I don't see the issue with Tarun

The issue is he knows JW from childhood,he says JW is his best friend.
He saw JW breaking down in his office saying that he would do anything to meet bani one last time and he also knows JW named everything in bani's name...
Next he knows how much JW loves bani,saw him duruing the entire divorce fiasco he did not hurt her when bani was literally piercing his heart in name of saving his property and tarun saw all this.
So our issue is tarun knows JW and still he thinks jai can do something like that...instead of throwing those stupid parties he can actually talk with jai try to get the truth out and atleast giv an attempt to make this marriage work.
All out issue is nobody is giving JW a chance to explain but everyone keeps coming give their verdict and move away.
One mistake cant ruin life long goodness and no person can be judged on one issue.

I don't think we have anything against T supporting bani, but the problem came when he just started the blame game with Jai walia. I mean yes he can be angry with a friend, but isn't it a friend's duty to actually talk it out with their friend and see what actually caused it instead of giving speeches. I mean he claims to be Jai Walia's friend and now is instigating his wife against him without even a try of figuring out why JW did what he did.

It's the way he ruined the friendship relation that irked most of us.

Shina

In real life EMA emotions run high in the victimized spouse and usually a neutral person comes in to try to listen to both sides and help them recover but whether the couple can go past this wrong and move forward together will be their decision.Here the middleman seems hell bent on breaking them apart and I guess that is what irks us. He seems to be in the best position to help them assess the situation.
But I guess it is all happening in the name of drama cause without misunderstanding how can the show go on.??

looks like Archie, Shina and Oval have tried to express all our concerns...
one thing I want to point out...
Tarun is a lawyer (dont know what type, but I am guessing that during your education, atleast you are taught how to deal with different kinds of cases) and despite this he just jumped to conclusion, instead of being the arbitator...
He could have atleast been Jai's friend is not more..

We are all angry with Tarun because being a childhood friend of Jai, instead of helping him solve the problem between him and his wife he is siding with Bani who is his friends wife and not his childhood friend at all, or a very old friend at all.

So his loyalty should have been with Jia instead of with Bani and he has no rights to behave so rudely with Jai at all.

I hope that clears your doubt about why we all hate Tarun.

Love
Krishna