First Born Child Is Scolded More?

If you're the first born child, you maybe able to answer this one better.

Do you think the first born child gets scolded more often than the second and the third born child? Do you think the second and third born kids have it easy, as in do parents tolerate their mischieves more than they tolerate the one's the first born child does?

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It is not that simple.. The problem is parents don't have experience of handling a child so first of all it takes time to realize that the first born is still a child. and First born has no one else as a sibling to look upto so he \she also try to behave like an adult.
hoi na complex situation.. 😆 😆 😆
On the other hand with second and third child ... parents have more experience .and those middle children have a sibling, a child, to look as an example.
some how I feel second and third children develope tactics to handle every day situation better than the elder one cause they learn since begining to adjust with parents and siblings. 😊

Originally posted by: ani11

I am the first born child but I was born after 12 years of my parents' marriage so i was a rotten spoiled brat and I still am 😆
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I am the first born child. I don't think the first bornss suffer. My parents treat and my brother whose 4 years younger to me at par. Agreed, they expect me to be just a tad bit more responsible than him, but that's okay. As far as getting scolded is concerned, my bro gets more scoldings than me 😉I escape most of the scoldings...hahahah. IN certaing ways its great being the first-born, you get to rule over your younger bro's and sisters 😳

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yeah yeah i know that, i am the youngest - and i know how i used to take protection money and movie tickets and cash for not crying out Mom..... 😆

Originally posted by: ani11

believe me with the six years of experience of handling my son,i am at a loss ,how to handle my daughter,experience always does'nt help because every child is different and i am telling u this from first hand experience.

😆 My sympathies are with you .

Originally posted by: ani11

believe me with the six years of experience of handling my son,i am at a loss ,how to handle my daughter,experience always does'nt help because every child is different and i am telling u this from first hand experience.

Keep the gal busy in the kitchen, try new recipes with her, teach her knitting and singing...and she will be ok...😊 If she is too young to do htat.... give her a barbie and put her in a play-pen...

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

yeah yeah i know that, i am the youngest - and i know how i used to take protection money and movie tickets and cash for not crying out Mom..... 😆

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I am not surprised .....

my youngest brother talk exactly the same

Originally posted by: ani11

i take it that u are not married and no kids especially not a little girl,well i'll excuse u if u think its that easy,u will learn in time all by urself,until I had kids myself i thought it was this easy too😆😆

But u know what its worth it,they are my life and I love them😃

All i am saying if you accentuate their gender differences and different interest it might help so while you son is hanging by the fan or on the roof the gal wont try and hang by the ledge.....😆😆😆

Well but this is no experience and all thought speaking....😊

I hope your gal is not like me.. cause my mother tried this trick.

and yes I developed other interests at vey young age .yet she has to constantly watch roofs ,fans and ledges too along with my girly projects😆

First child is more disciplined as well as initially pampered, taken more pictures of so on and so forth. .. Folks have too much enthusiasm with it.

More discipline, more tirade targetted at first child never bothered me . I loved every minute of it being the second 😈 😈