Staying in a loveless marriage is a disrespect to marriage

Ok i have no problems with the fact that vishnu doesn't want to divorce meethi because he believes in marriage am ok with that. I have issue with the fact that he says i wont divorce you but neither will i love you. That is where hypocrisy comes.

Why stay in a love less marriage because you want to respect the institution of marriage? Well this is the biggest disrespect

Yes in arranged marriages we do fall in love later but we don't get married to a person claiming we will never love him/her. We get married thinking that one day we will truly love this person and give our heart ,body and soul to this person.

If vishnu wants to stick to this marriage then fine but then he should actually try to make it work rather than whining and mopping around. He should try to fall in love with methi, try to understand her., try to give his heart ,body and soul to her. He should say i will stick to this marriage and try to love you saying that i will stick to this marriage but not love you is extremely hypocritical, wrong and complete disrespect to marriage.

GOd knows what patni rights is he talking about? is he talking about having lunch or dinner with her?is that his idea of patni rights?Patni's true rights are full right over husband's mind,heart,body and soul .Is vishnu willing to or even willing to try to do that .No.He isnt.Then all his talk about marriage is superficial, his respect towards marriage is superficial. He is actually disrespecting his marriage by saying that he wont ever fall in love with meethi

If he wants to respect this marriage then he should try to love meethi rather than trap himself and her in a loveless marriage.Staying in a loveless marriage becuase you wnat to respect your marriage is the biggest hypocracy of the society

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

Ok i have no problems with the fact that vishnu doesn't want to divorce meethi because he believes in marriage am ok with that. I have issue with the fact that he says i wont divorce you but neither will i love you. That is where hypocrisy comes.

Why stay in a love less marriage because you want to respect the institution of marriage? Well this is the biggest disrespect

Yes in arranged marriages we do fall in love later but we don't get married to a person claiming we will never love him/her. We get married thinking that one day we will truly love this person and give our heart ,body and soul to this person.

If vishnu wants to stick to this marriage then fine but then he should actually try to make it work rather than whining and mopping around. He should try to fall in love with methi, try to understand her., try to give his heart ,body and soul to her. He should say i will stick to this marriage and try to love you saying that i will stick to this marriage but not love you is extremely hypocritical, wrong and complete disrespect to marriage.

GOd knows what patni rights is he talking about? is he talking about having lunch or dinner with her?is that his idea of patni rights?Patni's true rights are full right over husband's mind,heart,body and soul .Is vishnu willing to or even willing to try to do that .No.He isnt.Then all his talk about marriage is superficial, his respect towards marriage is superficial. He is actually disrespecting his marriage by saying that he wont ever fall in love with meethi

If he wants to respect this marriage then he should try to love meethi rather than trap himself and her in a loveless marriage.Staying in a loveless marriage becuase you wnat to respect your marriage is the biggest hypocracy of the society

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

Ok i have no problems with the fact that vishnu doesn't want to divorce meethi because he believes in marriage am ok with that. I have issue with the fact that he says i wont divorce you but neither will i love you. That is where hypocrisy comes.

Why stay in a love less marriage because you want to respect the institution of marriage? Well this is the biggest disrespect

Yes in arranged marriages we do fall in love later but we don't get married to a person claiming we will never love him/her. We get married thinking that one day we will truly love this person and give our heart ,body and soul to this person.

If vishnu wants to stick to this marriage then fine but then he should actually try to make it work rather than whining and mopping around. He should try to fall in love with methi, try to understand her., try to give his heart ,body and soul to her. He should say i will stick to this marriage and try to love you saying that i will stick to this marriage but not love you is extremely hypocritical, wrong and complete disrespect to marriage.

GOd knows what patni rights is he talking about? is he talking about having lunch or dinner with her?is that his idea of patni rights?Patni's true rights are full right over husband's mind,heart,body and soul .Is vishnu willing to or even willing to try to do that .No.He isnt.Then all his talk about marriage is superficial, his respect towards marriage is superficial. He is actually disrespecting his marriage by saying that he wont ever fall in love with meethi

If he wants to respect this marriage then he should try to love meethi rather than trap himself and her in a loveless marriage.Staying in a loveless marriage becuase you wnat to respect your marriage is the biggest hypocracy of the society