Originally posted by: -athena-
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So we agree on few things that he had very little idea abt what is wrong or right because of his upbringing and that he has not surpassed his ego state which means he is still a child by heart. Now that is a very good question how long is it going to take that as an excuse for his actions and his attitude?
WE ARE GOING USE THAT AS AN EXCUSE TILL HE CHANGES. HE WOULD BRING ABOUT THE CHANGE IN HIMSELF IF HE CLD DIFFERENTIATE BETWEEN CORRECT AND WRONG ATTITUDE.
See i wrote this in another post I will copy it from there and post it here
Since he can't differentiate between good or bad he doesn't know what changes he has to make in himself. How he suppose to reform himself till he is made aware of what is going wrong? Agreed he has to change and Pratigya will help him bring the change but that will only happen when she changes her attitude towards him. Krish has to see that if he changed himself it will mean something to her.
Any behavioual modification including his attituide in a child only happens as a result of reward or punishment. For Krishna the punishment won't work as he has already been punsihed without him knowing the reason. So the only thing that will work with him is reward. His reward will be he sees that changing his behaviour will make Pratigya happy even if she doesn't love him
Sorry to remove a few things and repeating myself.
Again, I didn't even talk about Pratigya here....Why should his actions be justified until he changes???Are we going to justify every bad person's actions taking his surroundings as an excuse???Simple question...no rhetoric...😊Okay this will be my last post after that i am off to bed?
No one is born bad or good. You become good or bad depending on your upbringing. Now when u come across a bad person most people tend to ignore them and condemn them as it is easy and safe. Thats exactly we are doing her as veiwers classifying him in good or bad category and all that depends on how an individual looks at the situation. I ready to accept that unintentially he wronged Pratigya but along with that understand where he is coming from. I don't agree with his attitude towards women but understand the reason behind it i am ready to overlook all that attitude as there is Krishna is redeemable.
If the person is affecting u (Prats life gets affected by Krish) then normally we don't always justify a wrong persons action taking into account his surrounding. Then decide whether he shld be punished or given an opportunity to change. Then either punish him or warn him and give an opportunity to change. While deciding whether he need to be punished or not or the severity of his punishment we take into account his upbringing.
After whatever course of action we have taken if there is positive change we reward the person if not we punish him again or find other ways to reinforce positive behaviour. Baba had the punishment but didn't know the reason so he still the same.
On more thing Krishna is not a bas person but has done things wrongly and will continue to do so till he changes himself and pratigya has her work cut out for her as it is affecting her life.
Edited by krishna_chalbo - 15 years ago
Pati Patni Aur Panga
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