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sara rafeek

@Ooolalala

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Posted: 12 years ago

I see people blaming Ratan for not accepting veera and then trying to commit sucide after having argument with ranvi,

Well is she wrong, I don't think so, yeah veera is innocent and she is suffering for no reason but Ratan is also right in her own place.

Imagine how tough it would be for ratan to see veera who is result of her husband cheating which he did on her.

And then her kid blaming her without knowing why she is doinging this.

Ratan is broken into pieces since Sampooran left her. And she is managing herself with difficulty.

People from pind taunts her for things she never did, people like Kartaar have bad eyes on her, she has responsibility of two kids, she has to manage the fields, she has pain of loosing her husband so one or the other day, isn't it normal for her to react like this.

After all she is a person too and has feelings.

I am not defending her, of course suciding is wrong step and giving punishment to veera is also wrong but no matter how strong a person is, one or the other day that person does looses on himself or herself.

Though I am glad Nihal was there to save her.

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ek_aarzoo

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Posted: 12 years ago

Well if Ratan is so right, then why did she forgive her husband. Is she hadn't, then not accepting Veera would make sense. She forgave her culprit..Veera is just as innocent as Ratan is...

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sara rafeek

@Ooolalala

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: ek_aarzoo
Well if Ratan is so right, then why did she forgive her husband. Is she hadn't, then not accepting Veera would make sense. She forgave her culprit..Veera is just as innocent as Ratan is...

Yes she forgive Sampooran which seems like a big error which cvs made and it makes no sense but one or the other day, she had to break. After all she's a person too

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Tayyaba Akhtar

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Posted: 12 years ago

Yeah i agree she definitely wanted Sampooran to return, so to some degree she did want to forgive him but i do think that its kind of an incomplete issue for her, because i am pretty sure that she would have fought with him if and when he came back, about to what he did and how it ruined so many lives. when he left she was still in state of shock because of the cheating and losing her child as well as gaining responsibility of the OTHER woman's child who also died without ratan being able to hash it out with her! so i think in the whole matter she needs a lot of closure! and all she has been thinking for the past five year is just that she wants her family together and complete again, so in my opinion she didnt forgive him properly/completely but she needed and wanted a corporeal Sampooran to fight back and forth with, with him gone all she can focus on is the pain of missing the man you were in love with and the father of your child!

SBS did say that Sampooran might be back! which i think will be the CVs way of showing us that once she has him in front her then we will have to see the situation unfold as well as all her anger pouring out! I am actually waiting for that day because then WHEN (hopefully) she chooses Nihaal over Sampooran there will be a clear choice on her part as to who she wants to be with!

Also the condition she put forward for accepting Veera completely if she had her husband back might seem weird or selfish to some but how many women in real life would accept a child like Veera (who is the other woman's child) ?? VERY FEW and god they must be saints!! even for all these years she had still manage to somehow put her pain away and raise her in her house, that in itself is a big deal! and right now she is definitely not wrong seeing as she is a woman who lived on hope that one day she will have her complete family back and she will be able to work through the problems and ALL of them (including Veera) will live together as a family! But right now she just found out that her husband is dead and has lost the hope of ever going back to a normal pain free life, so yeah right now according to Ratan seeing the child who started it all will be hard and painful and nearly impossible to accept that the reason for her getting up each day, the hope that pushed her forward is dead so whats the point of it all right?

As to the upcoming track I do feel like its a wonder she hasnt attempted this before seeing as how many curveballs life has thrown at her!! But then again don't worry folks Nihaal will be there to stop her and to give the lecture of suicide not being the answer to any of the problems in life etc!

(at least we will get some scenes of their without others around!! 😆)

P.s. sorry for any typos lol

Edited by T4YY4B4 - 12 years ago

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sara rafeek

@Ooolalala

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: T4YY4B4
Yeah i agree she definitely wanted Sampooran to return, so to some degree she did want to forgive him but i do think that its kind of an incomplete issue for her, because i am pretty sure that she would have fought with him if and when he came back, about to what he did and how it ruined so many lives. when he left she was still in state of shock because of the cheating and losing her child as well as gaining responsibility of the OTHER woman's child who also died without ratan being able to hash it out with her! so i think in the whole matter she needs a lot of closure! and all she has been thinking for the past five year is just that she wants her family together and complete again, so in my opinion she didnt forgive him properly/completely but she needed and wanted a corporeal Sampooran to fight back and forth with, with him gone all she can focus on is the pain of missing the man you were in love with and the father of your child!

SBS did say that Sampooran might be back! which i think will be the CVs way of showing us that once she has him in front her then we will have to see the situation unfold as well as all her anger pouring out! I am actually waiting for that day because then WHEN (hopefully) she chooses Nihaal over Sampooran there will be a clear choice on her part as to who she wants to be with!

As to the upcoming track I do feel like its a wonder she hasnt attempted this before seeing as how many curveballs life has thrown at her!! But then again don't worry folks Nihaal will be there to stop her and to give the lecture of suicide not being the answer to any of the problems in life etc!
(at least we will get some scenes of their without others around!! 😆)

Exactly she spend so much time with sampy. He was big part of her family and seeing her family broken like this made her forgive Sampooran.

But when she will think peacefully and when she will actually will do the difference between both of them. That there is one who cheated her and left her in her most difficult phase of life and then there is one who supported her through all her thicks and thins, help her in everything, sacrifice his own life in a way for her, she will for sure will choose Nihal

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Mandy

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Posted: 12 years ago

There is nothing right about hating an innocent child while forgiving the one who cheated and abandoned you. I know its not easy for Ratan to accept Veera but what happened to seeing her as Ranvi's sister most importantly as a human being?? Ratan is being hateful and cruel, it is why Ranvi will be unable to take it anymore. Ranvi is completely within his right to confront her, she brought this on herself

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sara rafeek

@Ooolalala

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: .Mandy.
There is nothing right about hating an innocent child while forgiving the one who cheated and abandoned you. I know its not easy for Ratan to accept Veera but what happened to seeing her as Ranvi's sister most importantly as a human being?? Ratan is being hateful and cruel, it is why Ranvi will be unable to take it anymore. Ranvi is completely within his right to confront her, she brought this on herself

But why are we forgetting that Ratan is a human too, she has her flaws and weaknesses. Yes veera done no mistake. And she is getting punishment for no reason but Ratan cannot be blamed either. Having so many responsibilities and handling everything alone for 5 long years, one or the other day she had to break into pieces.

Well all happened because of Sampooran if he comes back then I hope she chooses Nihal. And even I cannot understand that why has she forgiven Sampooran

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catalan

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Posted: 12 years ago

there is a compulsion on Ratan to take care of veera by giving her a home , shelter and food. This she has been doing for the sake of her own son, who ia fond of veera. given a chance, Ratan wold not be doing this. Remember when Veera was in cradle, ratan put her in an orphanage . when Ranvi went in search of her, fearing she will loose her son also Ratan went back and brought back veera. from that time Ratan was insecure that she has lost her husband but does not want anything happening to Ranvi. She made a deal with God if she gets back her husband she will accept veera, which is right, the owner of the child in this case sampooran will take the responsibility. Now that sampooran is dead, she had to fight in her life to satisfy both father and mother to Ranvi so how will she accept Veera with her full heart. she is definitely correct.

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Mandy

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Posted: 12 years ago

IF Sampooran did come back, I want Ratan to chose Nihal over him! But I hear that as per the original script, Sampooran was not meant to come back. His role was a cameo! But now no one knows what the cv's are trying to do??

But I understand that Ratan is at the end of her rope and that is why she is doing this!! I don't like the way she behaves with Veera either, and she needs to get real! She can't keep punishing Veera for Sampooran's mistake forever! She needs to move on! Maybe this "attempted suicide" will finally get her to do that!!

Edited by MrDarcyfan - 12 years ago

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sara rafeek

@Ooolalala

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan
IF Sampooran did come back, I want Ratan to chose Nihal over him! But I hear that as per the original script, Sampooran was not meant to come back. His role was a cameo! But now no one knows what the cv's are trying to do??

But I understand that Ratan is at the end of her rope and that is why she is doing this!! I don't like the way she behaves with Veera either, and she needs to get real! She can't keep punishing Veera for Sampooran's mistake forever! She needs to move on! Maybe this "attempted suicide" will finally get her to do that!!

So true want Nihal Ratan to be together

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