Blast from the Past Thread #20 !!Nafrat Door Jaane Na De!! p117 ep 206 - Page 106

Originally posted by: indi52

^^^

thanks, faiqa,

these episodes can have me writing books, so am controlling myself. i loved your thoughts on three and defeat and victory.

thanks for all your comments. that gullak breaking thought... brilliant. never occurred to me.

also about how we women keep ourselves fettered. we do... but mainly because we grow up in a culture that has been around for centuries and is rarely questioned. however liberal your parents are, there is a prevalence of the old norms all around and becomes a part of you, without your knowing even.


Correct, but this is my thinking...when we are grown up and asa well balanced brain , as an independent person after the marriage can think and act then why not and I totally agreed with you that our society has trained us to be an obedient DIL and wife yet when commands come to us we follow the same , why not a change...so typical.I can tell u and I am so happy for that my kids have the opportunity to see my parents and me as a parent...they know and can see the difference .RESPECT is there but their mind all are set for what they expect and will get from me and from them.A huge difference as what bothered me I never even tried to adopt regardless of who and what has been said to me.That is my thing why not trying ti bring a change , start from small end ...

Pressure is always there and breaking set norms s not easy ...oh I know that as I am an outsider as I am a bully😆 but I always stand what is right.

Our Media is the most culprit in this game and the projection of DIL is so strange as I have to explain to my colleagues ,it is not what you are seeing and then I correct myself , majority is still the very same.

i don't say all that we have in our way is bad. but there are serious issues as far as women are concerned. i don't bother to question why it was designed so, since i am here and not there at an ancient time. they must have had their reasons. but now it is time to look at the situation again.. because the realities have changed. many parameters are no longer the same.

That's the point,Time has changed
it bothers me to see the way our indian television, watched constantly by almost the whole nation portrays women. it is unreal. it is in the long run and even now actually, dangerous.

have you ever seen a serial leading girl working? or being serious about her work? all she is encouraged to see herself as is an extension of the family... clearly support staff. less. and her immense power, he brain, mind, soul, all should be involved in only one thing, making her husband and his fam hapopy... in so called progressive serials, she also does things for her own fam. in other people's happiness only is her happiness. she never seeks anything for herself. not right.

I don't think so and not going to happen but this is an eye opening moment if IPK is so popular then why the heck not making the same shows because it's a fear we will lose control over this Nari...

the only aim in a girl's life is not to find a husband and make her ma in law happy, solve the problems of sasural, taking care of her in laws. these are valid yearnings... but not the only yearnings. and to suggest to someone to be good to her husband's fam is fine, but then also suggest to him, her fam is also his now. in this matter i do seek equality.

Not going to happen, equality is the thing they don't want.They will admire you with your thoughts before marriage ...uff drama ..and the moment ..I do comes a throne of I am better than u is back on.

there is a long running serial that is trying to delve into issues of the modern world, like inter cultural marriages, guys wanting to do work which is not traditionally considered a man's work, etc. i am happy, but when it comes to women... ufff. suffocating.

which is why when a lot of people felt that khushi was not dressing like a tycoon's wife, i felt sad. i adored asr for never asking her to change her appearance for him, in fact even la... he said don't change a thing. i feel if we girls accept that the moment we marry we should start looking like someone's wife and not ourselves, phir, faiqa, hum kya kahen.

I had a problem with tents not with her attire keeping the way she was and he never wanted her to change as he knew she is clumsy , he didn't want her to have Dupatta like Gopi bahu😆 that's our ASr not a man from Chandini Chawk...

it is normal to up the way you dress when you marry... if it comes from a sense of happiness, wanting to be attractive to your mate, feeling special as now you are in a new phase... all well. people dress differently when they start work also. so if khushi, started dressing nicely after he came back... when they both knew they loved each other, i'd find it natural. but to dress up to look like his wife? hai re nand kissore.

Idk how the heck you can work while dressing up like Anjali...seriously...

But it's the set norm again and no one wants to change it...That is my problem...Why not start from you...and then have a hope others will follow.

anyway, this discussion will never end.

i am missing asr as i think of him. and khushi, as she could have been.

i forgot i was watching just a tv soap. i guess that is ipk's triumph in the end.

😆

Originally posted by: ArshiHamesha

DISCLAIMER:DON'T COPY MY WORKS AND CONCEPTS WITHOUT GIVING ME CREDIT

YOU HAVE SEEN MY HUMBLE SIDE. TRUST ME YOU WON'T LIKE THE OTHER...

ARSHI"S INDEX

EPISODE 194

Obstructed whispers ...

The unheard whispers of hearts are echoing the walls of RM yet obstructed by many minds to deny their existence.The pure heart has gotten the permission to enter this house of glass but she is still not welcome to the one whose heart is her real place .Yet Obstructed and sealed mind is not able to deny the tiny whispers within him at any cost either and that's the mere power of love.

The episode starts with Shyam to toy Anjali's emotions convincing her to refuse the alliance of Arnav and Khushi.He did slip Arnav's name in rage instead of Sale Sahib...Anjali accepts his commanding wish and asks him to gather everyone in the hall to take a valid decision of this hasty decision of Arnav...Shyam leaves to fulfill his I mean Rani Sahiba's wish to dismantle this newly built castle of ARSHI.Everybody gather in the hall where Shyam's annoyance and disbelief was at the peak.

Love Nani and Arnav sitting opposite and he can't even meet the eye of her and her sniffing to show the anger to her fav grandson was worth watching .Khushi joins them and my grabber is she stands beside Arnav without hesitation as she knows her place is right next to her partner, Arnavji. Shyam's gloating smirk at Arnav gets quickly deflated when Anjali crushes his hopes and announces the conditions for the validation of this marriage .Khushi's hurt looks after rejection changes into a thankful relief as she has found a new family and new home .Khushi turns her look immediately to Arnav for permission while receiving Bridal attire which makes Arnav befuddled seeing her in tears.Their silent confused whispers are conveying mixed messages in between them.Love the concerned look of NK during rejection of Khushi which turns into a happy one for his friend .Really nice touch .

PONDERING CONNECTED DOTS: During Kidnapping and Remarriage NK was a true ally of Khushi.

Khushi is in her room on her bed clutched by her fb memories of marriage.She is caressing her Bridal attire but her mind is collecting the whispers of her dreamy Rajkumar which she has shared before marriage with Payal who is near to her more than anyone and her whispers ends with Arnav making her his as he lives in her heart .My grabber is she has accepted her destiny, her place as Mrs Raizada as she is sitting very comfortably on the bed. The most touching scene was when Garima was explaining Payal and Khushi the various facets of marriage . She explained the two impt things. One is when a girl meets her Rajkumar and lives happily ever after and that is when Payal opens the window of future and remembered Aakash. And today, she got married with her Rajkumar and has started her own life. The other thing is when Garima said that you can only know your Rajkumar while spending your entire life with him."Khuch Rishte jee kar hi pata chalet hain..." and that where Khushi is standing now and she will realize this destined relationship after sometime.

Today, Khushi needs to live the lesson given by her Mother, Garima.Khushi really got married to her Rajkumar in a gif of a second but she is still uncertain whether life is really fair to her or not. Her dream of a perfect marriage is shattered but like her Amma said "Koi farak nehin padta jeevan saathi aacha hona chahiye". [It doesn't matter just life partner should be good]Khushi wil get her answer in due time. Yes, marriages are made in heaven and Arnav and Khushi are destined to be together. The loop is closed.

Pause here:She remembers her words and thoughts about marriage as a sacred relationship with La and gets hurt as her wish of a respectable marriage is not fulfilled..

Her real Rajkumar walks in while her tears trailing down her cheeks which pauses his feet for a while. A whispering guilt makes him embarrassed in his eyes .Arnav seeks a barrier of Laptop in between him and Khushi by ignoring her yet keeps hawking her with his corner eyes .Khushi who keeps watching him few minutes and has had enough of it ,decides to make him meet the reality .The moment she barges towards him, Anjali's whispering knock halts her on her path .Anjali gives her jewels and announces, both are being expected downstairs .She doesn't forget to give a quick side eye to insure them her state of mind .Small exchange of glances between the couple also assures the anger in between em.

PONDERING CONNECED DOTS: Khushi who has refused taking jewels from Anjali on Diwali considering herself as an outsider now accepts it without any hesitation as she belongs to her ,to Raizada's ...

Khushi comes out after changing , sits by the dressing mirror , while Arnav's reflection whispers anger through it with clenching jaws. He pretends busy in work yet his fidgety state is not gone unnoticed by her. The slightest tinkling of bangles tightens his muscles but when she gives out a cry while wearing the neck piece, he reacts immediately for her help without thinking twice .

I wrote in 192 that Arnav and Anajli's past wound is not heeled and that's why Arnav reacted abruptly after the Terrace scene that the consequences are affecting everyone's lives. His imagination of Khushi as a traitor every moment is making him hate himself and his own life even more than her.

The day he bought bangles for her ,they both were experiencing their budding feelings for each other. The realization of losing someone so close to his heart made Arnav to fulfill all the wishes of Khushi. He wanted to gift her his first desire to own her and make her his; his first desire to see her smile just for himself; his first desire to fall in love and experience the taste of it. Yeah, that day he loved the "Tinkling" sound of these bangles. He loved her admiration of his his gift. It was the first experience of love without putting each other in any challenge or deal.

Today that first memory of togetherness has started haunting them. Khushi was wearing the bangles one by one as if she is ripping his heart of layer by layer . Their tinkling sound was reminding him losing her and there after he finds his love for her, his heart beat .But he is unaware that she is recollecting the same moments of love and she doesn't have a clue of his strange and anguish behavior. They both are suffering from their worst imaginations . My heart went out to both of them in this scene .This loop supposed to be closed with Mom's Kangan .

Symbolism and connections:Items near the door way are placed in 1 and 2 ...1 as a strong will and new beginning ,mentally and physically and 2 as a strong lust,quiet power of judgememnt,2 also links with the deals with partners [both in harmony and rivalry]Connection is easy as it is a new beginning for every one including these two.and the strong will of Arnav and Khushi will be seen in their perspective way.While lust and rivalry is at the peak here among Arnav and Shyam.

The winning look of Arnav was creating this rivalry cold war in between Shyam and Arnav is creating new hikes.

Arnav awaits by the door for his bride curiously as his eyes never lowers down.Khushi comes in, a bit timid yet looking like dazzlingly gorgeous princess "Rajkumari.." ,A perfect match for Rajkumar. Khushi pauses and looks at him with troubled eyes with questions.He turns away as being unable to answer her.However he cannot resist her allure and tempted beauty for long and his eyes automatically sways towards her and never leaves her as always but the hate jerks his head out from this allurement. Khushi comes and stands beside him and they look deeply at one another... his eyes holding a hint of admiration, distance and besieged anger over her questioning ones.

Love these touches where one sister doing the Aarti and the other is in tears of joy that her sister got a new home with respect.While Khushi and Arnav look at each other with quizzical eyes for putting up with this faade.He has a hint of remorse while she has tears of confusion.

Pondering connected dots"Anjali is the one who asked her put her right foot in first time and today again she is giving her permission to enter.

Anjali orders Arnav to follow the ritual of Raizadas to welcome the Bride in by carrying her after the Aarti. A scorching Arnav lifts Khushi and pauses while Khushi cringes as she is very well aware of that she is not welcome in his house or heart. Khushi looks at his face warily to find some softness or assertion but in vain. She slowly trails her hands up to holds on to him nervously while Arnav carries her among the family by marking her as Raizada 's Bahu, as his Bride and his companion.Khushi's whispering visage is welcomed into the house of glass but not in his obstructed heart.

Pause here:They both are standing together side by side as aacouple.Their position grabbed my eyes as Anjali is blocking Arnav-Khushi from Shyaam who was looking towards the three. It will be one day when Arnav will have his two important women beside him.

The shot of Arnav carrying her and walking ahead past Shyam , suggesting he will always be protector of her and will not allow Shyam to imbalance his or her world.

PONDERING CONNECTED DOTS: During the revelation and after throwing Shyam out , He feels proud seeing his two important women sitting side by side pouring her hearts out.

He will be carrying Khushi besides the odds of having accident with pride and Love.AND Shyam is not even present there because of his camera fitting.

Arnav quickly drops her after the ritual and quickly pushes her hand away from his coat as her touch is intolerable for him.He is ready to leave her proximity but fate has something else planned for them. Khushi's earrings gets stuck on his blazer and Khushi is unable to remove . Love him here as he clasps her gently and delicately removes the earring by taming his anger.That hints he will reject her first but will never shirk from his responsibility to protect her, to take care of her, or to let her go.He will always be there to assuage her. She steps away immediately nervously and he walks away leaving her alone in the hall

Pondering Connected Dots: The first heart beat she hears in her Laad Governor's proximity and that day he removed gently her earring and today he is angry yet again gentle.In Future on Karva Chauth he will do it with Love and care.

MOMENT OF THE DAY

https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x11fcdk_arnav-khushi-scene-223_shortfilms

https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x11fchu_arnav-khushi-scene-224_shortfilms

Originally posted by: ArshiHamesha

DISCLAIMER:DON'T COPY MY WORKS AND CONCEPTS WITHOUT GIVING ME CREDIT

YOU HAVE SEEN MY HUMBLE SIDE. TRUST ME YOU WON'T LIKE THE OTHER...

ARSHI"S INDEX

EPISODE 194

Obstructed whispers ...

The unheard whispers of hearts are echoing the walls of RM yet obstructed by many minds to deny their existence.The pure heart has gotten the permission to enter this house of glass but she is still not welcome to the one whose heart is her real place .Yet Obstructed and sealed mind is not able to deny the tiny whispers within him at any cost either and that's the mere power of love.👏

very beautifully said.

The episode starts with Shyam to toy Anjali's emotions convincing her to refuse the alliance of Arnav and Khushi.He did slip Arnav's name in rage instead of Sale Sahib...Anjali accepts his commanding wish and asks him to gather everyone in the hall to take a valid decision of this hasty decision of Arnav...Shyam leaves to fulfill his I mean Rani Sahiba's wish to dismantle this newly built castle of ARSHI.Everybody gather in the hall where Shyam's annoyance and disbelief was at the peak.

shyam was so disgusting. his obnoxious behavior was intolerable.

Love Nani and Arnav sitting opposite and he can't even meet the eye of her and her sniffing to show the anger to her fav grandson was worth watching .Khushi joins them and my grabber is she stands beside Arnav without hesitation as she knows her place is right next to her partner, Arnavji. Shyam's gloating smirk at Arnav gets quickly deflated when Anjali crushes his hopes and announces the conditions for the validation of this marriage .Khushi's hurt looks after rejection changes into a thankful relief as she has found a new family and new home .Khushi turns her look immediately to Arnav for permission while receiving Bridal attire which makes Arnav befuddled seeing her in tears.Their silent confused whispers are conveying mixed messages in between them.Love the concerned look of NK during rejection of Khushi which turns into a happy one for his friend .Really nice touch .

perfect observation. yes Khushi finally is in the place where she belongs, by her Arnavji's side. Though there is too much contempt between them right now, but he is her rajkumar in true sense.

it's so true what you said about NK. He is a true friend indeed.

PONDERING CONNECTED DOTS: During Kidnapping and Remarriage NK was a true ally of Khushi.

Khushi is in her room on her bed clutched by her fb memories of marriage.She is caressing her Bridal attire but her mind is collecting the whispers of her dreamy Rajkumar which she has shared before marriage with Payal who is near to her more than anyone and her whispers ends with Arnav making her his as he lives in her heart .My grabber is she has accepted her destiny, her place as Mrs Raizada as she is sitting very comfortably on the bed. The most touching scene was when Garima was explaining Payal and Khushi the various facets of marriage . She explained the two impt things. One is when a girl meets her Rajkumar and lives happily ever after and that is when Payal opens the window of future and remembered Aakash. And today, she got married with her Rajkumar and has started her own life. The other thing is when Garima said that you can only know your Rajkumar while spending your entire life with him."Khuch Rishte jee kar hi pata chalet hain..." and that where Khushi is standing now and she will realize this destined relationship after sometime.

how God can do injustice to this orphan girl. So he destined her with such a man who actually loves her immensely.

Today, Khushi needs to live the lesson given by her Mother, Garima.Khushi really got married to her Rajkumar in a gif of a second but she is still uncertain whether life is really fair to her or not. Her dream of a perfect marriage is shattered but like her Amma said "Koi farak nehin padta jeevan saathi aacha hona chahiye". [It doesn't matter just life partner should be good]Khushi wil get her answer in due time. Yes, marriages are made in heaven and Arnav and Khushi are destined to be together. The loop is closed.

Pause here:She remembers her words and thoughts about marriage as a sacred relationship with La and gets hurt as her wish of a respectable marriage is not fulfilled..

Her real Rajkumar walks in while her tears trailing down her cheeks which pauses his feet for a while. A whispering guilt makes him embarrassed in his eyes .Arnav seeks a barrier of Laptop in between him and Khushi by ignoring her yet keeps hawking her with his corner eyes .

loved how you described Arnav's emotion here. he was really was in compunction.

Khushi who keeps watching him few minutes and has had enough of it ,decides to make him meet the reality .The moment she barges towards him, Anjali's whispering knock halts her on her path .Anjali gives her jewels and announces, both are being expected downstairs .She doesn't forget to give a quick side eye to insure them her state of mind .Small exchange of glances between the couple also assures the anger in between em.

PONDERING CONNECED DOTS: Khushi who has refused taking jewels from Anjali on Diwali considering herself as an outsider now accepts it without any hesitation as she belongs to her ,to Raizada's ...

Khushi comes out after changing , sits by the dressing mirror , while Arnav's reflection whispers anger through it with clenching jaws. He pretends busy in work yet his fidgety state is not gone unnoticed by her. The slightest tinkling of bangles tightens his muscles but when she gives out a cry while wearing the neck piece, he reacts immediately for her help without thinking twice .👏

how much he denies, the love was still there in the dark crevice of his heart.

I wrote in 192 that Arnav and Anajli's past wound is not heeled and that's why Arnav reacted abruptly after the Terrace scene that the consequences are affecting everyone's lives. His imagination of Khushi as a traitor every moment is making him hate himself and his own life even more than her.

The day he bought bangles for her ,they both were experiencing their budding feelings for each other. The realization of losing someone so close to his heart made Arnav to fulfill all the wishes of Khushi. He wanted to gift her his first desire to own her and make her his; his first desire to see her smile just for himself; his first desire to fall in love and experience the taste of it. Yeah, that day he loved the "Tinkling" sound of these bangles. He loved her admiration of his his gift. It was the first experience of love without putting each other in any challenge or deal.

all his desire shattered after the terrace scene.no wonder why he resented so much.

Today that first memory of togetherness has started haunting them. Khushi was wearing the bangles one by one as if she is ripping his heart of layer by layer . Their tinkling sound was reminding him losing her and there after he finds his love for her, his heart beat .But he is unaware that she is recollecting the same moments of love and she doesn't have a clue of his strange and anguish behavior. They both are suffering from their worst imaginations . My heart went out to both of them in this scene .This loop supposed to be closed with Mom's Kangan .

Plz don't remind me that. it still aches my heart that Arnav never came to know that khushi gave up her last precious possession to make him happy.

Symbolism and connections:Items near the door way are placed in 1 and 2 ...1 as a strong will and new beginning ,mentally and physically and 2 as a strong lust,quiet power of judgememnt,2 also links with the deals with partners [both in harmony and rivalry]Connection is easy as it is a new beginning for every one including these two.and the strong will of Arnav and Khushi will be seen in their perspective way.While lust and rivalry is at the peak here among Arnav and Shyam.

The winning look of Arnav was creating this rivalry cold war in between Shyam and Arnav is creating new hikes.

Arnav awaits by the door for his bride curiously as his eyes never lowers down.Khushi comes in, a bit timid yet looking like dazzlingly gorgeous princess "Rajkumari.." ,A perfect match for Rajkumar. they just compliment each other perfectly. Khushi pauses and looks at him with troubled eyes with questions.He turns away as being unable to answer her.However he cannot resist her allure and tempted beauty for long and his eyes automatically sways towards her and never leaves her as always but the hate jerks his head out from this allurement. Khushi comes and stands beside him and they look deeply at one another... his eyes holding a hint of admiration, distance and besieged anger over her questioning ones.

he wanted to feel angry, but her beauty was distracting him to keep his anger.

Love these touches where one sister doing the Aarti and the other is in tears of joy that her sister got a new home with respect.While Khushi and Arnav look at each other with quizzical eyes for putting up with this faade.He has a hint of remorse while she has tears of confusion.

Pondering connected dots"Anjali is the one who asked her put her right foot in first time and today again she is giving her permission to enter.

Anjali orders Arnav to follow the ritual of Raizadas to welcome the Bride in by carrying her after the Aarti. A scorching Arnav lifts Khushi and pauses while Khushi cringes as she is very well aware of that she is not welcome in his house or heart. Khushi looks at his face warily to find some softness or assertion but in vain. She slowly trails her hands up to holds on to him nervously while Arnav carries her among the family by marking her as Raizada 's Bahu, as his Bride and his companion.Khushi's whispering visage is welcomed into the house of glass but not in his obstructed heart.👏👏👏

Pause here:They both are standing together side by side as aacouple.Their position grabbed my eyes as Anjali is blocking Arnav-Khushi from Shyaam who was looking towards the three. It will be one day when Arnav will have his two important women beside him.

The shot of Arnav carrying her and walking ahead past Shyam , suggesting he will always be protector of her and will not allow Shyam to imbalance his or her world.👍🏼

PONDERING CONNECTED DOTS: During the revelation and after throwing Shyam out , He feels proud seeing his two important women sitting side by side pouring her hearts out.

He will be carrying Khushi besides the odds of having accident with pride and Love.AND Shyam is not even present there because of his camera fitting.

Arnav quickly drops her after the ritual and quickly pushes her hand away from his coat as her touch is intolerable for him.He is ready to leave her proximity but fate has something else planned for them. Khushi's earrings gets stuck on his blazer and Khushi is unable to remove . Love him here as he clasps her gently and delicately removes the earring by taming his anger.That hints he will reject her first but will never shirk from his responsibility to protect her, to take care of her, or to let her go.He will always be there to assuage her. She steps away immediately nervously and he walks away leaving her alone in the hall

Pondering Connected Dots: The first heart beat she hears in her Laad Governor's proximity and that day he removed gently her earring and today he is angry yet again gentle.In Future on Karva Chauth he will do it with Love and care.

MOMENT OF THE DAY

https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x11fcdk_arnav-khushi-scene-223_shortfilms

https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x11fchu_arnav-khushi-scene-224_shortfilms

Originally posted by: ArshiHamesha

DISCLAIMER:DON'T COPY MY WORKS AND CONCEPTS WITHOUT GIVING ME CREDIT

YOU HAVE SEEN MY HUMBLE SIDE. TRUST ME YOU WON'T LIKE THE OTHER...

ARSHI"S INDEX

EPISODE 195

Whispering Hearts...

Heart and it's heartbeat can't be separated from souls who have no control of this desirous and passionate felt rhythm in their lives .The captivated an spell bounded moments leaves a scar in you for forever and that is exactly happening here.👏Arnav is trying to hate her as much as he can yet falling for her each moment.The greater the distance he tries to create , the closer he gets to her.Her oath while holding the mangalsutre is all she got and have faith in it..."He will be mine.." just like he marked her in rage according to her faith"You are mine..."[aaj se tum meri patni ho...]

beautifully said. Arnav's heart was fighting hard with his mind in that phase. and finally his heart won.

Anjali brings Khushi in her room after decorating the sage and goes out to send Arnav in.Shyam doesn't want to leave his beauty😡 and still lingers around Arnav's doorstep.Arnav catches Shyam ogling at his wife and that brings a face off time between the two but Anjali saves her hubby as always by calling him out.He leaves with his twitchy legs leaving the roaring Lion for his lioness.

shyam is so disgusting!

I loved how you mentioned khushi as his wife.

Arnav enters the room , locks the door and turns around and there is a moment of his dream which is whispering his heart here.He is stunned and lost by the spell binding beautified vision he encounters. His face relaxes for couple of seconds with whispering Rabba Ve before the memory flashes back and tension rests in his muscles. He turns away from her as he doesn't want to see her or wish to create a haunted memory but it's far behind his control.To run away from this misery he throws out blistery words of hate at her which put her at scorching fire. Just Think, being in his shoes it is hard for him to be with a cheater in one room as Khushi's character has been tainted in front of him.This is all one big misunderstanding because of misconceptions and he will get this later whatever is seen is not true.

her mesmerizing beauty always takes him to a trance. he tries hard to resist every time.

loved how you expressed his feelings here.

Khushi demands to know the reason of the marriage if it hurts him so much and why is he hurting him and her in return.Her double meaning comment "Na hum apke saath iss ghar main rehna chahte hain aur na iss kamre main..."[I don't want to live with you in this house or in this room...] ...That boils the magma in him as he assumes she wants to stay with Shyam...and he spills the beans of the reason without revealing the story "tum jahan rehna chati ho na wanhan reh paoogi aur na yahan..."[ you won't be able to live there where you want or here with me..] but Khushi is way innocent in this matter and doesn't register the true meaning of it.She is truly showing her trait here as she cares for others more than her.She knows there is a reason and he is not telling her yet she is still concerned about his hurt than hers .

uff this misunderstanding was killing me. but I loved khushi, that she kept trying to find out the reason and never gave up until he opened his mouth.

So a ruthless Arnav drags her harshly and throws her out of the room "aaj se tumhari jagha wahan hai aur meri yahan.."[ from today your place is outside and mine is inside.].Khushi just keeps staring at him without protesting . Arnav closed the door without putting a single thought into it and walks away from the door creating a distance from her. Khushi stands outside flummoxing over the change in the man, a man who couldn't bear a smallest wound on her , a man who was scared of her being fainted, a man who gifted her wishes and now that healer is the one who is puncturing wounds in her heart slowly yet sharply.Here comes Arnav's mom's letter and Kangan which will be in the picture.Khushi's holding her Mangalsutre as an oath to win him back.

he is surely a mystery man for her. but ultimately she won him.

PONDERING CONNECTED DOTS:The sliding Door closed , as Khushi slid it close before ...At that time too there were intruders in between them ,La and Shyam . Now the shadow of Shyam is hovering around them. Khushi had shut the door convinced that Arnav did not love her .. "mujhe tumhare hone na hone se koi farak padta hai then forget it..."[ you don't exist for me , ] ...the very same way "you mean nothing to me..."She had walked away leaving him alone...Today he shuts the door on her , convinced that She does not love him and he means nothing to her...BUT he is lying again by saying this.Their physical distance has no meaning as this is a circle which remains in between them either he starts or she , doesn't matter.

Symbolism and connection:BUT one thing he was in his room and Khushi is outside both times and she had closed one slide door in Epi 130 and he is doing both sides in this epi as he is still in his shell 2 shows partners,strong mentally deals in between partners .They are in this together no matter what and how many doors they close.

This night has no end as it progresses but Arnav is not able to run away from this vortex.He gets up to get the blanket as feeling cold when the reality hits him and he recollects the moments when in Nainital he threw her out of the room in cold and she got sick.His eyes transfers to her site on its own accord and gets shivering whispers in his spine seeing her trembling and huddling in cold.

it means, love is still there and he still do cares.

Arnav walks towards the door and jerks up seeing her shaking and immediately wants to call her in yet he controls this urge. But he fails to control his emotions though and he hits uncontrollable passion on recliner .He prevents himself from going to her yet his eyes never leaves her alone.Standing in the middle of the room trying to suppress his emotions ,venting on the destructions of the decorations but his heart cannot ignore the soft whispering of her heart which she already gave it to him. Those murmured feelings take over his hate and anger and without thinking much he pulls the blanket and walks towards the whispering heart of Khushi.He paused again as being trapped by haunting brutal memories and his ego doesn't allow him to let her see his vulnerability. He composes himself for putting his fake mask of ASR.He opens the door and throws the blanket on the startled face of Khushi.But Khushi's self respect doesn't allow her to accept this indignity and she angrily throws it away to convey him she would prefer the cold to such humiliation.Arnav receives her rejection and walks away and sits on the recliner as this is the worse punishment "her rejection for him". He was trying to separate her very existence from himself but unaware that it would affect him only in the end.

i loved how you described the vulnerability of Arnav. this scene was so powerful. I wept every time,I saw this scene. khushi's pain was too unbearable for me.Both Barun and Sanaya was excellent.

Arnav is fighting a war within,as he wants her inside but his egoistic and self controlled nature doesn't allow him and at the top he is being betrayed by his self imposed punished memories which are haunting him down every second along with Khushi's piercing quizzical hurtful eyes. But he doesn't want to be vulnerable to more hurt yet still can't shrug off the hurt and questions in her eyes which he caused but she is not even accusing him.Her silence is killing him as much as his strangeness is stabbing her.He turns his face as he can't take it any more especially her innocence and ethereal beauty which makes him weak and that's what not ASR's trait.As he is shattered he misunderstood her completely and he is more shattered for making himself look like a boy toy to her, kind of.He can't be weak.He sits on recliner as he can't stay away from his Khushi"khushi se door jane main kyuon itni taqleef ho rahi hai.." [Why it is so hard to go away from Khushi?] will come later but has settled in his skin deep down a long time ago.He is fidgeting with his struggle to hate her while she is crying outside.He sleeps inside on the recliner in cold while she shivers outside.Nani's words which Khushi will understand later,"agar Chote kissi keh waste khuchu nar kar sakat hai tou khud ko hi saza dewat hai.."[If Chote can't do anything for any one then punish himself] This is the hurting path that will prove how lucky he has been to have been loved by the girl who is pure golden at heart and not a gold digger as he predicted.

absolutely. she is the girl who loved him unconditionally. in spite of so much hate and contempt, she never could hate him and forgave him without his redemption.

Its the pain and the hurt that brings them closer .Khushi abuses him and teases him but couldn't stop loving him and he hurt her, abuses her, ridicules her yet couldn't stop loving her. "kitni koshish ki tum se nafrat karne ki par kar nahin paya...kitni koshish ki aap se pyar na karne ki par humre dil ne humari baat nahin mani..."[I tried my best to hate you but couldn't ...how much I tried not to love you but my heart didn't listen to me either] Telepathy and their confession is setting its roots here. But seriously, I feel for both of them today.

that's what I mentioned above. their love is too empowering to surmount hate.

The mighty Arnav Singh Raizada have certainly understood that Diwali night he had entered the most sacred place in this world, Khushi's heart. That moment near pool when he was about to seal his love on her, She indeed had submitted her heart that day, she went with the flow. Yet the Rajkumar was not ready. His hasty decision that night the repercussions of which the destined girl still feels is here he is facing today.That day he left her at the pool side all alone shattered while he was with the crowd rejoicing on his sudden decision but he wasn't happy as his eyes were scanning his Khushi's reaction and her tears which made him died thousands times as he had hurt the most important who is the destined to be his heart."apni zindagi ka hissa banaoonga hamesha hamesha keh liye..."[I will make you the part of my life for eternity] will come later. 👏👏👏

Today is the day again we have the same moment with a slight difference. One impulsive decision of his has again affected the lives of these two. This time the Rajkumare was ready but he had found the Rajkumari on the wrong end . As what goes around comes around. what he had sowed on Diwali night he is reaping it now.We have a capability to create our own fate but destiny is written by some one else. Today the same scene where Khushi is in the pool side all alone and he is inside his room on the recliner and each scrutinizing each other's state.Her questionable looks, his pleading her to somehow prove his thinking wrong shows that the tables have turned. His family is not with him But both time the mighty Mr. ASR had Khushi beside him to cry with him. Yes, once a woman has given you her heart, you can never get rid of her. She'll always be with you; it doesn't matter how many times you say ' "You don't mean a thing to me".

i just loved, how you incorporated the two most significant moments here,their most significant moment on the night of diwali and today the night of their suhaag raat. but in both circumstances khushi became victim of his loathe. i just salute her patience. Gosh this girl can endure so much!

PONDERING CONNECTED DOTS: He is the one who did not even pause for a sec to drop her from his office, he is the one who showed no mercy leaving her in the dark cold rom of Naninital and slept peacefully but Today the same man can't see her shivering in cold , he is thinking only about her safety to alleviate her pain , her misery.Memories of the rainy night when Khushi was shivering in the parking lot and The great ASR had thrown his coat over to her but Khushi rejected it in return.That day he walked away leaving her but not today... he is affected by this rejection,,he can't maintain the same unflappability or calmness.There is a storm in her silence, in her rejection, in her quizzical eyes.He's been rejected in his whole life since his childhood and that is not settling with him , not at all but unlike the others he can't do damage to this girl , she is his part...His heart which is his life line.

amazing perception. I agree, but every time he repented after mistreating her, specially after the guest house incident.

The sun rises with new layers to peel off in this anguish moment.👏The two hurting alienated hearts are still in the same position when Anjali comes to wake em up.Arnav jerks up and without thinking a second and goes to wake Khushi up who is deeply asleep. Arnav quickly picks her up and at her irritation just puts her down hastily in their room.He cleans up the mess of the room and tells her to play along which she completely to abide by. Love her here..Anjali hands Khushi her sari and walks away ignoring her Chotey while Khushi walks away to washroom after giving him a fuming stare.Poor Chote is caught in between his two important ladies and has no clue how to handle their wrath.

Pause here: This is for those who says Khushi didn't put her fight with him as she is doing exactly what she took oath for holding the mangalsutre.She will win his heart and that's exactly what she is achieving here.Everytime he hurts her , gets hurt back in return and come closer to her. Why the heck Khushi is quiet ...here comes Mom's letter and Kangan...Khushi is doing exactly as she had held that Mangalsutre as an oath.She has to win him and she is .His struggle to hate her is losing its grip."Bear his anger and return love with interest " and that's what is coming in the picture

She is not backing down from her lioness side as what she said in her spunky way.."ok let Anjali know what you did to me..".She is a true mate of him...I love her and her wise brain as her provocative nature is really a compatible one with ASR's hasty ones.She is the one who puts halts on his own actions and makes him traces back to her.

oh yeah, she is chivalrous, not oppressed bahu of hindi soaps.

The sisters scene was quite appealing one as Payal's relief when Nani intervenes for Khushi to let her cook was worth watching. Her silent handing over of the oil shows her care for Khushi which brings a soft teary smile on Khushi's face.These two sisters can't remain silent for long astheir bond is way strong and deep. After Khushi's chirpiness Payal again demands to know the reason for Khushi's hasty decision.She even makes her feel guilty to make her confess but Khushi holds back. Payal gets disappointed and hurt at Khushi's lack of trust and leaves Khushi alone who just gets another burning mark on her soul.

MOMENT OF THE DAY

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Originally posted by: ArshiHamesha

@sohara 🤗

so sweet of you but you shouldn't be ding that as Exams are first and it is still here.I am busy these days as semester is at the verge of ending so we all will have some break after next week.can't wait

Thank you.Glad you like it.😊