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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sidra08

Lo gi aa gaye Jagaya bashers with out of facts serial post When Jagaya agreed to marry Sanchi at that time he loved no one if you have not seen the serial then see it again Sanchi the great innocent bachi knew he does not love her still he bheek mangofying to him to marry her and where he is cheating perhaps in your dreams i don't have time to waste upon giving you answer for each and every illogical comment but if Sanchi would not be bad she would have won Jagaya's love not Ganga and this all would not be happening in the first place People tend to forget if she would be sincere and good why would any wrong happen from and yes Ganga will marry this spineless confused loser because she loves him for what he did for her which only this loser did not some great Shiv and she will be happy with this loser you don't worry about her




Hello dear, I watch this serial for years and have not missed one episode.

I think you have not read my post and jumped to defend this confused soul. I am not surprised. Your language and the tone of your post says it all.

Let me answer all your questions. Please do take the trouble to read the post completely.

1. First and foremost point -

WE know that Sanchi is playing games.

Does Jagya know Sanchi is playing game? NO. He only knows that she is a spoilt brat - so why did he agree to marry her in the first place when he cannot love or respect Sanchi.

Noone knows what is going on in Sanchi's mind. Anandi, Shekhar family, Singh family and even your GREAT Jagya admits that Sanchi is trying her best to adjust with the family.


So why has'nt Jagya fallen in love with Sanchi? Yes - sometimes Sanchi does push him to do few things but that's very common in every husband-wife relationship. If Jagya would have loved Sanchi then he would not have minded it.

2. I don't dream about Jagya. Your accusation that I had a dream of Jagya cheating Sanchi is baseless. 😃


Why has he agreed to marry Sanchi when he can't even think her as his wife for a moment?

Forget about liking Sanchi, he is in love with another woman. If this is not cheating, then what is the definition of cheating - can you please explain?

Just sleeping with someone else does not mean cheating. It's all about feelings. And Jagya has feelings for Ganga and not Sanchi.

I am asking you one question -

If you find that your partner actually wants to be with some other person and is only compromising his/her life with you for the sake of some reason and basically has no feelings for you, won't you consider it as one kind of cheating?


3. Jagya is building the foundation of relationship on dishonesty. If he would have been very clear to Sanchi that he is marrying her only because his family wants him to do and does NOT love her , then it would have been completely okay. After all, Anandi did the same thing to Shiv.

If Jagdish would have married Sanchi willingly and then in the course of time, their relationship was in turmoil and yet Jagya compromised in this manner, it would have been appreciable. But when there is no need to start a false relationship, then why is he doing that?

4. But here, Jagya is giving bheek to Sanchi as per your definition. So is he giving bheek to Sanchi for her sake? NO. He is even giving that bheek so that pyari Anandi does not face any storm in her sasrewale.
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Edited by doyelpakhi - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Good.Sanchi's true colors are coming out.But what is the point of them being revealed only to Jagya and Anandi?
How will that put an end to Sanchi's drama?It will end only when her parents and her dear big brother who believes that his sister is changing for good get to see her true colours and feel devastated.

What is J going to do once he sees true colours of Sanchi?Is he going to reveal to the Shekhars that he agreed to marry their bratty daughter only because he was trying to ensure the welfare of his first wife and pehla pyar?Hope he does that.That will open Sanchi's eyes to reality at least.


This looks like it is going to set Jagya and Anandi against the rest of Singhs and Shekhars.
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On the other front - Good at last they are showing Shivji doing some good work by giving a talk on safety measures to be taken by women.Hope it is thought provoking talk.

Hope they show Ganga handling the stalker in a realistic way.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Doyel,
awesome post -- yes, the thing that went wrong from Jagya's side is that he should have clarified to saanchi that he is only doing this for his family and he does not love her.
He did indicate that he does not love her, and she said she would wait for him to develop feelings (or something vaguely along those lines)... but I still think there is an obligation to tell the person that even if they are stepping into the rishta from a neutral stance ... that the neutrality is not based on his own openness to exploring and taking the relationship further ... but just an obligation to please his family.
Many times in life, when one person approaches another, it is not necessary that the other will have the same feelings right in the beginning... but still, if they see some potential in the other person or the relationship, they may be open to exploring the relationship to see where it leads.
Here Jagya sort of knew that even though he was neutral ... his feelings for saanchi were a complete dead-end right from day 1. He knew (like many of us know right up front in certain situations that we will NEVER feel something for someone). So, that is where his dishonesty lay.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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yes, jagya is being unfair to sanchi...i agree ! he has many reasons for it but sanchi is suffering because of jagya's indifference...why couldn't he clarify this to sanchi ?...b'cause of family pressures...and he is kind of scared of sanchi's narcissistic nature 😆...may be if she was normal...jagya would also remain normal with her.

but at the same time sanchi is also fully aware that jagya actually doesn't love her and has some feelings for ganga...and she knows that there's a bond between jagya-ganga whcih could create problems for her marriage, she doesn't care about jagya's feelings but wants to own him by hook or crook...so both sides there's a problem !

even anandi married shiv for family sake and she actually pleaded with shiv to marry her initially ! it was her good luck that she got the best husband on this earth 😉...and the marriage eventually turned out good for both of them thanks to shiv's efforts.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Jagya has started maintaining a distance from Ganga and thoughts of her from the time - he realized that his emotions for her are bordering on love - which he is currently not feeling for Saanchi but is committed to.
So how can he be cheating ?

He has conciously been trying to keep Saanchi abreast about his travels. He was shown to curb his desire to call Ganga on his way to Mumbai and instead call Saanchi. In my book - it means a guy is trying to do the right thing.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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hi hooked,
I do agree he is "trying" to do the right thing ... but it would have had a lot more grace to it if he had realized himself and done the right thing... as opposed to having flashbacks of anandi telling him to keep his distance from ganga each time he wants to phone ganga.
Edited by sectoreight - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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doyel i guess you haven't really seen the serial Sanchi knew very well Jagya is only marrying for his family's sake It is even before he agreed to marry her 😆so really your great post is going out of facts of serial
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Posted: 12 years ago
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One can only do one's best.
And here it is obvious that Jagya's best is not good enough to please everybody.

So be it. It is impossible to please everybody at all times in any case. And we have seen Devi Anandi try to do just that for so many years now. And for that too - there are some like me - who find her less than human for all her divine efforts in denying herself and her crazy need to please all.

Atleast Jagya has decided he will try to do his best effort and do as per his family and deny his heart too if it comes to that. But jaane do - kya fark padta hai.

Pretense always has a smaller life than reality and no matter how much Saanchi/Sumi,Anandi, Ira and Jagya Ganga try - this current engagement is doomed to failure. Even if it results in a shadi - as they showed - it will just villify Jagya with a third failed marriage but it won't be able to make him fall head over heels for someone who is just not appealing to his heart.

To thine own self be true. Jagya - I hate to see you in this mess. You're in a no-win situation. There are people with brickbats whether he stays with Saanchi or if he leaves her. This too shall pass.
Edited by hooked - 12 years ago

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