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Posted: 15 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: Binny1247

So she is very brave, not boneless like kesar, she can fight in tht animal house for kesar, can save ammaji from prasadi of SS, can push a man to the verge of suicide but she cant stand for herself and cant take divorce😕 poor bechari wife😭

You seemed to have missed my point completely she married him in order to teach him a lesson that one cannot achieve everything by force like love it must be earned, so no point of taking a divorce also it's not like before she got married to him she said I will first teach him a lesson then divorce him

As for now She has noticed that he has made many mistakes but is good at heart, so why divorce him now what's the point. Also divorce is the sign of a weak women she would be running away form her problems she is a strong women you are right she has proven it repeatedly she can stand up to his family even though they are like animals with or without Krisna's support.

Now tell me why she should get a divorce she does not hate him or love him in fact their relationship has just begun? Also pls explain how she pushed him to the verge of suicide when he refuses to listen to her serious matter in order to first fulfill his male ego, and what about her condition before marraige she could have also thought of suicide but she didn't right.




Binny, Well said, 👏

The more we discover Pratigya & krishna the more we know that Pratigya is the only Character that never wavered from her stance. Every one else have changed or had flip flopped so many times and yet its Pratigya to take blame for every thing.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: lucky174

sorry to butt in, but if Prats or for that matter a wife doesn't love her hubby that doesn't mean the hubby manhandles her! Prats could have kicked him for that behavior!

IF SHE DOES'T LOVE HIM DEN NO NEED TO DO ALL NOUTANKI! WHY IS SHE STAYING AT HIS HOUSE ! SHE MUST GO TO HER MAYKA PERMANENTLY N TAKE THE DIVORCE

You have a point and only if that was possible unfortunately you overlooked Krishna's obsession with her, did you forget he thinks it' s okay to abuse her physically as well as mentally but goes crazy at the thought of her leaving him actually even at the thought of her talking to another man.

So you are saying if she leaves he will let her go, didn't he take her back at gunpoint. And she is not doing nautanki she is trying her best to make the best out of her bad situation she is understanding Krishna and is making an effort to sustain her marraige, As for living in his house she does not have much of a choice she is forced to live among animals, yet she somehow always respects them despite receiving nothing from them other then taunts and abuse. Also she did not return willingly she was forced by SS to return for his selfish needs, she went mainly because now she wants this marriage to work.



So she is very brave, not boneless like kesar, she can fight in tht animal house for kesar, can save ammaji from prasadi of SS, can push a man to the verge of suicidebut she cant stand for herself and cant take divorce😕poor bechari wife😭



a person shouldnt run 4m his/her problems rather he should learn to face them
this is wat i think prats is doin by not taking divorce which wld just mean her running away 4m her problems its her destiny she has to face it
now if she files 4 divorce & marry some1 maybe destiny will play its part.
so by stayin here she cld change this family's(m i right in callin so) views & i m not just saying 'familys' but she cld change herself as well
most of d indian marriages last d lifetime so mayb she also wants this to happen as she has been trying to make it so
well these r just my POV & i dont mean to offend any1
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Posted: 15 years ago
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sorry to butt in, but if Prats or for that matter a wife doesn't love her hubby that doesn't mean the hubby manhandles her! Prats could have kicked him for that behavior!

IF SHE DOES'T LOVE HIM DEN NO NEED TO DO ALL NOUTANKI! WHY IS SHE STAYING AT HIS HOUSE ! SHE MUST GO TO HER MAYKA PERMANENTLY N TAKE THE DIVORCE
You have a point and only if that was possible unfortunately you overlooked Krishna's obsession with her, did you forget he thinks it' s okay to abuse her physically as well as mentally but goes crazy at the thought of her leaving him actually even at the thought of her talking to another man.

So you are saying if she leaves he will let her go, didn't he take her back at gunpoint. And she is not doing nautanki she is trying her best to make the best out of her bad situation she is understanding Krishna and is making an effort to sustain her marraige, As for living in his house she does not have much of a choice she is forced to live among animals, yet she somehow always respects them despite receiving nothing from them other then taunts and abuse. Also she did not return willingly she was forced by SS to return for his selfish needs, she went mainly because now she wants this marriage to work.
So she is very brave, not boneless like kesar, she can fight in tht animal house for kesar, can save ammaji from prasadi of SS, can push a man to the verge of suicide but she cant stand for herself and cant take divorce😕 poor bechari wife😭
You seemed to have missed my point completely she married him in order to teach him a lesson that one cannot achieve everything by force like love it must be earned, so no point of taking a divorce also it's not like before she got married to him she said I will first teach him a lesson then divorce him

As for now She has noticed that he has made many mistakes but is good at heart, so why divorce him now what's the point. Also divorce is the sign of a weak women she would be running away form her problems she is a strong women you are right she has proven it repeatedly she can stand up to his family even though they are like animals with or without Krisna's support.

Now tell me why she should get a divorce she does not hate him or love him in fact their relationship has just begun? Also pls explain how she pushed him to the verge of suicide when he refuses to listen to her serious matter in order to first fulfill his male ego, and what about her condition before marraige she could have also thought of suicide but she didn't right.

whts the point of a loveless marriage? only to torture the other person? why he should listen to her now when he gave her ample oppotunities, asked her again & again tht 'r u hiding something from me?" at tht time she stitched up her lips bcoz of her papa's kasam. she now wants to tell him the truth despite her father's disapproval then why didn't she took tht decision earlier.
and wht she has done to begin her relationship besides giving tht 'dosti ka jhunjhuna"?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: SAM2U

You seemed to have missed my point completely she married him in order to teach him a lesson that one cannot achieve everything by force like love it must be earned, so no point of taking a divorce also it's not like before she got married to him she said I will first teach him a lesson then divorce him

As for now She has noticed that he has made many mistakes but is good at heart, so why divorce him now what's the point. Also divorce is the sign of a weak women she would be running away form her problems she is a strong women you are right she has proven it repeatedly she can stand up to his family even though they are like animals with or without Krisna's support.

Now tell me why she should get a divorce she does not hate him or love him in fact their relationship has just begun? Also pls explain how she pushed him to the verge of suicide when he refuses to listen to her serious matter in order to first fulfill his male ego, and what about her condition before marraige she could have also thought of suicide but she didn't right.




Binny, Well said, 👏

The more we discover Pratigya & krishna the more we know that Pratigya is the only Character that never wavered from her stance. Every one else have changed or had flip flopped so many times and yet its Pratigya to take blame for every thing.
Thanks Sam 😊 I'm just trying to understand why most feel divorce is the perfect solution for prats problems when it goes against what a strong women would do also it's funny how they expect Krishna to give her a divorce willingly 😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: pheonix1



So she is very brave, not boneless like kesar, she can fight in tht animal house for kesar, can save ammaji from prasadi of SS, can push a man to the verge of suicidebut she cant stand for herself and cant take divorce😕poor bechari wife😭



a person shouldnt run 4m his/her problems rather he should learn to face them
this is wat i think prats is doin by not taking divorce which wld just mean her running away 4m her problems its her destiny she has to face it
now if she files 4 divorce & marry some1 maybe destiny will play its part.
so by stayin here she cld change this family's(m i right in callin so) views & i m not just saying 'familys' but she cld change herself as well
most of d indian marriages last d lifetime so mayb she also wants this to happen as she has been trying to make it so
well these r just my POV & i dont mean to offend any1


Pheonix 👍🏼, Exactly you know this the correct way to look at things in this serial right now. People drag stuff that not relevant at all with the current track.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#76

Originally posted by: Binny1247

So she is very brave, not boneless like kesar, she can fight in tht animal house for kesar, can save ammaji from prasadi of SS, can push a man to the verge of suicide but she cant stand for herself and cant take divorce😕 poor bechari wife😭

You seemed to have missed my point completely she married him in order to teach him a lesson that one cannot achieve everything by force like love it must be earned, so no point of taking a divorce also it's not like before she got married to him she said I will first teach him a lesson then divorce him

As for now She has noticed that he has made many mistakes but is good at heart, so why divorce him now what's the point. Also divorce is the sign of a weak women she would be running away form her problems she is a strong women you are right she has proven it repeatedly she can stand up to his family even though they are like animals with or without Krisna's support.

Now tell me why she should get a divorce she does not hate him or love him in fact their relationship has just begun? Also pls explain how she pushed him to the verge of suicide when he refuses to listen to her serious matter in order to first fulfill his male ego, and what about her condition before marraige she could have also thought of suicide but she didn't right.



PRATIGYA HAS LOTS OF EGO TOO! THE MENTAL STREE GIVEN BY HER WILL B D ONLY REASON DAT WUD PUSH HIM AT D POINT OF SUICIDE ! N IF SHE WUD BE MAARD TO NITININ DEN WAT WUD BE DAT? DAT WUD BE ALSO A FORCED MARIG TO HER ! BUT SHE DIDN'T COMPLAIND ABT DIS TO HER PARENTS ! N IF SHE WUD BE MARID TO HIM AT DAT TIME DEN WILL BE HER N LAWS ALLOWED HER DO DO ALL DESE THINGS WAT SHE IS DOING TO KRISHNA ? I DON'T THINK SO !
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Posted: 15 years ago
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whts the point of a loveless marriage? only to torture the other person? why he should listen to her now when he gave her ample oppotunities, asked her again & again tht 'r u hiding something from me?" at tht time she stitched up her lips bcoz of her papa's kasam. she now wants to tell him the truth despite her father's disapproval then why didn't she took tht decision earlier.
and wht she has done to begin her relationship besides giving tht 'dosti ka jhunjhuna"?

It does not matter when or how she decided to tell him the truth but if we must get in to this then she is still afraid of his reaction any sane person after observing his obsession would be afraid yet now she wants him to know before he hears it from someone else she does not want him to misunderstand her, she felt this way before as well but her father stopped her and her father made some really good points.

This man forced her in to this marraige, physically and mentally abused her and attempted to rape her repeatedly but yes that's prats fault since she was not nice to the man she despised.

As for her contribution in this marraige she cares for and respects his family, she cared for his well being despite his actions before and after their marraige, Also as soon as she learned the truth she has changed her behavior towards him she now tries to understand him and makes sure she does not hurt his feelings. She wants to be friends mainly because it is the base of any relationship and you must first get to know and understand another person before you can love them or trust them. And Krishna after gururma and SS's brainwashing session tells her she must sleep with him before he will listen to what she has to say how is that love or understanding and how did she torture him?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: snehaarhaan

You seemed to have missed my point completely she married him in order to teach him a lesson that one cannot achieve everything by force like love it must be earned, so no point of taking a divorce also it's not like before she got married to him she said I will first teach him a lesson then divorce him

As for now She has noticed that he has made many mistakes but is good at heart, so why divorce him now what's the point. Also divorce is the sign of a weak women she would be running away form her problems she is a strong women you are right she has proven it repeatedly she can stand up to his family even though they are like animals with or without Krisna's support.

Now tell me why she should get a divorce she does not hate him or love him in fact their relationship has just begun? Also pls explain how she pushed him to the verge of suicide when he refuses to listen to her serious matter in order to first fulfill his male ego, and what about her condition before marraige she could have also thought of suicide but she didn't right.



PRATIGYA HAS LOTS OF EGO TOO! THE MENTAL STREE GIVEN BY HER WILL B D ONLY REASON DAT WUD PUSH HIM AT D POINT OF SUICIDE ! N IF SHE WUD BE MAARD TO NITININ DEN WAT WUD BE DAT? DAT WUD BE ALSO A FORCED MARIG TO HER ! BUT SHE DIDN'T COMPLAIND ABT DIS TO HER PARENTS ! N IF SHE WUD BE MARID TO HIM AT DAT TIME DEN WILL BE HER N LAWS ALLOWED HER DO DO ALL DESE THINGS WAT SHE IS DOING TO KRISHNA ? I DON'T THINK SO !


Pratigya and ego ???😆, What mental stress is she Giving him except that she is refusing to sleep with him in way he is demanding these days. This is no way a mental stress, this is something else.....!!!. 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
#79

Originally posted by: Binny1247



Binny, Well said, 👏

The more we discover Pratigya & krishna the more we know that Pratigya is the only Character that never wavered from her stance. Every one else have changed or had flip flopped so many times and yet its Pratigya to take blame for every thing.

Thanks Sam 😊 I'm just trying to understand why most feel divorce is the perfect solution for prats problems when it goes against what a strong women would do also it's funny how they expect Krishna to give her a divorce willingly 😆

i agree with u
i dont know y some ppl think that divorce is the only way for prats to tackle to this problem
leave prats, any other woman 4 dat matter
after some tym ppl will feel y kesar's not filing 4 divorce
if divorce wld have been d real solution den i think divorces wld have been more succeful than marriages
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Posted: 15 years ago
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PRATIGYA HAS LOTS OF EGO TOO! THE MENTAL STREE GIVEN BY HER WILL B D ONLY REASON DAT WUD PUSH HIM AT D POINT OF SUICIDE ! N IF SHE WUD BE MAARD TO NITININ DEN WAT WUD BE DAT? DAT WUD BE ALSO A FORCED MARIG TO HER ! BUT SHE DIDN'T COMPLAIND ABT DIS TO HER PARENTS ! N IF SHE WUD BE MARID TO HIM AT DAT TIME DEN WILL BE HER N LAWS ALLOWED HER DO DO ALL DESE THINGS WAT SHE IS DOING TO KRISHNA ? I DON'T THINK SO !

You say ego I call it self respect necessary for a women living among animals or by now she would be the next kesar. Krishna's stress is visible what about Prats stress she has to deal with and balance her duties towards both families her father is in jail her husband refuses to listen to her and forget any consideration from her in laws.

Her marriage to Krishna was forced but to nitin it was an arranged marraige just similar to those taking place in india till date, it cannot be considered to be forced. And if she had married Nitin her life would have been extremely different and none of these things would have taken place, also i doubt he would have physically or mentally abused her. also why would she treat nitin the way she behaved with krishna he never did anything wrong to her?

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