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Posted: 12 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: charuluv_SV

why daddu always eating samosa's even in hospital,i think soon he will find bed near sanchi in hospital🥱 l


I felt real disgust to see him bring samosas. Hell, thats a hospital, and you are eating samosas that too, for breakfast. And feeding the patient samosas, without having a word with doctor about that.

Usually people give juice, sandwiches or alike easy food.

This has to be silliest hospital scene ever,


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Posted: 12 years ago
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How about our tray server ?
She knows Sanchi can't stand her - she knows Ira can't stand her - phir bhi chali aayi - 'Sanchi - lo doodh pee lo !"""

Ma - chai le lo !
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She doesn't understand ? when someone is miffed at you - they want to keep a little distance. By constantly being in their face and showing concern and serving - you are only irritating them even more ?!!!

She cud have easily given the milk to Chhoti Ma or Mahi and said - I got this for Sanchi - please give her. Everybody understands - but no - we have to bear this brainless bahu...🤢
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Posted: 12 years ago
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And to be fair to Daddu - he was just trying to cheer her up ! Her stomach is not upset - she can eat junk - she just needed to be cajoled and made to feel wanted and cherished. Thats why Daddu told - garam garam - from your favourite shop - etc etc
I though it was very sweet and caring of him. Very grandfatherly and adorable. Except - that - I think she doesn;t deserve it of course. What she needs is a joint family meeting - where she is told by one and all - that she needs to accept this J breakup and sensibly - no more drama. We are a strong upright brave family and we can't let you behave like a coward and weakling. Talk to us, lean on us, be only with us - but dump your friends and these weak thoughts - We are with you. But this rishta is broken and no amount of crying and blood letting wl uindo that.

Sanchi - needs her family to be strong for once and not give in to her tantrums.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#84

Originally posted by: poorvab



seriously wish anandi would retort !!!👏



The problem is that anandi doesnt say wrong word against jagdish .Thats y shekhars get more pissed at anandi.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#85

Originally posted by: hooked

How about our tray server ?

She knows Sanchi can't stand her - she knows Ira can't stand her - phir bhi chali aayi - 'Sanchi - lo doodh pee lo !"""

Ma - chai le lo !
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She doesn't understand ? when someone is miffed at you - they want to keep a little distance. By constantly being in their face and showing concern and serving - you are only irritating them even more ?!!!

She cud have easily given the milk to Chhoti Ma or Mahi and said - I got this for Sanchi - please give her. Everybody understands - but no - we have to bear this brainless bahu...🤢


Yes our tray server is a stupid brainless person. I agree that if one knows that someone is miffed with them, whatever the reason, even if they have no reason to be miffed, the person should keep away till things calm down. By all the time trying to be the dutiful bahu and keeping on trying to be in their face, attempting to serve them or say something, serves no other purpose but to irritate that person. It looks like she wants to be insulted. I don't know what point the writer of this serial is trying to make!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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The message is dont give up trying. If you dont try, you will be labelled as undutiful.

Could not give to Mahi because mahi still is not on her side. CM may feel offended if she is given that task. Even if she does it, Ira will think anandi is showing attitude and accuse her.

I appreciate this sense of duty. And anandi's viewing their behaviour is different. She thinks that they are in a great mess and they should be treated with patience and consideration irrespective of their behaviour. In these days of instant emotions, maturity takes a back seat and is ridiculed.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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leaves maturity is not ridiculed ...it is only expected that maturity too should have sensitivity . Who says maturity cannot have sensitivity. A suicide patient who gets irritated by the mere sight of your face , who has repeatedly told u NOT to serve her food , whose mother has given express instructions to u that SHE will attend her suicide attempting daughter , that patient may go in a rage if these instructions r not followed . It is not good for her mental state . Thick skinned duty must be weighed ...if its irritating to some , find a way . She can , as hooked said , do the duty but ask others to help out during the final stage . She can bring the doodh but give it to CM . CM will understand fully , she knows Ira's ire on Anandi . Ira yesterday told CM that i cannot bear her talks . She hates her voice , her face , everything . Why scratch the wound . CM too is the bahu of the house , all her life she too has worked there , will passing milk or eatables on be insulting to her , does she now sit like devi idol in a pandal ? Anandi is pretty brainless , just as she exercised no brains in sitting on crucial facts .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I totally did not find myself getting upset about Ira's behaviour about the water glass yesterday. Or about the chai.
It is considered very rude to come bang in between two people who are talking.
Even if you have to serve - come from the side - excuse yourself - hold out your tray.

Don't come right in between like she did. Even I was thinking what is she doing - then then Ira burst.

Ira can't stand you, can't bear to talk to you, can't bear to eat food that you've made. Then WHY must she keep on irritating by offering this and that and the rest ?

The nurse wud have come and served Sanchi with milk right ? Or - better still - go out - corner a nurse and ask her to serve the milk.

I mean - WHY get in their faces ? Step away - keep a little distance for a while. Let their irritation calm down. Don't make it worse !!

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