Atul Kajal ke so-called sanskaar

Sorry, guys, but I havent really enjoyed watching past 2 episodes because of these two. the whole premise of their fight sounds so ridiculous and silly. what happened to all the so-called achhe sanskaar these two have been given? i cant decide which of the two i find more irritating. chaahe bhai-bhabhi hi kyun na ho, a2 shouldnt have gotten themselves into this mess. in fact, for once, i agree with phallu, ammu and amit should have asked her. she would have told them what any other buzurg of the house (including ammu's parents) should have told-atul-kajal are being plainly ridiculous and no one else should have to screw up their lives sorting it out for these two. seems like the elders have washed their hands off their responsibility (dononko ek ek thappad kaafi hai line pe laane ke liye) after a2 volunteered.
sorry for the rant, guys but i am really not enjoying this track.

Originally posted by: ind4u

Hi ragaya i understand what you are feeling. but its not about sanskar dear.Atul jo apne behan ke liye behan ke pati ke liye itna kuch kiya *(about rohans pardafash ) kau karta hai ??? apni biwi ke saath kuch galath to nahi karega na.woh responsible banna chahta hai aur use time de nahi pa raha hai

aur kajal to pehle se hi aisi ti yaar if you remember previous episodes before ammus maariage where she speaks loudly with amita too,and atul fights with her and supports ammu. in logon me jagda to pehle se hi hamesha hai.

Problem yeh hai ki Atul aur kajal dono ek doosre ko saalon se jaante hai to ek comfort level hogaya inka aur woh pehla pehla pyaar meeti meeti baate karna sab cross karke aaye hai yeh log. aur ab ek nayi phase me enter kar chuke yeh log thoda adjustment to donoko hi karna padega.

And A2 bringing kajal to their home. its amits decisionsituation hi aisa ta.kajal to hotel me jaakebi rukne waali ti. bechara kya karta?? kuch situations me khud decision lena padta hai yaar utna waqt nahi rahta ki kisise so poocho aur phir decision lo... ammu ke parents ne bi bola na achhi baat nahi ki jaake woha pe raho but it happens sometimes dear 😊

agree with phallu too sabi log apne apne jagah sahi hai lekin ek doosren ke liye sahi nahi ( my god amits dialogue 😉) situation ke hisaab se ... cheer up yaar thoda aur patience rako will see 😊

Sorry I hope mein kuch zyaada to nahi boli na.

oho ho indu dear kya likha hai.ekdam mature writing.agree with u dear👏

I agree with what you say, Indu, very valid points but in this case, I find Atul and Kajal too self-absorbed and immature and they seem to be turning a blind eye to the inconvenience they are causing to their families. That is what is annoying me the most. Ok, granted, every couple has fights but if they are really a long-term couple, they should be able to differentiate when the quarrel crosses the line from being a tussle to a major power struggle and ego clash. I would expect atleast that much from them since they have known each other for so long. Atul is being overly rude and Kajal is overplaying her victim act as if she is being harrassed in her sasuraal. They need a reality check.

Indu, kya aaj ke episode ke baad bhi u will say Kajal is right in what she is doing? every 2 din baahar jaana, weekend outstation trip, separate tv in her room-all lakshan of a typical ekta serial vamp who separates families ;P
even in real life, who gets away with behaving so unreasonably and rudely with everyone around including her SIL's inlaws?
Fine, she helped A2 at one time but that doesnt justify her mistakes and her unreasonable behavior now!

worse case, amitas parents are doing what???

Originally posted by: ragaya

Indu, kya aaj ke episode ke baad bhi u will say Kajal is right in what she is doing? every 2 din baahar jaana, weekend outstation trip, separate tv in her room-all lakshan of a typical ekta serial vamp who separates families ;P
even in real life, who gets away with behaving so unreasonably and rudely with everyone around including her SIL's inlaws?
Fine, she helped A2 at one time but that doesnt justify her mistakes and her unreasonable behavior now!

Originally posted by: ind4u

Hi ragaya i understand what you are feeling. but its not about sanskar dear.Atul jo apne behan ke liye behan ke pati ke liye itna kuch kiya *(about rohans pardafash ) kau karta hai ??? apni biwi ke saath kuch galath to nahi karega na.woh responsible banna chahta hai aur use time de nahi pa raha hai

aur kajal to pehle se hi aisi ti yaar if you remember previous episodes before ammus maariage where she speaks loudly with amita too,and atul fights with her and supports ammu. in logon me jagda to pehle se hi hamesha hai.

Problem yeh hai ki Atul aur kajal dono ek doosre ko saalon se jaante hai to ek comfort level hogaya inka aur woh pehla pehla pyaar meeti meeti baate karna sab cross karke aaye hai yeh log. aur ab ek nayi phase me enter kar chuke yeh log thoda adjustment to donoko hi karna padega.

And A2 bringing kajal to their home. its amits decisionsituation hi aisa ta.kajal to hotel me jaakebi rukne waali ti. bechara kya karta?? kuch situations me khud decision lena padta hai yaar utna waqt nahi rahta ki kisise so poocho aur phir decision lo... ammu ke parents ne bi bola na achhi baat nahi ki jaake woha pe raho but it happens sometimes dear 😊

agree with phallu too sabi log apne apne jagah sahi hai lekin ek doosren ke liye sahi nahi ( my god amits dialogue 😉) situation ke hisaab se ... cheer up yaar thoda aur patience rako will see 😊

Sorry I hope mein kuch zyaada to nahi boli na.

Originally posted by: aanaya16

oho ho indu dear kya likha hai.ekdam mature writing.agree with u dear👏

...i know hume patience rakhana padega...i hope everything will be fine till next week..👍🏼 Agree

...ha aur aap ne kuch bhee zyada nahee bola dear😳😳😳

Originally posted by: poorvab

very well said!!