Pratigya vs Krishna

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Divya

@dkmystery

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Posted: 15 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: kaasshh
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SonyaBlade

@SonyaBlade

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Posted: 15 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: PEARL99

Manya7878, Marriage is a strong and beautiful bond it cannot built right away.It can be stronger with mutaual understanding.

Sorry I'm not offeneding anybody just giving my point of view.

Force is always applied whenever things cannot be done smoothly.

Its upto partners if they want to play with mutual understanding or want to play aggressively.

In our society male is usually dominating,it doesn't mean a woman has to be forgiven or inferior.

Woman is more stronger as a Mother .

Woman shares equality in marriage.

Woman as a daughter and sister needs love and support from her father.

Woman has a different role in a man's life.Sometimes she dictates and sometimes she surrenders.

Very well written but do you think that anyone truly Surrenders as you put it? Or that she dictates.........

For instance, in my relationship we discuss things, we debate and we argue at times. Sometimes we agree sometimes we don't but we always can compromise...at least MOST of the time😆😆

No one dictates to one another, no one commands and no one follows orders. We ask, we encourage, and we work together. Just because I don't put up fight in a situation doesn't mean that I've surrendered it means that I've chosen to not make an issue of some things, and to pick my "battles".....or I'm just to tired and can't bother...or I let him think he's getting his way😉😉

And I don't think Men are more dominating...they just have a different role than women? For instance, my husband will always walk on the side of the path that the cars are on and tells me to walk on the inside. I've always said to him over and over again that you don't have to do that, however he insists and now I just don't say anything I just let him. He also used to open the door for me, but that irritated the hell out of me.....I can open my own door thankyou very much....please stop and he did.😃......so he also knows where he needs to draw the line. But I can't think of anything else that would make one of us more dominating than the other.

As for women being more stronger as a mother.....can you explain? What about the women out there who can't have children or have made a lifestyle choice that they don't want to have any kids. are they any less of a woman or any less strong than those who do have kids?

Just foor for thought.....thanks for reading!

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kasturika ghosh

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Posted: 15 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: -JONAKI-

Edited by kaasshh - 15 years ago

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manya7878

@manya7878

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Posted: 15 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: PEARL99

Manya7878, Marriage is a strong and beautiful bond it cannot built right away.It can be stronger with mutaual understanding.

Sorry I'm not offeneding anybody just giving my point of view.

Force is always applied whenever things cannot be done smoothly.

Its upto partners if they want to play with mutual understanding or want to play aggressively.

In our society male is usually dominating,it doesn't mean a woman has to be forgiven or inferior.

Woman is more stronger as a Mother .

Woman shares equality in marriage.

Woman as a daughter and sister needs love and support from her father.

Woman has a different role in a man's life.Sometimes she dictates and sometimes she surrenders.

Pearl,

I totally understand most of what you said. No offense taken. But I have to point out that mutual understanding and respect comes when 2 people want to be married to each other. In this case, Pratigya never wanted to marry Krishna and had to do so to save her family's honor (not that i completely agree with this) but thats what it is.

In a marriage, both sides have to make adjustments and changes. So far, we have not seen Krishna make one single adjustment for Pratigya. His so called love is extremely selfish and one-sided. He protects her from his family when convenient. If he really was that protective, he could have taken the entire blame of the pregnancy lie on himself and told his family the truth. Instead, he hid behind his poor wife who through really no fault of her own on this issue had to face his family's ire.

On the other hand, Pratigya did try to adapt into his family. She does try to cook and please everyone. She did save Kesar's child from being aborted and she did try to save her mother in law from being thrashed. She is a good person becasue that's what any decent human being would do. In return, she has not got the respect and love she so rightly deserves from either her husband or his family.

A woman leaves her house and her family to come live with someone else. At the very least show some respect for that.

This forum has so many topics posted on Pratigya's so called nakhras and her not performing her wifely duties. Let me ask, is sleeping with her husband her only wifely duty? Per hinduism or sanatan dharma, a marriage is performed by taking ssat phere each of which has a vachan attached to it. While, she had fulfilled her vachans, Krishna has not by insulting, threatening, hitting and molesting her.

Force is always applied whenever things cannot be done smoothly.

Why? Is krishna a child that he has to have the candy he saw in the store? Pratigya is a human being not a piece of sweet or candy that has to be obtained by force or by throwing tantrums. You cannot treat another person like this and expect love and affection in return. Kuch paane ke liye kuch khona padta hain. in this case, Krishna must lose his arrogance, childishness and immaturity if he wants true love and respect from pratigya.

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shruthiR

@shruthiR

Inactive

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Posted: 15 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: manya7878
Pearl,

I totally understand most of what you said. No offense taken. But I have to point out that mutual understanding and respect comes when 2 people want to be married to each other. In this case, Pratigya never wanted to marry Krishna and had to do so to save her family's honor (not that i completely agree with this) but thats what it is.

In a marriage, both sides have to make adjustments and changes. So far, we have not seen Krishna make one single adjustment for Pratigya. His so called love is extremely selfish and one-sided. He protects her from his family when convenient. If he really was that protective, he could have taken the entire blame of the pregnancy lie on himself and told his family the truth. Instead, he hid behind his poor wife who through really no fault of her own on this issue had to face his family's ire.

On the other hand, Pratigya did try to adapt into his family. She does try to cook and please everyone. She did save Kesar's child from being aborted and she did try to save her mother in law from being thrashed. She is a good person becasue that's what any decent human being would do. In return, she has not got the respect and love she so rightly deserves from either her husband or his family.

A woman leaves her house and her family to come live with someone else. At the very least show some respect for that.

This forum has so many topics posted on Pratigya's so called nakhras and her not performing her wifely duties. Let me ask, is sleeping with her husband her only wifely duty? Per hinduism or sanatan dharma, a marriage is performed by taking ssat phere each of which has a vachan attached to it. While, she had fulfilled her vachans, Krishna has not by insulting, threatening, hitting and molesting her.

Force is always applied whenever things cannot be done smoothly.

Why? Is krishna a child that he has to have the candy he saw in the store? Pratigya is a human being not a piece of sweet or candy that has to be obtained by force or by throwing tantrums. You cannot treat another person like this and expect love and affection in return. Kuch paane ke liye kuch khona padta hain. in this case, Krishna must lose his arrogance, childishness and immaturity if he wants true love and respect from pratigya.

Well said Manya👏👏👏

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nisha2010

@nisha2010

Sparkler

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Posted: 15 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: mima190587
<font color="#990000">ok i just read your post, i don't understand why people only see one sided view, people really need to look at both sides
there are those (not saying anyone in particular) that point out Pratigya's mistakes or like say how shes not trying hard enough, etc

and there are those that love to write about all the wrong that Krishna has done and completely bash him (again no one in particular)

i just feel like every thread i open now has the same debate and people are just writing the same stuff over and over again

it's getting boring yaar

sorry i don't mean to sound rude

can we accept that Krishna made mistakes, hence Pratigya left him and now enjoy the real story of love and how Pratigyais nowtaking a real stand for herself

sorry i don't intend to offend anyone🤓
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agree wid u. its so simple.they r 2 diff ppl from diff backgrd.they will adapt themselves and everything will fall in place. friction is bound to happen.

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