thank you so much for this post...
I agree with you...even though I support Ovi there have been many times that I didnt like her actions...
I dont blame ovi for not getting over arjun the minute she found out he had loved purvi...he was her fiance...they were going to get married...she gave him space, love and support as much as he wanted...more than anythign she TRUSTED him to go to India and focus on his work and then get married...what does he do when he goes there, he starts an affair with another woman...how many times did ovi ask him if something is going on but not once did he tell her the truth...then her entire family supports arjun-purvi relationship...people cannot digest Purvi and Onir and the fact that purvi can move on so easily...but why not?? didnt arjun also move on and fell for purvi a couple of weeks after his engagement with ovi...
was Ovi wrong in giving out the deal knowing that purvi loves her mom alot? ABSOLUTELY!!!! she shouldnt have given the deal...but Purvi is also to be blamed as much for accepting it...why didnt she confide in arjun or tell manav or archana that ovi is blackmailing her like that...
after marriage she gave arjun a lot of time to get over purvi and he should have...if he wasnt going to accept her as his wife then why did he marry her...
in this whole deal there are three people responsible...each one of them have equal responsibilities...when ovi and purvi were going to go ahead with it, arjun should have stood up...he should have refused...he should have known that if purvi is telling him to do this then there has to be a reason behind it...but instead he blindly followed what purvi told him and then kept running back to purvi...
I like ovi because she is very transparent...whatever she does she does not hide it behind mahanta or someone's balai...if ovi was so evil as everyone puts it then she would have taken pari and never let purvi come near her...but she didnt do that...she knows that at then end of the day that is purvi's daughter...
as for ovi drinking while being pregnant...well I am in medical school and I know that is a real disease...she was an alcoholic because her husband was cheating on her and her family never supports her...if ovi was just striking for the heck of it i would blame her...once she got treated she loved that baby and when she thought pari was that baby this same girl who never had to do any chores took care of that alone...she fed the baby, changed nappies and not once complained...meanwhile purvi acted so mahan during pregnancy but the minute she gave birth she neglected that child...
I cant bring myself to like a character like purvi who ruins lives and then says she was doing it for their balai...at least ovi is honest enough to never hide her reasoning...