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From day 1, I have been finding atleast one quality of myself in Guahar. The way she speaks her mind, is strong and won't let you walk over her no matter how small or big the issue is, and even gets emotional in the middle of the way. Because no matter how strong you are, that doesn't mean your a b***** and have a cold heart.
My respect for this woman went over the rooftop when she was there for Elli in the bathroom. I can't even explain how shocked and disgusted i am of the women who were supporting ARMAAN! Yeah i understand they were having fun and joking around, but there is a fine line. How can we expect men to change or defend and respect women, when the women themselves let that line become blurry! She is crying and hurt, yet Pratusha has the guts to tell her she shout be quiet just because armaan is older, MY FOOT!
You would think a girl who had to file a case against her boyfriend for domestic violence would have some sympathy and disgust for such mysogynist acts...if i had any ounce of respect for pratz, it's all out the window now *disgusted*
And kamya...i love her for her intelligence and mind, but even she overlooked it just cuz she is best buds with armaan now *smh* I won't lie, but even though i was rooting for kamya, she really disappointed me today.
A part of me was angry as to why elli ran away and cried and didn't fight back at that moment, but the other part of me can't blame her. She is struggling with hindi and so at the moment feels intimated, an outcast cuz she is a foreigner, and maybe even a bit insecure.
Yeah Guahar maybe has TOO much opinions, should shut up once in a while, but she does have good reason to speak most of the time, except just doesn't know how to play her cards/words right. She wants to voice her opinions, but doesn't know how to do it in the best way. Yet still I have more respect for her and see certain qualities of myself in her compared to the other women on this show.
I am proud of her today, and women should really take into account what she told Guahar in the bathroom.
A piece of advice from myself... If you women can't speak or stand up for yourself, then you don't have the right to complain either. If you can be silent in front of the men who treat you with disrespect, then no point in complaining and whining afterwards when they are gone. You may find this harsh, but I won't sit here and feel bad for you, when you won't help yourself. I have lost count how many times i have told this to some women i know. They tell me it's easy for me to speak up as i am outspoken, short tempered, and people are scared to mess with me If it may be easier for me it doesn't mean you feel more pain that i do. The only difference is i do something about it. The reason why people are scared to mess with me is because i SPEAK UP. Honestly, what do you have to lose? You are already losing your self respect and worth by tolerating everything and most likely leaving it up to GOD to help you. No sweetheart, God ain't going to help you, until you help yourself. He has given you a brain and tongue for a reason, your choice how you want to use it. Just don't complain afterwards.
P.S: My first post in this forum and i can tell with this post i'm going to have to welcome ppl who are going to love me and ppl who are going to hate me...koi baat nahi...it's nothing knew 😛 Yeah this is more like a rant but i just had to get it out there or it would eat me alive😳But it was all with good attention though :) Nice to see some similar faces here ...its been awhile.
~Zee
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