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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't care if Jagdish didn't want to go to see saanchi -- either because he didn't feel he was responsible ... or because he felt scared to go there...
But I do take issues with the fact that he is sitting in the hospital housing and calling bapusa and acting like an orchestra conductor waving his baton and giving directions to bapusa and dadisa to go and fix things on his behalf. 🤢
If he felt that he was responsible then he should have gone to the hospital himself and tendered an apology in person. Whether the shekhars and saanchi will want to see him is irrelevant.
And if he doesn't feel responsible then he should sit quietly. What is the point of putting burdens on his family?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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No need to aggravate them if he is not wanted. He just requested his bapusa, who was already debating with his family on the topic, to go see her condition for the sake of humanity. I don't believe he asked them to fix things. 🤔
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Posted: 12 years ago
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He knew that all this has happened because of the way he handled things.

He did not take his family into confidence when he was breaking off with Sanchi and even after he did the deed he never bothered to explain to his family why he did that and now he wants his family to minimise the damage.
Somethings about him never change.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@persistence -- "fix things" means precisely that. Not fix them in a tangible way, but definitely going to see her for the sake of humanity means going and putting a salve of some sort on the relationship.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yes he remembers now that bapusa can go instead of him. He makes a mess of the situation, never cares to talk to his family before taking such decisions but has the nerve to ask them to go instead of him while he sits in a different home with his 3rd new wife. What a pathetic character!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: tinoo

@persistence -- "fix things" means precisely that. Not fix them in a tangible way, but definitely going to see her for the sake of humanity means going and putting a salve of some sort on the relationship.


yea, but motive/intent matters. Going there for humanity's sake and because they are their relatives is the motive/intent. "Putting a salve of some sort" is a desirable side effect. 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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If jagiya would have married ganga six month ago the day when he realized he loves her and she is best match for him or if after knowing saachi intentions in restaurant if he would have ran to manglore and married ganga then it is wrong, but he went and explained girls parents, which is more important and taken all blame on him, he felt shiv and shekars are samajdhar and can think bit more wisely as they know their daughter more than him, but no use. Digusting shekars how could they think they have seen her for ages how rude and jidhi she is they are not able to convince her and expecting jagiya to play and treat her like a doll...why are they not thinking that what saachi said in the restaurant might be true because they know she could go to any extent to get things done in the way.

though DS feeling bad for not informing her before breaking the engagement, when first they brought the rishta jagiya was not 100% happy and he said he need to speak to anandi first, but everyone know who sumitra and DS stopped him for that does singhs does not feel that it is important for them to talk to Anandi before taking big decisions and leaving everything to jagiya instead of blaming him to satisfy sumitra ego...everyone know what is going to happen if he says that saachi is not changed they are going to force him just think about the situation now even though he is married they still want him to leave ganga and marry saachi after IRA and sumitra giving so many curse to ganga for breaking the engagement, but they want to break her marriage for their daughter sake. If he does not break the engagement now either he and anandi has to face the problems life long or they might ask him the same question why didn't you stop the marriage after you came to know about saachi intentions before marriage and why were you convinced when saachi said she said everything to impress her friends...wo ese bura nahi hota na...they would anyway blame jagiya even if he marry her or not...and saachi would never change or adjust to jaitsar or village life...saachi life should be a lesson to all the girls and their families who think that if they act smart before marriage and can change them after marriage according to their taste and expect boy and his family to dance according to her or would attempt suicide or put your whole family behind bars.

shekars and singhs are trying to use jagiyas weakness here by blackmailing him every time by saying you have cheated and spoiled 3 women life and you are always wrong and support saachi throughout their married life and according to them in future jagiya should take permission from saachi even for drinking water.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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How the hell he is coward ? if he does not want to go there it will cause problems for everyone Shekhars seeing him lash out at him ,. it can be problem for Anandi , it might be painful to Sanchi He became coward ?Wow what a logic if he would have gone there still he would be beaten here how he went there leaving his wife and created troubles for everyone so bottom line some people just love to beat the pinatta and they are beating
and Bapusaa came forward to speak with son and support him now where he was previously that he would ask help from him?

and yeah he is a pathetic character for blind haters Gauri mata k bhakts only🤢
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Posted: 12 years ago
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He is not a coward. It took lot of guts to break up and he has taken enough lashings from
Shekhars. If he went there it would only give a wrong message to Sanchi that her plan worked.
Any way the dokri came and flashed the news uncermoniusly. If she cared so much it should be she
Who s going. The whole rishta was forced on him for the welfre of A by this old bag Kalyanidevi and
Sumitra. Let her go and face the humiliation. Jagia has taken enough for hese people.it is her
turn to take some. I wished Sumitra went also.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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he is much a changed person..
but sometimes...he ll show that he is the old one...

i prefer that he ll go to udaipur with ganga..

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