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Thank you very much for sharing your thoughts on my earlier post! They were very thought provoking. It sort of allowed me to look deeper into the issue. Therefore, I would like to begin with thanking you.
One of the things, I would have loved to mention in that post -
* Yes, she should make a strong decision. She cannot be in the middle.
* She MUST admit her feelings to Karthik. I mean, he cannot be waiting for decades.
* Sometimes, I feel that she needs to explain herself to Karthik...She should explain to him as to why she is scared and they should come into terms with how they are going to approach the situation.
* I personally, don't believe that she should go against her dad as that would just increase the drama but she should mainly focus on confessing her love to Karthik.
Considering your comments on my earlier post and my opinions...I think Raji needs to become very confident. She needs to be confident about her love, not confused. She needs to feel strong about it. Obviously, she is deeply and madly in love with him but she needs to somehow adopt the confidence to face her father and battle for her love to succeed.
In case you thought I was a very orthodox person...I truly respect Raji's character but certain things about her does annoy me..I am also looking at the issue from Karthik's perspective...he has spoken his feelings to her and has patiently waited for her, hoping that one day, Raji will speak her mind. Furthermore, I respect love and I want to have a love marriage, personally 😛 But, I do not believe in going against parents but in fighting for your love until it succeeds. If I was to fall in love with someone, I would never sacrifice him for my parents' sake but I will wait until our parents grant their permission for the wedding.
These were just my thoughts and I edited my post as I considered some of your comments to be really useful and very thought provoking. Thank you once again. However, I will not tolerate rude or insulting comments.😊
Cricket
