Anandi's self respect

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hummingbird

@hummingbird

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Posted: 12 years ago

The way Anandi has become a punching bag for her Sasra ppl..mainly Ira and Sanchi..and now even her pati parmeshwar Shiv, she should really open her mouth and not just keep that shocked expression on her face. Audience gave so much love to Anandi's character because she never gave in to social pressures and fought for justice.

But in her own case she has hardly shown any self respect. It is high time that she confronts everyone who has conveniently put the blame on her for every disaster that has happened in their family. She needs to remind them that when she had suggested that Jagiya-Sanchi rishta is not suitable they had shut her up...Also they didnt even bother about her feelings that how she will feel to again be related to her ex husband! She should also expose the manipulative ways of Sanchi on how she bribed the Pandit ..the family should realise that their lado is not so doodh ki dhuli! 😡

But above all she should confront Shiv and tell him to be more understanding and not just blindly believe his pyari behna! She should make it clear that now she will not take any accusations lying down and neither will she hear anything against her own family who have done nothing wrong! I want her to give him an ultimatum in this regard. Hopefully this track will be much more exciting than what the CVs are force feeding us right now! Absolutely tired of everyone weeping and shrieking!😭😭😭

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debbie

@Debbiee

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Posted: 12 years ago

Don't worry my friend.

If everyone is accusing her that does not mean she is losing her self-respect.

Criticism is part of life.

At work place also managers have to face tantrums from senior management if the juniors don't play their role properly. If you are active in this world you are bound to face criticism.

My main concern is why she is not making herself capable enough so that people pay her respect as well before criticising. And why she is getting involved in the kitchen politics so much.

Does the ex-sarpanch and batch topper has nothing better to do in life!!

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Nandita / Tina

@5cents

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Posted: 12 years ago

Please tell me how do you measure a self-respect of a person? self-respect cannot be determined by someone else's actions and words...I think this is exactly what you are doing here.

Why are you determining Anandi's self-respect through Ira's & Sanchi's words & Shiv's actions. Whatever Ira & her daughter have done they has lowered their own respect in Anandi's eyes but I refuse to believe that it did any damage to Aji's self-respect. Aji did not do anything wrong so why should her self-respect be dminished? If my memory serves me right I have seen Ira apologizing to Aji after all her verbal abuses to her ...maaf kar dena beta.

Even if Ira is questioning Aji & Sanchi is making her a culprit ...i really cannot see how this is lowering her self-respect. At first i took self-respect at face value and i pretty much had the same opinion as many here in the forum. If you really understand or well try to understand self-respect it's a lot more than it seems at face value. self-respect is not as brittle as we are making it out to me. it is a mark of a strong woman and Aji is a very strong & caring woman who believes in forgiveness.😃
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kavmuks

@kavmuks

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Posted: 12 years ago

Anandi will give all off them one fine day ...

Look at the people -

1. Sanchi anted to Marry Jagya and got completely mad

2. family members did not want but they agreed

3. They went and proposed.. (Anandi's opinion was not seemed or even informed)

4. They saw all bad things and then stared seeing all good in Jagya

5. Everyone took and gave credits to each other.. sancho was good girl

Now when this has happened - they are blaiing Anandi

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hummingbird

@hummingbird

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: 5cents
Please tell me how do you measure a self-respect of a person? self-respect cannot be determined by someone else's actions and words...I think this is exactly what you are doing here.

Why are you determining Anandi's self-respect through Ira's & Sanchi's words & Shiv's actions. Whatever Ira & her daughter have done they has lowered their own respect in Anandi's eyes but I refuse to believe that it did any damage to Aji's self-respect. Aji did not do anything wrong so why should her self-respect be dminished? If my memory serves me right I have seen Ira apologizing to Aji after all her verbal abuses to her ...maaf kar dena beta.

Even if Ira is questioning Aji & Sanchi is making her a culprit ...i really cannot see how this is lowering her self-respect. At first i took self-respect at face value and i pretty much had the same opinion as many here in the forum. If you really understand or well try to understand self-respect it's a lot more than it seems at face value. self-respect is not as brittle as we are making it out to me. it is a mark of a strong woman and Aji is a very strong & caring woman who believes in forgiveness.😃
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Well thanks but no thanks for explaining the concept of Self respect! I do have a fair idea of what self respect is...and in Anandi's case the way she keeps standing like a statue and keeps crying a bucketful after every new accusation on her , i dont see much self worth there..obviously she is pitying her condition..and that my friend shows lack of self respect..Any self respecting person will never be affected by other's opinion but Anandi is clearly affected! She needs to come out of it and if she wants regain that self worth she should learn how to give it back to others.

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hummingbird

@hummingbird

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Posted: 12 years ago

Seriously tired of Anandi's non-stop crying...it has become unbearable! CVs need to revive the original character..we want the determined Anandi back! 😡

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hummingbird

@hummingbird

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Posted: 12 years ago

The way she said that shiv ke bina main kuchh nain...shows how much self respect she has! The funniest thing is tht the a few weeks back same Anandi was lecturing those village women to be self reliant and have own identity besides being their husband's wives..!!! Time to practice what you preach!

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