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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi Friends! Good Morning!

This is an advisory post for the most eligible bachelors and spinsters of the forum. They are advised to mug up the following points before entering into the relationship.
Ha janaab peshe kidmat hai khaas aapke liye Advice Muft Ka

For Would-Be Grooms:


Rule.No.1 - Never compare your mamma's cooking with your wife's! There is no faster way to dig your own grave than that! Please understand that your mom's cooking has the backing of 20 odd years of experience...don't expect that from your wife who is hardly into the process! What if she were to compare your earning capacity with her dad's!!! So shshshhh...!!!😃


Rule.No.2 : Never go out of your way to please the lady with flowers, chocolates and gifts during your engagement period. If ever you do , please follow it up post-wedding too! When you could cover 20kms in 15 minutes when you are engaged just to spend some time with her, how dare you forget her birthday post - marriage, even after you are given the broadest of hints by her! Remember expectations always double...ever heard of them being halved???😃


Rule.No.3: Do compliment her every now and then, verbally or with gifts! What are those lovely Teddies and Archies gift cards for? Don't sit there like the Lord of the Rings expecting to be waited upon! Of course she will do it but everyone likes to be appreciated and pampered!!!!😃


Rule.No.4: This is very important! Sulking or complaining about marriage being a big mistake is a strict NO -NO !! You got into it with your eyes wide open, brimming with enthusiasm!! No one ever pushed you into it! So why this drama now!😃


Rule.No.5: Be Brave and take your own decisions and stand up by them!!
Consult your parents for advice but realise that you are grown up enough to lead your life! Respect your partner's views at all times! Remember she has given up a lot more to make a life with you!!😃



For Would-be Brides


1. Don't expect too much from him. Less the expectations lesser the disappointments.😛


2. Don't ever dare to plan any outing or movie on a day when there is an interesting cricket match going on. REMEMBER SPORTS is more important to him than anything else. U spoil his day n He spoils urs.😛


3. Over Emotions, Sentiments... Woha... What are these? Tears are not going to give any results either. It's just a temp. attention that u get. No one likes Cry Babies m whining Wifes.😛


4. Never dare to cross with his mother.Even if he says "My Mom's cooking is the best. U are nothing in front of her." take it easily with a smile. Tell him that u are learning from his mother and will try to do it better. U are not gonna lose anything!😛


5. Try to know his friends and understand that they are also part of his world.Allow him to spend few weekends or occasional night out parties with his friends.But at the same time make sure that u get ur due importance! It must not be that he roams around with his friends forgetting that you exist at home.😛


6. Don't start fighting for silly things. Forgetting birthdays n Anniversaries is not a big mistake. Men are not blessed with 2 GB RAM for storing everything in main memory.If you are very particular about present gifts n parties on ur birthdays n anniversaries.make sure u remind them well in advance by some means (I know it sounds stupid. But if u are so particular,bDo it for ur own good)😛


7 . Take him for your shopping only if he's interested.If you are going for Window Shopping or for saree purchase,Better go with your friends/go alone. He is better at office/home watching cricket.😛


8. Give him importance always. Show due care and affection.That 's the only way to win a guy's mind.😛

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Posted: 11 years ago
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me second..i was about to leave and saw the post..😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Lovely advice to those aspiring to be married..
Cannot agree with you more on the anniversary and birthday point of the would be brides..

Friends after close to 15 years of knowing each other... Have received only 2 gifts .. Yet I don't lack anything..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rrdsu

me second..i was about to leave and saw the post..😊


🤣 Mujhe Toh suku ki bimari hain.. Bye Bol ke bhi na Jaane ki..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Deepa..I guess ye bimari mujhe bhi hone lagi hai..😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rrdsu

Deepa..I guess ye bimari mujhe bhi hone lagi hai..😆


After all we are all ADs na??😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Lovely post Leenaji.. Very worthy advices... Specially no 2 and no 6 .for the would be brides...😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepa17


After all we are all ADs na??😆

Ya ya...Sab ek Rang Mein Rangi..😉
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Posted: 11 years ago
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great advice...muft ke hain par bade kaam ka hain..!the advice for 'would be bride'..shadi ke 13 saal baad bhi kaam kar rahe hain..hamare yaha..!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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kyyaaa post hai yeeh doc 🤣🤣 🤣 🤣

5. Try to know his friends and understand that they are also part of his world.Allow him to spend few weekends or occasional night out parties with his friends.But at the same time make sure that u get ur due importance! It must not be that he roams around with his friends forgetting that you exist at home.😛


yes he will be allowed but mujee ignore kiyaa tooh gayaa saamjoo 😡


6. Don't start fighting for silly things. Forgetting birthdays n Anniversaries is not a big mistake. Men are not blessed with 2 GB RAM for storing everything in main memory.If you are very particular about present gifts n parties on ur birthdays n anniversaries.make sure u remind them well in advance by some means (I know it sounds stupid. But if u are so particular,bDo it for ur own good)😛


ok ...but then i will also give him the same tit for tat treatment 😛 even if i know that it's his bday...will never wish him 😎


7 . Take him for your shopping only if he's interested.If you are going for Window Shopping or for saree purchase,Better go with your friends/go alone. He is better at office/home watching cricket.😛


here no need to come along with me for shopping...just give me the debit card ...i will manage myself 😛 😆 even if wants to join..i will tell him to stay at home only ...🤣 pls dont distrub me😆😆


8. Give him importance always. Show due care and affection.That 's the only way to win a guy's mind.😛

importance..mai duu kyaa 😲 jaao yahaa seee 🤣
Edited by nidhirohan - 11 years ago

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