Think Over All Aspects n then post

Reading the posts posted in past few days i feel tht ppl out here r forgetting the past incidents tht took place in kyunki.

Starting with topic of bashing Tulsi for telling Bhoomi the truth not thinking of Karan is i think absolutely the foolish thing tht one can say.

I too am a Karan fan than Tulsi fan but to bash Tulsi with any reason just to show ur love for Karan is absolutely just a wierd thing.

Tulsi wanted to tell Bhoomi the truth not coz she wanted to break Karan n Bhoomi's relationship.It was just tht she didn't wanted Bhoomi to know the truth 4m any outsider n i think it fair enough to tell the truth directly than hiding.Now as she has promised Karan tht she will not tell the truth to Bhoomi think if Bhoomi cums to know 4m tht mysterious lady than wat will she feel.She will think tht her father n her family who claim to love her didn't tell her anything abt her past n all.When she will cum to know the truth she will definately go away from Karan as it was Karan who emotionally blackmailed her n made her believe tht he is father.

One more post i read was abt Tulsi's double standard in which it was written tht Tulsi thinks only of Ansh.If this was true than today in real Bhoomi wud have been Ansh her father.We can't forget tht it was Tulsi only who killed her own son for our Karan so tht he can stay happily with Nandini.It was only Tulsi who accepted Karan as her son inspite of knowing tht he is her husband's child with sum other woman.It is not easy to accept it n killing her own biological son for her sautan's child is even a big task.

Now if u say tht she is showing double standards then u shud have posted the same post when she killed Ansh for KN.

One more thing there r many ppl saying tht Tulsi doesn't want Nandini to be back in Karan's life....than EXCUSE ME ppl it was only coz of her tht Karan n Nandini cud get married n she doesn't want Nandini to cum back coz it will definately create a big problem for the family as then wat will happen of the lady who for so many years stayed with Karan shared his sorrows n happiness in SN..u can't just leave her just coz Nandini came back..wat abt her dedication n love for Karan n children...put urself at Tanya's place n try to think if a woman like Nandini came back in ur husband's life for whom ur husband leaves u after abt 10-15 years of ur marriage?????Think abt it....

Another thing....blaming only Tanya for the way their kids have been brought up is also not fair enough...i agree it is Tanya's fault to sum extent but Karan can't escape 4m this...it has been shown many times tht whenever Tanya tried to correct Bhoomi or stop her...Karan always stopped her saying she is not her mother...it is even Karan's fauth tht he gave Bhoomi more than necessary freedom...so can't blame Tanya alone for the outcome of their children.

Telling tht Tanya is not Bhoomi's mother is always one thing is not elligible.If u say Tanya is not her mother coz she did not give her birth than on the aspect Karan is also not her father but as ppl say Karan brought up Bhoomi so he is her father than same way right from Bhoomi's birth Tanya is the only person who looked after Bhoomi n loved her more than her child......

Sorry for posting such a long thing but this wat i feel...being sum1's fan doesn't mean tht we shud blindly think only abt him/her...looking all the aspects we shud think...im not tht Karan is wrong so sumthing..i love himmmmmmm...but blaming others for it is even sumthing tht is wrong.....

i think you made some good points but according to me if people want to voice their opinions they could...i mean that is part of the reason for coming on this forum.
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Originally posted by: kpg25

i think you made some good points but according to me if people want to voice their opinions they could...i mean that is part of the reason for coming on this forum.
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yeah exactly...tht is there but one shud think over everything n then post coz sumtimes it hurts like b4 few days i read a post tht I HATE KYUNKI FORUM..ppl really get hurt coz we all think only abt the character/actor we love n stop beyond thinking it...we shud not post any post tht hurt others like I hate sum1...n all.

Well, i agree with all ur points n even tht one shud not only think of his/her fav character/actor but look over aspects n not avoid the facts....way to go 👏

Originally posted by: parita91

Tulsi wanted to tell Bhoomi the truth not coz she wanted to break Karan n Bhoomi's relationship.It was just tht she didn't wanted Bhoomi to know the truth 4m any outsider n i think it fair enough to tell the truth directly than hiding.Now as she has promised Karan tht she will not tell the truth to Bhoomi think if Bhoomi cums to know 4m tht mysterious lady than wat will she feel.She will think tht her father n her family who claim to love her didn't tell her anything abt her past n all.When she will cum to know the truth she will definately go away from Karan as it was Karan who emotionally blackmailed her n made her believe tht he is father.

See, this is where her fault lies. If she'd told Bhumi long ago that she was living with her surrogate parents, this problem would've never arised. If she'd told Bhumi when she first saw her (at which time Bhumi was 3), then she'd have grown with the same mentality and therefore would have a completely different opinion about Tulsi. Put yourself in Bhumi's shoes and try to see it through that perspective. A woman suddenly pops in your life and all your peace is snatched. You get married to a wierdo and are on the verge of ending your relation with your father. Naturally, as a first instinct, you'd blame the woman, won't you? And if Tulsi is so keen on telling Bhumi the truth, why didn't she tell it to her before? There were several oppurtunities. Right from her childhood to when Savita died. Then from her returning till Abhir popped in. Yes, it is better that Bhumi learn the truth from Tulsi, but why so late? She deserves a full explanation for why the truth was hiddem from her for so long. I'll say it again, if one grows with the same mentality, less problems are created. Karan didn't force her, emotionally, to accept him as her father. Karan was the figure closest to a father she ever had, so it's not him "blackmailing" her to accept him as her father. It's kind of like a stranger walking up to you and asking him to be your father. Would you accept him? I doubt it! So in the same sense, Bhumi too wouldn't accept Karan as her father if he emotionally blackmailed her.

One more post i read was abt Tulsi's double standard in which it was written tht Tulsi thinks only of Ansh.If this was true than today in real Bhoomi wud have been Ansh her father.We can't forget tht it was Tulsi only who killed her own son for our Karan so tht he can stay happily with Nandini.It was only Tulsi who accepted Karan as her son inspite of knowing tht he is her husband's child with sum other woman.It is not easy to accept it n killing her own biological son for her sautan's child is even a big task.

Now if u say tht she is showing double standards then u shud have posted the same post when she killed Ansh for KN.

The reason mentioned for Tulsi killing Ansh is not the actual reason. She killed Ansh to protect Nandini, not so that KN could be together. I think whoever wrote that Tulsi only thinks about Ansh, meant it in the sense that she is living only on his memories and thinks only about stuff related to him. And...I really don't get what the double standard is...😕...doubles standards is like me saying I hate orange juice and then asking to drink it. I don't get what the double standard is when she thinks about only Ansh. So if one could shed some light on it...it'll be much appreciated.

Wonderfully written! Apart from the ^^ parts, I whole-heartedly agree!

Originally posted by: mz.seductive

Wonderfully written! Apart from the ^^ parts, I whole-heartedly agree!

very well said Anu but one thing is there....Tulsi never wanted to tell the truth but it is bcoz tht MW lady is trying to reveal she wants to tell it..it is not tht she herself wants to tell the truth..no as far as blackmailing is concerned i think the person who started topic was talking abt the scne where Karan got emotional n told Bhoomi tht it is upto u tht u want to believe or not n abt the last agreed tht Tulsi in order to save Nands killed Ansh...but ultimately it was bcoz of it only tht KN cud come together so the thing tht ppl talk here is tht Tulsi is the person who is hindering K n N to meet which i think is not correct..come on mann u can't forget tht Tulsi after always supported Karan...n this time she is not telling tht Karan shud not love Nands but is refusing Nands return just for the sake of Tanya who gave important years if life to Karan n the family.

I agree with you!! 👏 && with Anu 👏
😳 😳 But,I still really dislike Bhoomi.I mean,I know that what happend to her,is not her fault,but she shouldn't be soo bitter and all! 😊


Love,

Roohani

Originally posted by: anu-pre4eva

I agree with you Parita. For the past few days I have been reading posts like that.... Ur 100% right... Whateever Tulsi is doing is for everyone's goood...

Well, it is good to see ppl like u who think over all aspects...😃