat self-centered man, he is a man with an ego. He is basically a MAN. But he is also an extraordinary man. And however torturous the process may be for us his fans to see, it is one he will have to go through, Baba HAS to fall before he rises. But rise he will!๐Ÿ˜ƒ

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The awe that I felt is directed at the unbelievably talented CVs!! NO other TV show in this industry would have had the GUTS to bring in such a scene. They have no hesitancy whatsoever in shining the spotlight firmly at the warts of their most beloved characters! They don't hesitate to show us the many wonderful and not so great aspects of even the most loving relationship like KRIYA with crystal clarity. They don't hesitate to change, mutate, and evolve.

NOTHING is black and white in this show! Not even the relationship of KRIYA!! When most people would have hesitated to touch the golden goose, these CVs have the rare creative integrity to show us that some part of the goose is only brown and then they have the Talent to make us see that a mix of colours is actually even more beautiful!! KUDOS CVs โ€“ for the Nth time!!!๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘

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Kriya_4eva thumbnail
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I lubbed ur post n completely agree!๐Ÿ‘
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kriya_4eva

I lubbed ur post n completely agree!๐Ÿ‘



Thank you so much! The funny thing was, I was sitting there feeling so bad that uncomplicated Phase1 of the KRIYA relationship is over
, but lost in admiration about how deftly the CVs weave in Character, story, relationships, and dynamics so effortlessly! They never miss their timing or their cue!๐Ÿ‘
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree with u Dye...100%.U've put them so well...hats off to CVs....n ArJa who enacted it so well. i stared having the feeling both AB n PG got close n quite comfy with each other day after day....very REAL...They look like a REAL COUPLE.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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fantastic post dh--very well said--yes krishna was clearly insecure today--having lost the support of his parents whch he alwaz took for granted has taken its toll on him n he doesnt kno wat its all about-- he is visibly shaken--prats is the only shoulder he can now lean upon--how beautifully you hve said it all DH--๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Dyehard what a lovely post,๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ perfect analysis of the state of KriYa at this moment. Yes i think Krishna is absorbing so much and it is effecting his thinking big time. Conflicts within him is bringing frustration and pushing him towards some tough decisions. Soon something has to happen. This couple is getting more realistic and plausible, In fact they are getting more and more lovable.

Pratigya on the other hand is quietly bearing all kinds of pressures and abuses hurled at her. A big compliment to her temperament for understanding this situation and not making it more difficult for Krishna by complaining about even the most horrendous stuff taking place in their household at this time ๐Ÿ‘
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Posted: 15 years ago
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brilliant post dear..........๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘i actually felt a huge shock when i watched the night scene......i was dreading this situation would arise but never thought it will come so soon................๐Ÿ˜ญhe didn't even consider or was not at all concerned about pratigya's feelings and that's what is more hurting......๐Ÿ˜ญ
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: dhakarn

brilliant post dear..........๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘i actually felt a huge shock when i watched the night scene......i was dreading this situation would arise but never thought it will come so soon................๐Ÿ˜ญhe didn't even consider or was not at all concerned about pratigya's feelings and that's what is more hurting......๐Ÿ˜ญ

That's why the scene was so realistic. The CVs have shown us how a typical man reacts when
needing reassurance from his wife. God forbid that a woman doesn't feel well or is tired after a hard day, it's always 'you don't love me anymore'! Men are all the same that way, and Krishna's no exception. it was the oldest trick in the book, i know cos my husband's exactly the same!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Very eloquently expressed posts.straight from the heart..Beautiful !!
also i think Krishna's reaction today was very natural spl the events of past few days greatly impacted him emotionally & psycologically, his ego rised from the basket and growls and all of a sudden he started to feel lonely, separate, alone, like he does'nt belong to anyone,his home already turn to violent battlefield,SS rejection,amma's constant bitter words,prats more involment in family affairs then spending time with him all these insecurities has turned him little bitter but after all he is human and human being do react to every emotion and the night scene was his way to connect to his fundamental belonging that he thinks is only and only prats,her love and her warm embrace.
On the other hand prats response was no doubt a kind of surrender but i think It's also more to soften him,making him realise that love is not only blind,want,desire,but it is also surrender,give,trust,patient,embrace. It's her way to recieve peace with life, and become partner to her love arm in arm.she surrender bcoz life is an emergency, always demanding,out of control, vulnerable, fear-inducing. she reacted to fix and control it which is soo true to life.

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