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Hey guys,
Okay I have somewhat recovered from that precap although I don't know what will happen when the actual episode airs 😭
There's been a lot of posts over whether Pramad is negative or positive and whether or not his story with Kumud will turn out to be like Ajay-Ash's story in Hum dil de chuke hai sanam so here's my take on the purpose of Pramad.
What I can gather from all of this is that Pramad isn't supposed to be a 'love interest' for Kumud because Saras will always have that position no matter what happens in their lives. Ultimately Saras and Kumud will always love each other so Pramad isn't taking Saras' place.
Based on last night's episode, it occured to me that Saras isn't ready to commit to anyone just yet because of how vulnerable he is regarding his mother. His character still has a lot of developing to do and marrying Kumud now will halt that process of development.
Why do I say that? I say that because he becomes too dependent on the people he becomes close to and when they are far away from him or they leave him (his mother), he breaks down emotionally and isn't capable of handling anything else. Kumud needs an emotionally stable man who won't run away from social responsibility because of his bad repressed memories. Unfortunately, marriage isn't just about love but also about responsibility.
Pramad, to me, is the character that will act as the catalyst to the development of both Kumud and Saras. He will make them realise that even though they're not physically together, their love has endured this separation. Radha and Krishna never united but their love story has survived all these years because apparently true love never dies.
Personally, I believe that perhaps Saras isn't husband material (don't start throwing things at me) but I feel that he's better suited as a lover than a husband. Pramad may be a better husband than a lover - only because Pramad will be more capable of fulfilling the societal responsibility.
Timing is also a factor. There's always a right time for things to happen and I believe that their time hasn't come because of the whole development thing which I mentioned earlier. The show is about Saraswatichandra so we need to give him time to develop more as a character so perhaps this marriage not happening will be better for the both of them in the long run. As they say: 'If something doesn't work out then God has better things in store for you.'
Stay positive guys! Just keep believing that true love never dies 😊
Do leave your thoughts behind!
Shegufta xx
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