Originally posted by: lonely14
The explanation about what lead to this so-called ONS. The explanation to why he didn't tell bani before, the explanation that how the dixit sisters played with his emotions, and his life. the explanation that in the end he is only a man not a god. and the explanation that how he was betrayed by everyone, yet he didn't lose hope and blamed himself for everything. the explanation about how he suffered more than what his wife is going through right now. The explanation about how the news of his child's death shattered him. The explanation about how he still doesn't know why bani murdered his child. The explanation about how he still doesn't know why the whole divorce/alimony case happened and who is behind it. The explanation that how he is the one who always suffered, but tried to do what is good for others. The explanation that even after all this, he still didn't want to have an affair, and he still doesn't but he can't just abandon the child because he doesn't want the child to go through what he went throught.
Is that explanation enough?
Shina
The so called ONS happened b'coz he was drowned in drink like a coward instead of facing the problems of his life. He still does not know why his child died b'coz he preferred to believe what Jigs and Pia told him, instead of trying to look for the truth. Had he seen the condition Bani was in at that time, he did not need any conformation as to what had happened. It was miscarriage. And please do not call it a murder. I too miscarried my one and only child. I know what it feels to loose of a child. It is hardest for the mother!!!!
As for dancing on others tune!!! was he not dancing on Roshmi's tune before PR raaz.!!!! What about Jigs and her children playing with him and his emotions!!!!!How are only the dixit sisters responsible for it???
And if Pushkar's brain can work and he wants to get a DNA test done, why is'nt Jai getting it done??? It is better to confirm it is his child after whom he is running.
Thinks of only good for others??? Did he not see Bani's face before putting the sindoor in her maang. He could have stopped the marriage right then. But his ego was bigger than his selfless self. He went on punishing Bani for her sister's betrayal. Whom was he thinking at that time.?? When he called Bani a pimp, whose welfare was he thinking of then???When he abused her thinking that she is carrying someone else's child whom was he thinking of then??? He is as selffish as any other person a can be.
I agree that ONS was a mistake, but in life some mistake costs one very dearly, this is one of the. It takes only a sec of "I do" to make a relationship and sometime one such slip to finish it for ever.