Christina I do not think Urmi is a doormat yet.
She has gone into this marriage with a filmy fantasy and has not yet shown any doormat tendency because she has not had time yet to be a doormat.
Later if she does nothing but keeps quiet and takes any kind of abuse and says nothing and makes excuses for her rude and arrogant husband then we can label her a doormat.
Right now she is in the process of discovering that the man she thought she married is not what she had dreamed about all her young life.
Her crying and the long sad face is her just coming to terms with her disappointment.