Pavitra Rishta Written Update 6th January 2014 - Page 3

Originally posted by: Sakhile

Sunanda is not wrong when she says that Ankita married Naren for his money. That is exactly what she did. She married Naren so that her family can have financial security. She refused to marry Shashank claiming that she wanted to carry her famlies burdens and not hand her responsibility to anyone. But when Rushali came with the offer that she marry Naren and Rushali will take care of her family's needs, Ankita jumped and took the offer with both hands. She must therefore suffer the consequences of her deeds. Shashank is correct in saying this.

Originally posted by: naava

But, Sakhile, Ankita would also have married Shashank for money as she didn't love him but would have married only for security. So she was presented with two proposals, both for security and she chose the latter.

I think that is what arranged marriages are supposed to represent. You don't marry because you love someone, but to ensure status, class, and financial security. It was a bit unusual in that Ankita was marrying outside her class, but also Shashank was outside her class according to the script. And unwanted by the parents of Shashank. Not a good arrangement at all. While I personally am not an admirer of arranged marriages, they are pretty much the norm for this soap. Archu married Manav as an arranged marriage but then fell in love. The marriage between Arjun and Ovi was supposed to be an arranged marriage which a lot of people supported. (not me but that's another issue 😆 )

What happened with Archana and Manav is what is happening now with Ankita and Naren.

What consequences of her deeds are you meaning? I don't quite understand your point i guess.She did exactly what society expects of young Indian women, and she is now falling in love with her husband. She should suffer then? She shouldn't care what happens to him? She shouldn't try to protect him when he is in trouble?

Shashank is just jealous and angry. His argument is only based on personal rejection. It isn't a valid argument from any larger perspective though as far as I can see.

Originally posted by: Sakhile

Shashank offered to marry her because he loved her. She had been stringing him along for two or three years. Whe she agreed to marry Naren, she knew that he wasn't marrying her but rather he was marrying Ahana. She agreed to the charade, the deception.

I don't think this has anything to do with the concept of arranged marriages. Thus I will not discuss the concept or my views on it here.

Ankita will have to put up with people saying tha she marreid Naren for his money, because that is the truth. As to taking care of Naren etc. it has nothing to do with the discussion. I do not believe that society expects Indian women to marry insane men who believe they are someone else. This is a completely unnatural situation.

Shashank's anger is just and fair. It is natural that after you have been in a relationship with someone and are then rejected you would feel hurt and angry.

I donot wish to start WWIV, but these are my POVs.

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Totally, naava! These sadistic CVs have some sort of grudge against ArVi and their fans!

How much more insane can it get? First they separate them for 20 yrs on the flimsiest grounds, then for 20 yrs they dont communicate at all...then finally when they are on the verge of reuniting, Arjun gets brain clots, he goes to extremes to keep it a secret from Purvi, she goes to extremes to make him confess the truth! Now this RK, God only knows why he suddenly wants to marry Purvi!

Is he testing her love for Arjun? Did he get jilted by some woman so hes testing Purvi now? Why on earth would he want to marry a random woman he saw at a party? 🤪

If she does get married to RK and then Arjun does recover after his operation, just imagine the scenario! Total chaos! 😆

Originally posted by: rayadallie

Pallavi, Happy New year to you. My best wishes for good health and happiness in 2014 and onwards.

I am honestly thinking that this story is totally absurd!

And to add, there will be no chaos if purvi marries RK and Arjun gets better after the operation. They will go on loving each other, living separate lives, purvi will sleep separate from RK as with onir and you know the rest...what a beautiful love story arjun and purvi will have to tell their kids!

I only read the updates now and again. I have already stopped looking. They should just end this crappy show now.