The heart has its reasons

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Posted: 12 years ago
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As we all are so immersed in the FF's of our two wonderful writers, which have provoked us to think , contemplate , debate , if u were in Nidhi's place in a wonderful no holds barred relationship , and your parents ,society came to know , what would u do , do what ashustosh did the honourable thing by asking her to marry him , even if he felt cornered , or do what Nidhi did be strong ,take the responsibility of your own actions ,cause you are not defined by your sexual involvement , but by the choices u make , life is tough but you have the courage of your convictions , when somewhere belonging to that person is what u have always dreamt about , but like they say the heart has its reasons .
What would you do ? Give into pressures ? Or be able to chart out your own course in life ,after all all said an done its ultimately your life to live as u see fit.
Am off to a long day of work , let's see what u all think !!!!!!!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Dr Babs...i think this is the second thread you have opened after this FF has begun...awesome..

good question...would love to know what others think...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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What about you what do u think ? Not the story but in real life?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i will answer after posting my chapter tonight Dr Babs...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sochna padega..i'll be back with my reply after college
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Will wait to catch up when I come back from work
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hi Suvika now u better answer

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here is my answer Dr Babs..sorry for the delay...got held up with one call after the other...

if i were in a no hold barred relationship, i would first try to know what the other person feels for me...because i feel something for him its no where written that he should feel the same thing for me and as Nidhi has said, he is not responsible for my actions.

if my family comes to know, my reaction would depend on his feelings. if i know that he reciprocates my feelings... we go the usual way..if not, i would probably back off..not immediately...and it wouldn't be easy..would probably hurt like hell...but still..i would do it...i don't believe in clapping with one hand...or clinging on to something that has already slipped from my hand...

whether i would move on after that or not...can't say...


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Dr Babs...if you had asked this Q before LKNR i would hve opted for honorable course...even though i am a strong person with set ideas but family's honor is equally imp.

now after this ff...which has made us all to think about this issue...i don't know!

in real life i hve my Ashutosh ie my hubby.it was love cum arranged mge.so find it very difficult to put myself in her boot.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hope in life no one has to face this situation ,would have wanted to be with that one person irrespective of the world , like nidhi , but flaunting society's norms in smaller towns always more difficult , and the world can be a very cruel place

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