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Originally posted by: sapnon_ki_pari

Shina,

(Why couldn't she tell rano the truth?)

My justification: She doesn't want Rano to worry about anything especially during her pregnancy. It is a motherly instinct. Parents don't tell everything to their children but rather do what they this is best of them. Same here. Bani thinks what she is doing is right at least for Rano and her baby and her future. Isn't she Rano's mother... so her actions make sense... at least to me they do.

First of all i thank Allah for not giving me a mother like bani. Okay now coming back to your comment. Pari if she doesn't want rano to worry about anything then she should send rano to a vacation away from everything till the baby is born. Yes i agree parents do what is 'BEST' for their children, but is what bani doing best for rano? I mean by not telling her the truth she is just giving sahil more opportunities to use rano and wouldn't that cause more pain to her? Or am i asking too much for bani to think rationally?😕

(As for Rano being more supportive of bani than pia, i would disagree.)

It doesnt matter who is more supportive but it is the one who is more supportive at the time of need that matters. The one time Bani needs all the support she can get, she gets the support from Rano not Pia. Pia is the one causing the pain! Sure she cared about her sister pre-ONS but she still cared about herself more. (nothing wrong with caring about oneself, but only to an extent) Okay, but how the hell did she support bani? What did she do to bring bani back from that zombie state of hers? To me supporting someone means doing what's best for the person, showing them the right path, and just being there for them without cursing or just getting mad every 2 seconds. I know i am being biased here but i don't like the dixit sisters and i don't care about anything else.

And how can you not feel sorry for Bani? In her eyes, the most precious relationship she had is being broken. Pia is making it look like she has a relationship with Jai instead of a ONS, so why wouldn't she be suspicious of Jai? Why would she give him a chance to talk? Did she ever tell him to go away?

Pia will get her dues by Jai in due time, that's why i am least bit bothered by her. I trust my baby enough to know that. I don't feel sorry for bani at all, i have tried but after watching today's US episode i wanted to go inside the television and strangle her. Actually she did tell him to go away, you know the little gesture of jerking his hand away was telling him to go away. As for giving him a chance to talk, if she had even an ounce of faith in their relationship she would confront him, ask for an explanation without jumping to conclusions. Isn't that what marriage is all about? Having faith in each other and when the partner does something wrong talking to them even if it is about adultery. I guess it's just me who thinks communication and faith are important in marriage. Oh yeah one more thing, you know Pia and jigs made it look like bani was having an affair with pooch and bani was being ridiculed in court because of that, and my baby showed faith in her and gave her the benefit of the doubt even after finding them in such a comprimising state(the pics), she doesn't need to show THAT much faith in him, but is her asking for explanation a little too much to ask for? I hate her and i am not afraid to admit that.

Shina

-Pari

Originally posted by: majumdar

(Yes, but Pia's accoutable for her own actions. Nothing to do with Bani. Don't bash her for Pia's psycho behaviour!! )

True. But had Pia not correctly calculated that Bani would bail her out everytime she gets into trouble, she would never have dared to leave Pooch.

Rgds,

Pri

Pri, if Pia was committing mistakes one after another as she believed that Bani would save her, then why is it doing mistakes now? Now, Bani is not beside her, there is no pushkar to save her, Jai hates her, but she still continuing with her deeds. Please Pri, Pia is one variety of creative who will do what she wants even if she does not have anyone to save her.

Bani is NO way responsible for pia, not now and never was she. I still maintain that Bani always tried to make Pia understand her mistakes, she still hates Pia for aborting the child (Bani never said she forgave her for that. she told her that she can NEVER forgive her for that.). It's Pia who never understood anything.

Originally posted by: himali_kokate

Here I dont agree with you girls. Bani didtn eaves drop, she was passingf that room and Sahil and Jigs were not ctually in a hushed tone.

sangs,
i do not say that bani jasoos is bad. in some cases she has proved really helpful like when she got rid of barnali.
what i dont get is how she passes room at the most inopportunate times.if she could hear jigs and pia making plans, things would have been different.

Dear it never happens in Ektadom. Otherwise, everything woould have been hunky dory by now.

again, why to hide truth from rano now. isnt rano mature enough to know how GFN her husband is.
its high time that bani should be a little selfish. she has burnt her whole life for her sisters. now they are grown up enough to take care of their matters.

I agree on this point. She should tell Rano. Rano is mature enough but unfortuntaely she hasnt been able to realise the real intentions. After what Sahil said to her regarding the divorce and the kid, she still felt that he has changed for the better when he spoke about that kid. For being all that smart, Rano surely didnt figure it out.

But maybe its more due to the fact that Bani doesnt want the WGI to face a problem immediately. I said MAYBE, but I am not sure.

a little bit selfishness after years of hardship and dedication will not cause any harm.

Definitely not. And I want her to think about her future now, and let all the GFNs fend for themselves.

Originally posted by: majumdar

Meena,

(Pri, if Pia was committing mistakes one after another as she believed that Bani would save her, then why is it doing mistakes now?)

Now she is past the point of no returns. She knows that she has burnt her bridges with everyone and that the only hope for her is to succeed in her gameplan by hook or by crook. But I still maintain that if Bani had given her a sound thrashing and thrown her out of WM when she had left Pooch for the first time, they would never have been in soup in the first place.

Rgds,

Pri

Pri, Jai could have done that since Pia came to stay in HIS house. If he told Bani that Pia can't stay in HIS house, I don't think Bani would have ever objected to it. She would have completely understood him. Moreover, Jai was the one who was betrayed by her. If he himself can just let her stay (for Bani or any other reasons), why wouldn't Bani let her stay, she is her sis after all? Besides, Bani did try her best to get her back to her house. If Pia was not bothered after all she was enjoying her stay at WM, We can't blame Bani for it. Can we?

Originally posted by: majumdar

Poo,

(had he left the day he was thrown out o his own house... that would have been better...)

He couldn't and shouldn't have left just cos St. Billo performed his shradh. He has to make sure that Bani is back on her feet and that his business is safely in Bani's hands (both for his own business as well as ensuring Bani's security).
True... I get it now...
(If now he comes to know about Bani carrying their child... his disappearance ... )

If he is convinced that his disapperance is in the best interest of Bani and Krishna, he will happily do that.
thats what...he will happily do anything for her... but how unfair can things get for him... the moment he gets to know about Krishna his heart will soar with happiness... but for Bani's sake he will leave both his wife and his child...

I have no doubt that he will be more than happy to leave his kid n Bani if the situation requires it..or rather if Bani wants it so... but wouldn';t that be much more painful and harsh on the guy...

Agreed things are never going to be easy for him...when were they ever... but the knowledge that he has a child and is unable to be with her won't it shatter him further...

but than on the other hand may be that knowledge of his child will help him live ... and later comeback to set everything and everyone straight

Ok I for now am tooo confused...sorry if I'm not making any sense

Rgds,

Pri