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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rahm

The ball is in Pratigya's court right now. She can either make her relationship or completely break it.

I've mentioned this before, Krishna is a man of action. So far Pratigya's actions have shown that she feels for Krishna, but Krishna doesn't know the depths of her feelings as of yet. I don't think Pratigya even knows.

Pratigya has done pretty much everything else a wife does for Krishna except the one: giving herself to him. I feel that THAT gesture is the only thing that will snap in Krishna's head. This is something he believes epitomizes a husband and wife's relationship. He has tried and failed to get physically close to her. This is what Pratigya needs to do. She needs to surrender herself, not just the physical body, but the emotional as well. She has not yet declared to herself that she is in love with Krishna even though we can see that love pouring out of her. I want to see that deewanage that Krishna has for her. I want to see the tadap that he felt for her.

I don't think Krishna defended Pratigya today just because that is what he wants to show the outside world. I think deep down Krishna does believe Pratigya, but he's just angry, hurt, humiliated and too stubborn to let that truth come out in front of Pratigya.

I know that when Pratigya decides to give herself to him, he will not take it. Perhaps he will advance forward because he will be surprised and a bit shocked, but he won't take it. That particular scene will be explosive, but compared to when their union will finally take place it will as if it was the calm before the storm.

But before Pratigya actually gives herself to him, I'd like to see her declare to herself the love that she's feeling and the desire to want to be one with him--the man who stood by her like a rock irrespective of how much she had misunderstood the truth that his love held and to this day still does.

What do you all think? Should Pratigya give herself to him? Will this remove any doubt Krishna has of Pratigya's feelings?

absolutely bang on. everything that you have said is correct.
the only thing is that yes she can offer herself to him and that will make krish realsie. but i'd rather he'd not take her like this as it would seems like he is taking advantage of her, he'd be the bigger man if didnt take her like that. it would be the only gesture she can now do to win her husband. but if they do c of m what will that achieve if the doubts are not cleared in the first place?
for pratz the only thing i would say is he ball is not in her court. i think that baba is still holding on to the ball. she can tell him she loves him and offer herself but i don't think baba is willing to listen or understand, untill he's figured it out to himself. the damage is deep. (more than pratz he dont trust angad that he could not have done anything with her). even if he tries to beleive her his doubts about angad stop him.
untill he doesn't open up his feelings fully we're not going to fully know. but i don't see the c of m being the solution to the problem, he love has been deep for her, he has to accept her emotionally not just physically.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I loved your post! Yes I think she will surrender and he will reject but slowly he will realise that she loves him and is pure only then we will see C of M.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Thanks, you pretty much said it all.

Edited by Kasturilover - 15 years ago
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I don;t think they will union on this maha episode. there is lot of things they have to clear. They both have to talk heart to heart. they have to understand their feelings and pratigya has to realise that she is falling in love with krishna. krishna knows pratigya but he doesn;t fully understand her. theircommunication is very bad. they have to talk openly,freely and let their emotions,feeling s out. all the time one of them is on the top of the horse. For a union u have to get down to some leve. they both have a ego. so i think it will take time moreover this time krishna's mental state is bad. he is hurt,angry and he don; have faith. he is disturbed. in this state nobody takes a good decision and i think this will affect their relationship. let us see what CVs has for us.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rahm



He's angry for many reasons.

1. She misunderstood his love this entire time. She's been married to him for awhile and yet she refused to see his love or the goodness within him. Remember he said "tumhe kaise dikha nahi diya hum tumko kitna pyaar karte hain"

2. He could not defend her from Angad. If Angad was alive, Krishna would have killed him and removed that frustration. Right now he's angry because he couldn't save the love of his life from a disgusting man like Angad. Imagine how helpless he feels and how unman like he feels.

3. AFTER Pratigya found out the truth, she still hid it from him! He had to hear the truth in front of so many strangers. Why couldn't she have told him sooner and in the privacy of their room?

4. His family are talking so much negative stuff about this situation. He feels insulted yet he can't do anything because she did hide it from him. He's embarrassed because he never thought that there was no feeling from her side or that he would be betrayed like this.



Rahm, you've described Baba's state of mind very well. It's true his reasons for being unhappy are very complex. But the most important thing, I feel, is that he's feeling like a fool that he thought Pratigya loved him and she never did. He's angry with her for all those reasons - not becuase he really believes that she and Angad had a thing, or even that she's lying when she says that nothing actually happened.

He believes all the facts that Pratigya has told him. But he can't bring himself to be happy aobut it, to see her again like he saw her before - like a young girl that he was so attracted to and wanted to have at any cost. Now he sees her more completely and also their situation without the rose glasses. He saw that she felt harassed by him, that she married him by succumbing to pressure. He sees how rotten his family is - he's angry and disillusioned with everyone.

It'll take him a little time to be ok again and that's what he told her yesterday - sadme se bahar nahi aaye hain, abhi tak hum takleef mein hain.

Time, and a little Pratigya-TLC and he'll be fine 😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjalisharma200

great post. i do agree that it would be nice to see Pratigya admit to herself that she actually loves Krishna. and make krishna believe that she is also indeed in love with him. i am wondering what triggers in her mind to decide to surrender and how will she do it? does she remember krishna's words to place flowers on the bed or make a mark on the wall?

i also think that krishna at some level is also angry with pratigya's reason for marriage. she told him that she married since he kidnapped her. may be he also thinks that how could she think so low of him when he has always defended and respected her. no doubt he tried to get close to her but in krishna's mind that was okay to do.

does anybody think that arushi and aman's engagement may take place in the maha epi?



I wonder as well what would make her decide to surrender herself. I think it might be the fact that this is what she has denied him and this is what he believes epitomizes the love between a husband and a wife so perhaps to prove the love she does it?

I hope she goes with the flowers. 😃

Oh most definitely! It is a major shock for him because he had believed she had loved him when they got married. Her indifference towards him was something that confused him for so long and then for him to find out she only married him to save her family from more insults and because she felt that he would go to any lengths to marry her is definitely heart breaking for him.

I certainly hope not! I want the maha episode to be dedicated to Kriya only!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: laks76

I don;t think they will union on this maha episode. there is lot of things they have to clear. They both have to talk heart to heart. they have to understand their feelings and pratigya has to realise that she is falling in love with krishna. krishna knows pratigya but he doesn;t fully understand her. theircommunication is very bad. they have to talk openly,freely and let their emotions,feeling s out. all the time one of them is on the top of the horse. For a union u have to get down to some leve. they both have a ego. so i think it will take time moreover this time krishna's mental state is bad. he is hurt,angry and he don; have faith. he is disturbed. in this state nobody takes a good decision and i think this will affect their relationship. let us see what CVs has for us.



I don't want the union in this maha episode. I want another maha episode for their union.

I just want their relationship to move forward and the only way this can happen is when they both express their feelings fully and Pratigya is the one who needs to take all these steps on her own.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: soapbubble



Rahm, you've described Baba's state of mind very well. It's true his reasons for being unhappy are very complex. But the most important thing, I feel, is that he's feeling like a fool that he thought Pratigya loved him and she never did. He's angry with her for all those reasons - not becuase he really believes that she and Angad had a thing, or even that she's lying when she says that nothing actually happened.

He believes all the facts that Pratigya has told him. But he can't bring himself to be happy aobut it, to see her again like he saw her before - like a young girl that he was so attracted to and wanted to have at any cost. Now he sees her more completely and also their situation without the rose glasses. He saw that she felt harassed by him, that she married him by succumbing to pressure. He sees how rotten his family is - he's angry and disillusioned with everyone.

It'll take him a little time to be ok again and that's what he told her yesterday - sadme se bahar nahi aaye hain, abhi tak hum takleef mein hain.

Time, and a little Pratigya-TLC and he'll be fine 😳
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Bang on! I couldn't agree more with everything you've said.

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