hey.. hd been refraining frm commenting anythg abt characters..
bt i guess.. old habits die hard.. or mayb i m too much in love with arnav.. n i m nt saying htt he is a saint.. he has his own flaws.. bt khushi is definitely nt flawless
everyone.. seems to b so sure tht khushi bechari hai.. n arnav is wrong..
so i hv certain pts to mk here..
1. i guess i am the only one who feels she is behaving hopelessly immature.. arnav tries to tell her abt LA.. madam says nahi sunna.. ...he doesnt.. madam says.. batate nahi hain.. relation rakhna nahi aata..
i mean wht is a person supposed to do.. she is expecting him to say thgs as n whn she likes.. if he doesnt he is wrong.. n yes i hv seen such ppl in real life so i hv a fair enuf understanding hw their twisted logics work
2. khushi frustration me use LA ka bf kahe... noone has issues.. bt wo frustration me kahe.. tht i m here coz of u only.. to bura hai.. y cant we see tht he simply means tht he loves her too much to leave her.. tht he is willing to stay at some place he wud never hv thot of.. just coz he is soo in love with her..
bt no..khushi suddenly has become too full of .. i dont knw wht.. tht she is rt in nt trusting him.. while he is wrong in everythg. n she wud still claim tht she trusts him.. if she really trusts him.. she shud hv faith in the fact tht he loves her n cares fr her.. she already knws he has temper issues.. she shud knw better than believe sthg he says in anger..
well i m married too.. tht is hw my family works.. so i personally see as khushi nt being accomodating .. to b exact.. she expects her partner to change, nt accepting him fr wht he is.. which i think is the start of ruining a relation.
n saying ki i didnt ask u to change. bt throwing a tantrum at every given chance coz he didnt change as per her wish or need... well i wud say.. fool urself.. dont fool others...
3. whn did madam khushi jethwa raizada share anythg.. only whn situations forced it out of her.. n whn did she let arnav hv peace fr even a minute.. tht he wud sit bak n talk abt himself or life with her...
oh n yes... if one tries to justify khushi tht she was just trying to save arnav frm the probs n so didnt tell anythg... well so is he.. so y is it.. tht whn khushi does it.. its oh-so-selfless... n whn arnav does it.. he-doesnt-knw-to-keep-relations.
4. deeptimaan keeps sthg soo imp frm her.. n frm her Legal Guardians.. gives all sorts of excuses fr it.. n is justified..situation sahi ni thi.. he did the best fr her.. etc etc..
arnav keeps sthg frm her.. n is blamed n is said tht he doesnt deserve khushi... even he had his reasons..
if deeptimaan acted like the head of family.. so did arnav.. then y is arnav blamed n nt deeptimaan.. ..he gets sympathy.. n arnav gets called undeserving.
i hv a daughter.. n i dont even knw wht i wud do to a person who keeps sthg soo imp abt my child frm me in the name of silly excuses.. being a parent its my rt to knw.. n its the duty of the other person to let me knw..
sry if i ofended anyone.. bt i believe tht i m entitled to my view.. n expressing it too.. i mean if calling arnav wrong is justified.. so shud b calling khushi wrong :)
stil i apologise to anyone n everyone who thinks i shudnt hv
Edited by tanu3579 - 11 years ago
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