GIRGITSSSSSS

Hiiiiiiiiiiii alllllllllllllllll

OKKKK nw plz can any1 tell me ki ee kisanva baba ke log apne rang girgit ki tarah ka hey badal tey hai bey?😡😡😡 ek scene mein lagega ki chalo dadi ko to feelings hai dard n all key to dusri hi min oo will behave bad 😕😕.. ek scene mein lagega ki kisnava ki maa is gud .. she has daya n all for her bahu n next min she is scolding her or laughing at her 😕😕?? areeeeeyyyy kabhi pyaar kabhi nafrat?😡😡😡?? kuch samjh nahi aata kaun kaiisee hai .. specially krishna ki maa n dadi ... 😡😡😡 ..... sumtyms they behave gud sumtym bad??????😡😡

Originally posted by: shi_no_tenshi

I'd said something similar earlier where I couldn't reconcile the mother who encouraged Krishna to indulge in *ahem* 'mauj-masti' and then scolded him for making light of a girl's abduction the next day 😕 I presume that with the abduction, it's not just the moral aspect she was thinking of - she was probably also bearing the family's reputation in mind.....

But I do understand why she's so oblivious to her bahu's feelings - she clearly has a LOT of bitterness to endure alone in her life and the only person she can really let it out on is her daughter-in-law I suppose - if she were to take it out on the children or the grandmother, she'd evidently have to deal with Sajjan Singh's wrath. There's also a bit of the Bairi Piya element at play here where Shobna didn't see why she ought to help Amoli since she'd been through the same horrific experiences and no-one helped her.

If you extrapolated this and projected it onto Indian society in general, it sort of helps to explain how women are often themselves responsible for perpetuating this kind domestic abuse since the mother-in-law will pass this bitterness, anger and hatred onto her daughter-in-law who will then carry on the cycle.....

Erm....sorry for the length of the response....just my two cents :)

Originally posted by: luv_kriya

Hiiiiiiiiiiii alllllllllllllllll

OKKKK nw plz can any1 tell me ki ee kisanva baba ke log apne rang girgit ki tarah ka hey badal tey hai bey?😡😡😡 ek scene mein lagega ki chalo dadi ko to feelings hai dard n all key to dusri hi min oo will behave bad 😕😕.. ek scene mein lagega ki kisnava ki maa is gud .. she has daya n all for her bahu n next min she is scolding her or laughing at her 😕😕?? areeeeeyyyy kabhi pyaar kabhi nafrat?😡😡😡?? kuch samjh nahi aata kaun kaiisee hai .. specially krishna ki maa n dadi ... 😡😡😡 ..... sumtyms they behave gud sumtym bad??????😡😡

Originally posted by: shi_no_tenshi

I'd said something similar earlier where I couldn't reconcile the mother who encouraged Krishna to indulge in *ahem* 'mauj-masti' and then scolded him for making light of a girl's abduction the next day 😕 I presume that with the abduction, it's not just the moral aspect she was thinking of - she was probably also bearing the family's reputation in mind.....

But I do understand why she's so oblivious to her bahu's feelings - she clearly has a LOT of bitterness to endure alone in her life and the only person she can really let it out on is her daughter-in-law I suppose - if she were to take it out on the children or the grandmother, she'd evidently have to deal with Sajjan Singh's wrath. There's also a bit of the Bairi Piya element at play here where Shobna didn't see why she ought to help Amoli since she'd been through the same horrific experiences and no-one helped her.

If you extrapolated this and projected it onto Indian society in general, it sort of helps to explain how women are often themselves responsible for perpetuating this kind domestic abuse since the mother-in-law will pass this bitterness, anger and hatred onto her daughter-in-law who will then carry on the cycle.....

Erm....sorry for the length of the response....just my two cents :)

Originally posted by: anu-s

You have said everything very impressively.👏

Originally posted by: mima190587

yep def Miss tells it how it is😉

Originally posted by: shi_no_tenshi

Oh dear....you know that dark, dark days have arrived when I seem to be the voice of reason 😕😕😆

Originally posted by: mima190587

it's simple on bad days they got out on the wrong side of the bed

Originally posted by: luv_kriya

😆 .. lol .. typical SUPERSTITIONAL resoning!!!