Originally posted by: sujataraje
hey dear🤗
@bold-i think nikhat and ayaan dont need father bcause they have already one...its nazma who needed father but didnt get one so asad filled that place for her..though i understand your sentiments behind saying this
No. I was not implying that he is a father figure...not at all. I think he is a brother to all of them, thats all.
This was an example of a father with two daughters and one son.😳
but ...nikhat can not be happy with imraan because he does not love her...even if nazma says no to imraan...he cleared that he will not get married to anyone else ...so obviously its not like snatching nikhat's happiness...nikhat broke this engagement..which was best decision for her.
Yes. NIkhat made the RIGHT decision. Unfortunately, this doesn't start or stop with only NIKHAT OR NAJMA...it involves two families. And if this nikah is going to sow seeds of bitterness between the siblings FOREVER...Najma also has to consider whether it is worth it...THE POINT IS NOT THAT IMRAN DOES NOT LOVE NIKHAT...He did MISLEAD HER...MADE HER DREAM DREAMS...and JUST BECAUSE HE APOLOGISED does not mean that he has not left a huge wound in her heart...and it will be difficult FOR ANY GIRL to accept such a man as her sister's husband, however huge hearted she is...
When ASAD LEFT FOR IMRAN'S HOUSE, THE PIC WAS DIFFERENT..HE HAD HEARD cheerfulness IN NIKHAT's VOICE...BUT OBVIOUSLY SHE HAD NOT MOVED ON..THAT'S WHY SHE WAS THERE.
NOw he needs to reconsider his decision..even if IMRAN APOLOGISED for leading one sister on...and even if Nikhat forgives him..and even if Najma loves him...there is some injustice here...even if Zoya canot see it, he can.
i still think she was selfish somewhere to come to imraan after all this happened..because she loves imraan...love makes you selfish lil bit ...and thats why she wanted to get married till yesterday evenknowing how haseena bi is and how imraan has never defended him ...just because she loves him...
I don't agree with you here.😳 Nikhat forbade Shireen from trying to re- form the alliance..because this time around, she was sure...she wanted the first step to come from Imran...and she KNEW IT WOULD COME..THAT WAS THE FAITH SHE HAD IN THE GUY...the future he had once promised her...'we will live in a separate house- JUST YOU AND ME'...once a guy makes a promise like that...Nikhat cannot be accused for defending him at every juncture...IF SHE FELT SHE HAD SEEN A DIFFERENT FACE OF IMRAN, IT WAS SIMPLY BECAUSE HE HAD SHOWN HER THAT...
And she went when the call came...because she thought the first step had finally come..he had called her. He had put his foot down for her. Alas! She witnessed that he had finally the guts... not for her, but her sister.
And she knew rthis was what she expected of true love..if that true love was for Najma she was not going to complain or create a scene. The guy was nice- he genuinely made a mistake, thinking he could love her...but he had NEVER MOVED ON. UNFAIR to her, but nothing can be done about it.
asad leaving nazma's life decision in ayaan's hands..i simply most stupid thing to do when he knows how impulsive and immature ayaan is...asad just wants to please his younger brother no matter how...
for saving those ties which have been between only ayaan and asad...asad can not sacrifice his sister...they can not just give imraan to nikhat just to make ayaan happy...until they get something suspicious about imraan ..there is no point of saying o to imraan for nazma ...be it haseena bi..because nikhat and ayaan and even whole family was ready to get ikhat married into haseena family just because nikhat loved her..same applies to nazma..
Again, I feel the bigger picture has to be seen here.
He is not sacrificing his sister for Ayan- NOT AT ALL. Why did Asad call Ayan? NOt to let him be the decision maker...but to try and convince him, before he went ahead with the nikah...which everyone seems to want now.
He can still feel Nikhat's pain...and Najma's pain..and Ayan's pain...but the decision is unfortunately in his hands...AND what does Ayan tell him?
You are acting like Najma's bhaijaan, and not Nikhat's...
What does Asad do here...he lets Ayan feel a little bit of the presure he himself is feling...puts the ball in hiscourt...When he is teh decision maker, who will he think about? Najma or Nikhat...this is a step in Ayan's growth...he will feel the weight of decision making now. And if Asad knows Ayan well, he knows he will not hurt his other sister too...when his head is cooled down...and he has been given the right to decide.
Ayan is hot headed 😡but HE ALWAYS COMES AROUND😳...after he finds the voice of reason in his bhaijaan...he hopes it will be no different this time.😃
And if Ayan will not come around..all he will say is go to his mother and tell her about the situation...ask her what decision should be taken and decide between a sister's happiness and a brother's ill will. And he might stay away from the celebrations, because he respects Ayan's wishes...
and nazma does not have any vpice when it comes to he rights...she even said she will do whatever asad will say😆
Nazma is stupid. When you have been given freedom to choose, CHOOSE! NOt go whining behind bhaijaan to make a decision.
She should learn from NIkhat. Her bhaijaan was all out against IMRAN, but she supported him through everything. If at a point in time, Rashid had refused the weding and Imran had the spine to ask her to run away, she'd gladly have done so...such a far cry from a Najma who did not love enough to bring it up to her mother. She treated it as puppy love, BECAUSE IT WAS PUPPY LOVE AND IT STAYS THE SAME.😉
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