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Posted: 12 years ago
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When Akshara said that its good Naksh does these little things the reply Gayatri gave back really made me mad. Seriously when are women going to get the equality they deserve? It frustrates me when the food is right in front of them on the table yet its the women who serve the men. We live in a modern era where men do their own things. What do the men who live alone do? Do they call their mothers to make them food, clean the house and all the other household stuff. And if they did have maids it would only be logical if it was because they are always busy. The fact that Naksh cant even do these little things by himself now would make him dependent on the women in his family in the future. Even little things like this makes a man think differently of a women, who knows he could see a woman doing something he only sees men do and say that its " only a mans job" to do it. At home my brothers tell me to get something from the kitchen I tell them to get it themselves because they are right next to it. Im not going to be a typical 1940s woman who does everything for men. Seriously Akshara needs to teach Naksh all the main important things before Gayatri does and tell him all the wrong stuff.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: KaShCrazyAneesa

When Akshara said that its good Naksh does these little things the reply Gayatri gave back really made me mad. Seriously when are women going to get the equality they deserve? It frustrates me when the food is right in front of them on the table yet its the women who serve the men. We live in a modern era where men do their own things. What do the men who live alone do? Do they call their mothers to make them food, clean the house and all the other household stuff. And if they did have maids it would only be logical if it was because they are always busy. The fact that Naksh cant even do these little things by himself now would make him dependent on the women in his family in the future. Even little things like this makes a man think differently of a women, who knows he could see a woman doing something he only sees men do and say that its " only a mans job" to do it. At home my brothers tell me to get something from the kitchen I tell them to get it themselves because they are right next to it. Im not going to be a typical 1940s woman who does everything for men. Seriously Akshara needs to teach Naksh all the main important things before Gayatri does and tell him all the wrong stuff.


Completely agree with you & your views.👏 Now its high time Naitik-Akshara should take duggu's whole responsibility on their own rather than making him spoil under shed of Gayatri . Gayatri will never understand as she is a orthodox woman who still defferentiate between a Boy! & a Girl! and after soo much living in modern world still her thinking is cheap.
Agree on that when duggu will go for studies or job , he will need to do things by his own! and if he left uneducated about these small things , then there will be extreme problem for him to tackle with small things.

Also, i dont like men fully dependent on women , they can do their small works by their own. I do it, I dont bother my mother and my servents at home for small small things. World is soo much developed BUT Gayatri , she is still living in olden times.

Now , i'm afraid for Naitik-Akshara's second child, if she is coming, then Gayatri will surely dont leave a single chance to feel her restricted like her kids. Such kind of childish & immature stuffs she do, stupid people.😡

I loved your post.😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thanks Dev for agreeing. I feel like there are some times where Akshara or Naitik could have said something to Gayatri but don't and either just say forget it or change the subject. Just because Naksh isn't too attached to his Dadi doesn't mean that he can't be influenced by her views. I was actually happy when Rashmi got married into a family who didn't have the same views as Gayatri. Sure they didn't do all the religious stuff but they still didn't differentiate between women and men.
I love Akshara and Naitik but I think its high time where they put their foot down on what is best for their child.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: KaShCrazyAneesa

Thanks Dev for agreeing. I feel like there are some times where Akshara or Naitik could have said something to Gayatri but don't and either just say forget it or change the subject. Just because Naksh isn't too attached to his Dadi doesn't mean that he can't be influenced by her views. I was actually happy when Rashmi got married into a family who didn't have the same views as Gayatri. Sure they didn't do all the religious stuff but they still didn't differentiate between women and men.

I love Akshara and Naitik but I think its high time where they put their foot down on what is best for their child.


My pleasure to agree with your honest opinion.
Agree, like i pointed out that its high time Naitik-Akshara should atleast raise their voice against Gayatri since gayatri is making duggu a stubborn individual like her.
Duggu was close to gayatri till Naitik was in coma state.
Yeah, atleast rashmi's in laws are modern by thoughts.
agree.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yes she was very annoying today... god knows when she will get some sense... she got personality disorder 😡 but as we have been seen and acording to SBS segments Naksh are taking care of Duggu now so her saying not making any difference.. she was against the swimming pool but naksh didn't listen to her and also we saw in sbs segment duggu doing household work.. so it clearly shows her saying doesn't matter anymore... I'm glad to see cv's showing Naksh as responsible parents :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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G3 needs to realize Naksh is Naitik & Akshara child & they are the decision makers regarding Naksh's life, not her!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't even want to talk about gayatri's attitude but that's how there are women in our society who think that way
& I would like to congratulate CVs for showing even this angle in the show
but what I feel is that gayatri has gone through all the stages in life where akshara was the support in the family, she should understand that there is no difference between boys & girls
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree with you and it's good if naksh take a stand now and make duggu learn all these small things it will come in handy for him in the future I find g3 annoyning and irritating but for her she has seen this all her life that's how she bought her son natik up now the way akshara is teaching naksh to do small things on his own is really good but it will be hard for g3 to grasp this matter and understand there POV, this happened in my family when my elder bro was small he was the first grandson that tym even my mom didnt teach him how to do basic chores of his own hence till today he doesn't either mum or us sisters do for him he's like natik was at start I joke with my mum we need a akshara for him 😆 my younger bro comp opposite he does small things on his own my mum learnt that it was important to teach I am liking the way akshara is doing that with duggu with tym g3 will release and be happy with the fact
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Dont even get me started on this.

Gayatri is thd most annoying character i have ever seen on TV, every time she is on screen I want to throw my chappel at tye TV *trying to calm down*.

Naksh is Akshara's son, she has the right to punish him the way she wants and make him do whatever, but gaytri has to poke her nose in the matter. If naksh gets spoilt then it is her fault.

I ate the fact that she partial towards boys.
And how dare she tell Ananya not to tease naksh, does she not realise that even Ananya is child, she would never tell naksh not to tease ananya.

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