Rape: A delicate matter of sensitivity and consciousness

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Today, our hand was forced, literally so, by events unfolding in other parts of the world, to address this delicate subject matter.

Today of all the days, we have a teenager at the centre of a ravaging storm in Kansas City, who tried to take her life post the traumatic rape that she was a victim of on Jan 8th along with her best friend. Anon News Network mentions that she could may be have a brain injury from her suicide attempt. Daisy Coleman is a brave young woman and we wish her all the best. It's only due to the efforts of Anonymous with #justice4daisy that her case was taken up. Here is her spirited letter in her own words: http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/daisy-coleman-maryville-rape

Closer home, in India we've had the Nirbhaya case that has taken the nation by storm in recent times.

It's not like the incidence of rape is new in India or the world over, a United Nations report from government sources showed that more than 250,000 cases of rape or attempted rape are recorded by police annually in over 65 countries with United States and India sitting at the top of the heap. National shame!

What shames us is that the incidence of rape is still treated as some taboo and the burden of proof still seems to lie with the victim in most cases, and in a few cases it seems like there are forces at work to pin the blame on someone or the other without any sort of real effort in finding the real culprits and in some cases the rapists go scot-free as either they are protected by the powerful or familial love.

Ek Boond Ishq

In the show, the central crime seems to be that of RAPE and MURDER and it's also being shown that Mrityunjay is not the real culprit and that he is taking the blame for someone else.

Now, here comes the crux of the matter. This "sacrifice" is no-sacrifice. We all know in film and literature, how the chief protagonist or the hero is shown to have one big flaw or Achilles Heel. This then is the Achilles Heel of Mrityunjay. This injustice to the real victim due to his fanatical "love" or "obsession" to protect someone due to some promise he has made or is forced to make to his adopted mother, which has made him lose his perspective and integrity to truth.

Mrityunjay's real problem is not Tara or what she is doing. It is actually what SHE STANDS FOR, which is truth and the truth of his being. He knows that he is in the wrong because of his excessive love and that he is not standing on the side of right by protecting the culprits and TARA is being the mirror to his soul and is his conscience keeper that is questioning his conscience, which is not willing to accept this flawed thinking in him. He does not want this reality check as his hand is played by forces that are more powerful than his conscience, that of misplaced loyalty and misguided love.

But for Mrityunjay, it will ultimately be his fight against his emotions towards his adopted mum versus his own righteousness and willingness to stand for truth, which is represented by TARA's spirited defence of him. Jaag uthega uski mann ki awaaz...tab tak hai intezaar...for justice, truth and fairplay to come into play and for emotional atyachaar to make way...until then, keep watching Ek Boond Ishq at 8:30 PM IST on Life Ok TV

[From: http://ekboondishq.wordpress.com/2014/01/07/rape-a-delicate-matter-of-sensitivity-and-consciousness/ ]

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Posted: 11 years ago
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RR this is brilliant!...you have said it all. I hope the CVs read this article...they have taken up a very senstive issue and must ensure they do justice to the issue and the show...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Wowie, luk who's back 🤗 welcome back DD, the forum was not the same without your wonderful presence and contributions...we missed u big time.

Hope they do justice to this subject
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: thrower

Today, our hand was forced, literally so, by events unfolding in other parts of the world, to address this delicate subject matter.

Today of all the days, we have a teenager at the centre of a ravaging storm in Kansas City, who tried to take her life post the traumatic rape that she was a victim of on Jan 8th along with her best friend. Anon News Network mentions that she could may be have a brain injury from her suicide attempt. Daisy Coleman is a brave young woman and we wish her all the best. It's only due to the efforts of Anonymous with #justice4daisy that her case was taken up. Here is her spirited letter in her own words: http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/daisy-coleman-maryville-rape

Closer home, in India we've had the Nirbhaya case that has taken the nation by storm in recent times.

It's not like the incidence of rape is new in India or the world over, a United Nations report from government sources showed that more than 250,000 cases of rape or attempted rape are recorded by police annually in over 65 countries with United States and India sitting at the top of the heap. National shame!

What shames us is that the incidence of rape is still treated as some taboo and the burden of proof still seems to lie with the victim in most cases, and in a few cases it seems like there are forces at work to pin the blame on someone or the other without any sort of real effort in finding the real culprits and in some cases the rapists go scot-free as either they are protected by the powerful or familial love.

Ek Boond Ishq

In the show, the central crime seems to be that of RAPE and MURDER and it's also being shown that Mrityunjay is not the real culprit and that he is taking the blame for someone else.

Now, here comes the crux of the matter. This "sacrifice" is no-sacrifice. We all know in film and literature, how the chief protagonist or the hero is shown to have one big flaw or Achilles Heel. This then is the Achilles Heel of Mrityunjay. This injustice to the real victim due to his fanatical "love" or "obsession" to protect someone due to some promise he has made or is forced to make to his adopted mother, which has made him lose his perspective and integrity to truth.

Mrityunjay's real problem is not Tara or what she is doing. It is actually what SHE STANDS FOR, which is truth and the truth of his being. He knows that he is in the wrong because of his excessive love and that he is not standing on the side of right by protecting the culprits and TARA is being the mirror to his soul and is his conscience keeper that is questioning his conscience, which is not willing to accept this flawed thinking in him. He does not want this reality check as his hand is played by forces that are more powerful than his conscience, that of misplaced loyalty and misguided love.

But for Mrityunjay, it will ultimately be his fight against his emotions towards his adopted mum versus his own righteousness and willingness to stand for truth, which is represented by TARA's spirited defence of him. Jaag uthega uski mann ki awaaz...tab tak hai intezaar...for justice, truth and fairplay to come into play and for emotional atyachaar to make way...until then, keep watching Ek Boond Ishq at 8:30 PM IST on Life Ok TV

[From: http://ekboondishq.wordpress.com/2014/01/07/rape-a-delicate-matter-of-sensitivity-and-consciousness/ ]


Rama , WORD To this!!👏👏👏 👏👏 absolutely agree...😊

this is exactly what i would ike to see, Mrityunjay ultimately fighting his own battle. and proving himself innocent for establishinf the truth over evil forces...


ps: OMG!! dd In the house!!🥳

welcome back DD, HAPPY NEW YEAR!😃😃



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ha..another article...guess what..i'd read it yday and was about to comment on this...then remembered u r not active in ebi😆
yeah, daisy's incident i'd read b4 n it was quite saddening fact like Nirbhaya...kudos to her for not giving up attitude though the hardship fell upon on her life is deeply felt.

U said it right, about MJ..itz all a fight bet own emotions and righteousness ...self belief is what MJ lacked due 2 all the scars life had given but it was reclaimed n reformed in the form of Tara's confidence,determination n respect 4 him..


PS: Your last article "prism one" is my most fav of all d ones u'd shared...actually frankly speaking i lik abstract form of story representation...so was deeply move"d n tweeted that article.😉.
The lines reminded me of one of my fav writer of recent times "khaled hosseini" ..donno if u've read his books,

keep writing. Rama..i appreciate.👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ddFan2012

RR this is brilliant!...you have said it all. I hope the CVs read this article...they have taken up a very senstive issue and must ensure they do justice to the issue and the show...

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Happy 2 c u dd...🤗
forum missed u alot...n it will be more green due 2 ur gracious presence😛
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Lovely post Rita, true Mj has to fight and Tara has brought back the self-confidence in him to a certain extent. Read about the Daisy Coleman case its really sad that a human being will treat another in this manner.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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So true Aditi: Would love to see MJ fight back; it will be great to see Viraf in an avenging angel mod...want to see him roar

Sonal: Wowie, I am in seventh heaven that you've taken the name of Khaled Kite Runner Hosseini in the same breath, honored and touched by your appreciation and your encouragement. I am much grateful for such a lovely gesture. Thank you so very much.

Masta: "Deep" well, I am know to go off the DEEPEND :D

Gauri: So true, the confidence that is lost is slowly returning back with fullsteam due to Tara's presence and encouragement.

Thank you so much my friends for commenting and the encouragement.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very well written 😛
at last MJ will fight ownself for his freedom!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: nilani19

Very well written 😛
at last MJ will fight ownself for his freedom!


nice post dear😊..

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