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ToIPK writers& readers DT note: P74 solution p94- Page 74

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Nadia

@naddiya26

Sparkler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#731

i will say thanks for pointing out this

🤗 for you dear

i am a die hard fan of Arshi & IPK , this dark & bold stuff forced me to stop writing as i dont want to be part of them are want to be called like them ..

hope & pray IF become like before so we are not ashamed of telling any one about it

Arshi love was innocent & pure it should stay like that

Edited by naddiya26 - 13 years ago

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mastermagician

@mastermagician

Rocker

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

#732

Originally posted by: togetherforever
You know i wasnt here

bt kudos for bringing this up

well i certainly dont like such stuff

and i love ipk to death

ASR AND KKGSR have some traits that is what makes them ARSHI

bt coming to it since i cant change it

i just follow one thing

and that is dont read such stuff which goes against what made ASR AND KKGSR what they was.

My love for them is bigger than anything else.

RESPECT AND LOVE IPK, FOREVER

gola! muaahs! u always know how to make me smile!😊

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Hibernated

Posted: 13 years ago

#733

Originally posted by: HK90
you know i became against this when i found a particular story, someone suddenly started writing dark ffs and now writing even more dark and with a rape scene written, you will not believe but for few hours i was feeling like pucking at any moment, and i was shivering, how can a girl write this, i mean how don't they feel ashamed, what is this happens to someone who is close to them? i really want to know if they will write about this again

Agreed Preet!

Edited by Shimmer_Vani - 13 years ago

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EvrydayIRabbaVe

@evrydayirabbave

Dazzler

+ 7

Posted: 13 years ago

#734

Originally posted by: kajribarunsobti
STOP
We Have Solutions.

1. Don't report directly, first talk to the writer, try to understand his/her view. Then if you find their explantion stupid, make them understand your point. And If they still do that then report.

2. Write as much as mature content needed for your story, but don't cross your limit, respect IF, and every member's emotion.

3. Don't forget your root, and if you are a woman then think like her.

4. As per blogs, writer have to use it to write mature stuffs, as IF rule we are not allowed to describe more then a kiss that to on face. So blogs are OK. But here also, writing in blogs doesn't mean to leave you reality and humanity behind.

5. Don't bash any writer, because it will hurt their emotion as I said first try to understand their point. It will be better.

6. Don't turn Dark stories into dirt stories, keep your imaginations in check.

7. Don't report about any post just to take revenge from any writer {including me, yaar main comedy likhti hu mujshe chor dena😆}

8. I love you all, yahi solution hai, We all are family, so stop fighting OK.

Jai devi maiyya

LOVE
KBS

i think these rules are great

and we should keep things to point of reality

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Roshni

@rashika

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Posted: 13 years ago

#735

Ok I have only read some of this discussion thread and it is really long to go through the whole thing.

I will like to add my view points on this.

First I like what a lot of you have said on this discussion forum about dark ff's.

I am also a writer and to date I have not written a dark ff so far. I may do in the future but don't know yet.

I have read quite a number of dark ff's.

Some of them I agree have glorified rape, abuse to such a point that has become insensitive and you do end up wondering what in god's name is the writer thinking.

I agree that on this forum we have a lot of 12-16 year olds. Maybe we even have younger then that.

So glorifying things like rape, martial rape and domestic abuse especially in the wrong way I personally think is wrong.

I will say I have read ff's where things like the above have been mentioned but the writers themselves when writing these stories did a hell of a lot of research into those kinds of things and showed how women were affected by it plus how it took them years of therapy before they even decided on how to move on life.

If a writer wants to write about these kinds of things they should at least do their research and not always make it seem that a woman who has been through something like this forgives a person who has done these kinds of things to her.

As for always using our favourite couple well I am afraid we can't stop people from using these characters.

What we should try and do is say that a woman going through something like rape, domestic abuse or martial rape never gets over it as the memories stay with her all her life but her to forgive that person is something even I think I couldn't do and I think many women could never forgive.

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Preet

@Preet.Kc

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Posted: 13 years ago

#736

@ Rashika you are so true

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illuminated.

@illuminated.

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

#737

@TM: This was a great idea and step towards wanting a change in the forum but unfortunately, that doesn't really sit well with everyone. And hence start the arguments.

It is indeed very unfortunate to see that the mature members of this forum can't handle criticism but preach to the crowd about being understanding towards others opinions. Well, this topic ends now. A great topic once again gets closed because some members started attacking other members bringing in personal grudges and vendetta.

The rules that were somewhat highlighted earlier this week will still be in effect and everyone still needs to be abide by them, read them here if you haven't already: IMP: New FF/OS/SS and Morphed Pictures Rules.

Topic closed.