Is Bani fair?

Guys,

Bani has always been by her sisters' side no matter how wrong they are!!! Bani has not been very strict with Pia in all her past misdeeds and Pia has only gone worst!!

I was sure that Bani will not forgive Pia this time and would punish her for her horrendous act.But as usual, she did not.

If thats because Pia is her sister than I think Bani should forgive Jai also. After all Jai is her husband...If she loves Pia then she loves Jai equally. How can she keep on saying that I need to find the guy who spoilt my sis' life...as If Pia was not responsible for what happened...If we watch the ONS, the person who looks more responsible is Pia and not Jai!!!

If Bani is ready to forgive Pia because she had promised her mom to take care of her sisters, then she should forgive Jai for all the vows that she has taken with Jai while getting married.

I am not saying that what Jai has done is pardonable but my jist here is to see that Bani should be "Just" in her behaviour and decisions!!!If Pia is forgiven so shld be Jai, If Pia is Punished then so should be Jai....

Personally I feel Bani should not forgive both of them...But If she forgives one and blames the other, then I hope she gets someone else in her life and Jai moves on with someone else (not Pia ofcourse)...KS would be completely messed up else!!

Thoughts/Comments?

Doll,

(Bani has always been by her sisters' side no matter how wrong they are!!!)

A Dixit can never be wrong.

(If we watch the ONS, the person who looks more responsible is Pia and not Jai!!!)

You can rest assured that Amma will come to a different conclusion.

(If Bani is ready to forgive Pia because she had promised her mom to take care of her sisters, then she should forgive Jai for all the vows that she has taken with Jai while getting married.)

I dont know whether one of the vows of marriage is to forgive ur partner for adultery/incest. But in any case, promises made to dead parents is more inviolate than a vow taken during time of marriage.

Personally I wouldn't mind her forgiving both of them. She can forgive JW and enjoy j-d-d moments with JW. Meanwhile a forgiven Pia stays on in WM and goes green with envy.

Rgds,

Pri

Originally posted by: majumdar

Doll,

(Bani has always been by her sisters' side no matter how wrong they are!!!)

A Dixit can never be wrong.

yeah!! ekta seems to think so too!!!! this is what is getting on my nerves...

(If we watch the ONS, the person who looks more responsible is Pia and not Jai!!!)

You can rest assured that Amma will come to a different conclusion.

I am already seeing that....🤢

(If Bani is ready to forgive Pia because she had promised her mom to take care of her sisters, then she should forgive Jai for all the vows that she has taken with Jai while getting married.)

I dont know whether one of the vows of marriage is to forgive ur partner for adultery/incest. But in any case, promises made to dead parents is more inviolate than a vow taken during time of marriage.

No, there is no vow while getting married that she needs to forgive the spouse's infidelity....and so is the case with her promise to her mom!!! She never promised her mom that she would be okie with her sis' getting involved with her hubby and having a child!!! But even after that She can forgive Pia because of some promise to her mom, she can do the same to Jai for some promises during the wedding....The overall jist of all the promises even in the wedding is to take care of your spouse...his interest , likes dislikes etc etc......the same kinda promise that Bani gave to her mom for her sisters.....so, I really dont find any difference....

My point is that she shld be fair in her dealings!!!

Personally I wouldn't mind her forgiving both of them. She can forgive JW and enjoy j-d-d moments with JW. Meanwhile a forgiven Pia stays on in WM and goes green with envy.

I love this conclusion 😉 and thats because we all love JW....else, I dnt think anyone shld be forgiven for this!!!

Rgds,

Pri

Originally posted by: aashyagh

Bani has always been by her sisters' side no matter how wrong they are!!! Bani has not been very strict with Pia in all her past misdeeds and Pia has only gone worst!!

I was sure that Bani will not forgive Pia this time and would punish her for her horrendous act.But as usual, she did not.

***Dixits are right all the time, who cares how others are feeling or hurt due to their actions! What matters is the Kasam given to parents!

If Bani is ready to forgive Pia because she had promised her mom to take care of her sisters, then she should forgive Jai for all the vows that she has taken with Jai while getting married.

***But Bani doesnt think that way! If JW is the partner, then he is completely responsible and he should pay for it! No matter that her sister enjoys this punishment and JW is the only sufferer!!

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I feel the same disgust as it is evident from ur post!! 🤢

Originally posted by: umshaz

I agree 100% with you all bani is going to blame jai for the ons 😡 because she is to blind to see pia at fault 😡

I think they both are responcible!!!!They both commited the mistake...We shudn't only hate one of them....ut yes Jai was drunk and Pia wasn't!!!!

Kritu

Originally posted by: Kritika.

I think they both are responcible!!!!They both commited the mistake...We shudn't only hate one of them....ut yes Jai was drunk and Pia wasn't!!!!

Kritu