How does Pratigya feel????

So here is my perspective and from what I have read on this forum, my thoughts will probably not be shared by many....

Thanks for replying. This is my first post on this forum after many days of observation.

Originally posted by: Sonya263

Thanks for replying. This is my first post on this forum after many days of observation.wow...first post with a bang! would like to see you frequently😊

First of all I want to say that I'm born and raised in Canada, great to know that u are in canada.i too live in canada😊...but born and brought up in india,after marriage i migrated to canada so my perspective on the situation may be because of that. may be...cuz u have not lived in india and you have not seen how girls are brought up and how they treated in india...I've been watching indian drama's for a long time but I have to say that Pratigya is one tv serial that I have come to love because of all of the issues that are being depicted in it. good to know that

For the first answer, yes I have been married for just about two years now and I got married to a man within my culture/religion. wow...nice to see a married and mature lady on this forum 😊cuz almost all the members here are teens.

1) I don't think he's given her a fair chance to actually speak about what is bothering her. not only he most of the gents did not give chance for the bride to speak...on the first night they just jump on them...atleat he respected her feeling and did not touch her. for that sake i adore him.Whether in Canada or India, a girl has a lot of things on her mind on her wedding day and its a very emotional day for us.😳 sure. You can't expect her to say everything on that night can you? not exactly but when the mis under standing come it is better to clear.i have heard there are some cases during first night they talk and discuss before the go ahead.

2) How does someone LOVE somebody when they have hardly even spoken to them. it happens. take me as an example( not only me all my friends and relatives). because i am muslim i did not even saw my husband before marriage. not even during marriage cuz in our culture bride and bride groom sit separately in two different halls. bride will be sitting with ladies in ladies side groom will be sitting with gents in gents side. mangalsuthr will be tied by an elderly suhaagan from groom side...i saw him only on first night. i liked him and loved him cuz he was my parents choice.this is the way we indian girls are brought up.u may not under stand cuz u born and brought up in canada... That beautiful scene when Krishna first sees her and essentially falls in love.....you can't possibly call that love. That is lust in its most primitve form.....guy sees girl....falls in love...happily ever after...NO WAY! 😲...yaar for your kind information exceptionals are always there.

3) I dont' believe in love at first sight...even i too don't belive love at first sight...i make fun of my friends who fall in love at first sight .so I can't really comment on that one. I think its more of a fairy tale event than actual reality.

4) In regards to him being a good husband, he's leaves her on the very first day of their marriage on her own and goes out with his friends. 😡I don't think that is respectful........I would have been really upset if my husband did that too me on our first day after marriage.... yaar that is because of pratigya she is the one who initiated...beechara he came with a cute gift...what she did ? she threw it...imagine if you would have done to your husband what he would have been his reaction?...believe me my husband would have given me a tight salp .he may not go out cus he is a person who likes to keep husband and wife affair with in four walls..but krishna is ill litrate what more you can expect from him.

So far, in my opinion, the only thing that he has done that has been positive is defend her about her name change. For instance, in yesterdays' episode when Kesar Bhabi is talking to Krishna he tells her to talk to Pratigya and make her understand. He doesn't think its his fault yaar wo tho ill litreate hai. you cannot expect him to behave as a gentle man and thinks that she's being stubborn. yep no doubt she is stubborn...that is what i too feel...

And one question.....does the changing of a Bahu's name actually happen in India and if so. i don't think so.i have not heard so.it did not happen in our culture. but some people call them like bhau rani, choti bhahu,rani bitia...that is all because of affection.what culture??? this is new to me too...may be just they want to show that pratigya fighting for her right they started with the name... I was astounded at this idea... completely out of my realm of thinking. exactly

Originally posted by: Sonya263

Thanks for replying. This is my first post on this forum after many days of observation.

First of all I want to say that I'm born and raised in Canada, so my perspective on the situation may be because of that. I've been watching indian drama's for a long time but I have to say that Pratigya is one tv serial that I have come to love because of all of the issues that are being depicted in it.

No, they are not bringing up any real issues here. Its just like any normal serial....They started with it like eve teasing and all but they forgot abt that. Nobody in India or USA will marry a guy for these reasons.
Pratigya Ji doesn't represent a brave girl at all.
I agree she doesn't know him...and was not ready to talk to him...she thinks that he made her life hell.... that's why she decided to marry him.....👏👏👏👏 what a brave girl and what a way to solve a issue.......
He is not the one who brought her to that house...she is the one who can't protect herself from Angad or Krishna.....and took the decision to go and marry him...

For the first answer, yes I have been married for just about two years now and I got married to a man within my culture/religion.

1) I don't think he's given her a fair chance to actually speak about what is bothering her. Whether in Canada or India, a girl has a lot of things on her mind on her wedding day and its a very emotional day for us.😳 You can't expect her to say everything on that night can you? Yes, she should have...its not a normal marriage.....if she hates him so much....she should have explained what he did to her and her family....instead of cleaning his room and bed....goshhhhhhh nobody was using that bed....and when I am angry at my husband why should I care abt his room....see but in a serial our brave heroines do that 👏👏👏👏

2) How does someone LOVE somebody when they have hardly even spoken to them. That beautiful scene when Krishna first sees her and essentially falls in love.....you can't possibly call that love. That is lust in its most primitve form.....guy sees girl....falls in love...happily ever after...NO WAY! 😲 Ok its lust or whatever....he liked her and he made sure she knows abt that....through letters and calls. What our heroine did, when he called her..and told her yahan milne aayo..what she did..ok 👏👏....us samay uski jaban kya tel lene gayi thi....koi bhi samjahdar ladki pahele apni family ko batati and then us ladke ke calls yaa to leti nahi aur agar leti to sunati....yeh nahi ki uski saree pahan kar usse milne jaati and then hi baat karti....bakwas......Tabhi to bas serials mei hi aaisa hota hai...jisse nafrat karo...phatak se usse shadi....serials mei nafrat ke karan jayada sahdi hoti hai...pyar se to bahut kam hi hoti hai.... 😃

3) I dont' believe in love at first sight....so I can't really comment on that one. I think its more of a fairy tale event than actual reality.

4) In regards to him being a good husband, he's leaves her on the very first day of their marriage on her own and goes out with his friends. 😡I don't think that is respectful........I would have been really upset if my husband did that too me on our first day after marriage.

wow respect....how would you have felt ki tum apne pati ke pass pyar se jaati and woh bolta I hate you and all....Tumhara diya gift jameen par....I would have felt so hurt.....

So far, in my opinion, the only thing that he has done that has been positive is defend her about her name change. For instance, in yesterdays' episode when Kesar Bhabi is talking to Krishna he tells her to talk to Pratigya and make her understand. He doesn't think its his fault and thinks that she's being stubborn.

And one question.....does the changing of a Bahu's name actually happen in India and if so..what culture??? I was astounded at this idea... completely out of my realm of thinking.

Nobody does that in real life...yeh issue to maha bakwas mera naam...mera naam..pahele to ss told koi yahan kisi ka naam nahi janta....than mom in law was like kesar...Pratigya Ji and all...pahele to us family ko yeh clear karna chahiye ki bhaiya yaa to naam lo yaa naa lo...agar Pratigya ka naam change ho raha hai to what abt kesar...uska kyun nahi change hua...usko to mom in law kesar hi bolti hai....rahi Krishna bahu wali baat to Pratigya ki dadi bhi komal ko Adarsh bahu bulati hai...nothing wrong in that....

Serial mei main issue the eve teasing, wife beating, not respecting women and all...
eve teasing to gaya tel lene bhaiya....kyunki uske liye hamari Pratigya Ji ne kuch nahi kiya....

Name issue -> bakwash topic....its not even a real issue....

Kesar issue is a valid one....to usmei bhi pratigya ji kuch nahi kareingi...problem create karegi aur Krishna ko aage kar degi ki ab tum lado...👏👏👏👏

Angad ko chata maara...krishna aayo aur usse lado....
Nitin se eng ki...ab usko marro...
Tumse shadi ki...ab ghar walon se ladooo...

Jai ho Pratigya Ji ki...

Originally posted by: Sonya263

So here is my perspective and from what I have read on this forum, my thoughts will probably not be shared by many....

1) First of all I don't feel that Krishna has been a very good husband -- I think PRATIGYA made it clear that the marriage was just for the society and there is no HUSBAND-WIFE relation between them in real FOR NOW! So I dont think we should judge him as a husband-material, FOR NOW, lolz !!! His wife told him on the first night that she doesn't love him, and instead of asking her why -- Krishna isnt some one who likes to or more correctly, who knows how to ask for nything, be it questions or love of Pratigya,,, He's the pampered BABA of the family, remember???.... why did she feel coerced into the marriage, what had he done to make her feel that way and why is she so angry at him, he gets angry and grabs her neck I think that was an acceptable reaction from him!!! I'm not saying it was right but knowing the environment he grew up in, it could have been worse, lol!!!...WOW what a statement. Any wife would instantly fall in love with someone after that action -- (yeah right!!! more misunderstandingss!!!)

2) Secondly, Krishna has done nothing but insult her and ruin her reputation Misunderstandings!!! See, his entry scene showed that he wasnt someone who believed in love or who knew how to respect women (his dialogue of comparing women with paan, actually got on my nerves!), My point is, seeing how his dad and big bro treated their wives, plus bad influence from his friends, I dont think ny guy could have the right interpretation of love...So, I actually feel bad for him for his inability to express his love in the right way!!! . In the past he has threatened her with killing her fiance (again, his inability to express his feelings in the right way BUT that scene was very funny and a little scary!!), he's had her brother arrested by the police (I would say that was SELF-DEFENCE and I would have agreed that it was wrong if he had caused ny harm to her brother but instead, as soon as he was safe, he let them go...not so bad, lol!!)

and he has only shown her his Lust for her, not his love. (OK,,,This sentence of urs really got on my nerves!! Krishna's LOVE for Pratigya is v.v.v.v.v.v X infinity pure, innocent, sweet and honest!!! If it was LUST, I dont think he would have been able to control his anger coz of her rejection!! Even in the recent scenes where he touches her, I dont know, may be u call that lust, but I thought it shows his longing for her love...he wants her to love him back so desperately!! Thats wat I felt in that scene).. You can't love someone whom you don't know and as much as he thinks he knows Pratigya he doesn't. (That could be said for Pratigya, I mean she doesnt know him at all, well, except for the misunderstandings which shows his dark sides and also justifies her behavior towards him......But for Krishna, well, yeah, he doesnt know what she likes or hates and stuff like that BUT he knows that she is brave: slapped Angad for his misbehavior; she is kind: took care of a stray dog, and even though it was a misunderstanding, he believed that she loves him, I think thats how he fell in love with her!!!) He's has done nothing to actually get to know her better. (Like I said before, he doesnt know how to ask for stuff, but hey, he is changing so there is hope!!) If I was Pratigya how could I start falling in love with someone when you don't feel as though they have respected you. She probably feels insulted by him after all of his actions prior to their marriage -- This, I agree with u!!!

3) Lastly, Krishna is now showing her support (I would say he is expressing his love for Pratigya and supporting the right decision!!) infront of his parents, however its because of him that she is even in that situation. He's the one that has brought her to that "junglee" house. He never once thought about how she would fit in to the household (Well, he believes that Pratigya is a Sherni, ie. can adapt to ny situation, lolz!!) or how the behaviour of his parents would make her feel (He is BABA, remember? He has his own ways of dealing with his family, and he is quite proud of himself, his lines to Pratigya---u dont have to be afraid when Krishna is with u ......So, basically he is confident that he can protect Pratigya from his family and the world, lolzz!!!) Do you think you would start falling in love with someone who forcibly brought you into their household? Especially a household that openly abuses their wives and talks to them in a degrading manner? He hasn't sat down and talked to her so that she would be able to handle the situation better, instead he ignores her (so does SHE, therefore, cant just blame one side!!) and leaves her to the wolves (aka: her mother in law)

Essentially if I was Pratigya, Krishna's defense of my name would probably win him a few points, however it doesn't override everything. He needs to start talking to her, take her out and spend time with her (Only problem, Pratigya wouldnt let him....So, I am liking the way Krishna is approaching the situation, by protecting her from the family). Krishna is so used to getting everything he wants that I think that Pratigya should make him work for it. She got married to him but she's absolutely right to not give him anything until he starts to make an effort and that means he needs to start getting to know her.

Alot of people have said that Pratigya is acting bad to Krishna (I think her behavior towards him is acceptable and now that she has seen Krishna supporting her, she should try to understand y would Krishna support her even after growing up with the junglee bunch), but in my opinion its Krishna who hasn't acted good to her from day one . He thinks he's been acting good to her (Exactly!!! Krishna's behavior towards Pratigya was never with ny kind of bad intentions... All he did was express his love for her in the wrong situations which in turn hurt Pratigya nd her family!!!), however the reality of the situation is, is that he hasn't been.

I really want to see Krishna take Pratigya out and start talking to her, about her likes and dislikes, her future, their future together and what they see for themselves as a married couple. Too bad, Pratigya wont let him, 😆

And on a side note...the Saxena family is putting me to sleep. The only reason why I continue to watch this drama is because of Krishna and Pratigya......they are the best.

And don't get me wrong, I love Krishna but the reality is, is that he's made some huge mistakes in starting his married life and he needs to be the one that does the fixing...I would say both of them needs to work together but yeah Krishna needs to work harder (coz he has to learn a lot of things, like respecting women, elders and money is not = education or happiness) than Pratigya (all she has to do is understand his innocent love for her!)