Pis sign a contract before wedding:BV

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Balika Vadhu is giving a lesson these days that couple must sign a contract before performing any Wedding ritual. According to the contract if anyone backs out of wedding at any point of time he or she should not considered responsible for the breakup. If it is arranged marriage then they have to be more careful and add more clauses like any family member can't force a guy or a girl for the wedding or can do a emotional blackmailing. Also after breaking wedding if anyone commits suicide he or she will be solely responsible for it. One more thing to add on that a guy or a girl don't have to give any reason to each other's family for the breakup of wedding as after-all they have to spend their lives together. So it is legit for them to decide weather they are compatible with each other or not.

Balika Vadhu story is going nowhere and revolving merry-go-round around Sanchi. She became a untreated wound on both families. It is like if anyone has committed to marry he or she has to marry even if he or she founds out anything bad about the other partner. (Though Sanchi is not characterless but if she was and Jagya founds out that then also it will be the same condition as now).

Shiv's family is literally pushing Singh's and Jagya to marry their daughter since the beginning. Previously it was because Anandi is their DIL so Singh's hesitant to say no to the alliance and now since they committed to marry so they can't say no even if they found out anything bad about girl.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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90 views but no comment...pls comment guys...what do u think about it.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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sheenug , I hope the case has a long speech by the judge at the end

1] That its shameful for a family to be this unaware of the limits their offspring can go to ...to spoil them to this extent that they become irksome to society .

2] That it is NOT compulsory for anyone to accept an apology, but a prerogative .

3] That it is better to break an engagement than a marraige .

4] That an engagement is a period of gauging and one must immediately implement what one senses in this gauging ...going ahead or breaking off .

5] That parents should stop making this a prestige issue or ego issue and understand that it is a boon in disguise coz a marraige conducted to keep up false prestige can make the offspring suffer for life ...so let the offsprings make choices freely without mental burden .

6] A girl who does suicide attempt and has an obsessive compulsive disorder must be put , for the benefit of society in a mental facility as she needs monitoring and treatment which her family can't give her .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I love your reply because these days whenever I watch Balika Vadhu I feel what's a big deal to break an engagement. Why are family members unnecessarily stretching this matter. Also I live the U.S. where people don't even take their marriage so seriously and if they have commitment or compatibility problem they prefer to move on.

But in this serial they made breaking an engagement a big issue. I would be happy if Jagya tell everyone that due to Sanchi's psycho behaviour he left her.

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