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Posted: 12 years ago
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Now I have been reading a lot of posts about Ovi supporters or worshippers who tend to justify everything Ovi does. I wanted to clear this out for once and for all
We are not hypocrites , neither do we blindly follow our favorite character
I have never been a fan of Ovi because I was always an arvi supporter
Till Purvi's mata overflowed and she breastfed Pari which was completely dumb because Ovi was right there in the hospital
I have never agreed on Purvi's actions beings sincere
Her actions always had an ulterior motive which always worked according to her convenience
Now us , Ovi supporters
The only reason we support Ovi is because we are mostly women who place ourselves in the shoes of Ovi and think from her perspective
Ovi is rude, jealous etc etc
But she doesn't lie unnecessarily nor does she wish harm on others
People blame the deshmukhs for not slapping Ovi when she placed the deal and married Arjun
She tried to commit suicide and her family thought since the two got married , how world anything they say change anything
She placed one deal , she expected Arjun to love her
But after getting married , people mostly get over their ex lovers don't they ?
My cousin had a girlfriend before marriage too but after marriage he loves his wife
It's not absurd for a woman to think love would eventually grow because they are sharing the same roof / seeing each other all the time

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Waneeka, agree with your post...
Besides, I never understood why Awrchun didn't go for a divorce, if he didn't want his marriage with Ovi??? Why is Ovi continuously being blamed, when the marriage could have been easily nulled by a divorce...surely, DK could have been the most understand rt DK, right??? so why did Awrchun just hang on to Ovi, in the first place???
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Posted: 12 years ago
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thank you so much for this post...

I agree with you...even though I support Ovi there have been many times that I didnt like her actions...

I dont blame ovi for not getting over arjun the minute she found out he had loved purvi...he was her fiance...they were going to get married...she gave him space, love and support as much as he wanted...more than anythign she TRUSTED him to go to India and focus on his work and then get married...what does he do when he goes there, he starts an affair with another woman...how many times did ovi ask him if something is going on but not once did he tell her the truth...then her entire family supports arjun-purvi relationship...people cannot digest Purvi and Onir and the fact that purvi can move on so easily...but why not?? didnt arjun also move on and fell for purvi a couple of weeks after his engagement with ovi...

was Ovi wrong in giving out the deal knowing that purvi loves her mom alot? ABSOLUTELY!!!! she shouldnt have given the deal...but Purvi is also to be blamed as much for accepting it...why didnt she confide in arjun or tell manav or archana that ovi is blackmailing her like that...

after marriage she gave arjun a lot of time to get over purvi and he should have...if he wasnt going to accept her as his wife then why did he marry her...

in this whole deal there are three people responsible...each one of them have equal responsibilities...when ovi and purvi were going to go ahead with it, arjun should have stood up...he should have refused...he should have known that if purvi is telling him to do this then there has to be a reason behind it...but instead he blindly followed what purvi told him and then kept running back to purvi...

I like ovi because she is very transparent...whatever she does she does not hide it behind mahanta or someone's balai...if ovi was so evil as everyone puts it then she would have taken pari and never let purvi come near her...but she didnt do that...she knows that at then end of the day that is purvi's daughter...

as for ovi drinking while being pregnant...well I am in medical school and I know that is a real disease...she was an alcoholic because her husband was cheating on her and her family never supports her...if ovi was just striking for the heck of it i would blame her...once she got treated she loved that baby and when she thought pari was that baby this same girl who never had to do any chores took care of that alone...she fed the baby, changed nappies and not once complained...meanwhile purvi acted so mahan during pregnancy but the minute she gave birth she neglected that child...

I cant bring myself to like a character like purvi who ruins lives and then says she was doing it for their balai...at least ovi is honest enough to never hide her reasoning...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kalapi

Waneeka, agree with your post...

Besides, I never understood why Awrchun didn't go for a divorce, if he didn't want his marriage with Ovi??? Why is Ovi continuously being blamed, when the marriage could have been easily nulled by a divorce...surely, DK could have been the most understand rt DK, right??? so why did Awrchun just hang on to Ovi, in the first place???


because he was waiting for purvi to give the green signal...he married ovi when purvi asked him to yet he run to her every chance he got and declared to the wold that he still loves his SIL...he slept with ovi and impregnated her but run to purvi...however he never had the guts to divorce ovi and be honest with her because purvi didnt allow him...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Luv4games
I don't know your name but I have noticed your posts around and I agree with most of them !
Now getting back to your post ..
Ovi is the one who lost the most
Arjun promises to marry her but breaks off the engagement
She places a deal hoping Arjun would love her someday
But that never happens
Then she finds out about Arjun's love child
Archana always gave preference to Purvi over Ovi
Ovi was depressed , Arjun seemed to take care of her because of the baby
He was always concerned about the baby not her
How would a wife tolerate that
Ovi has been wrong many times
She was wrong to be rude to Purvi unnecessarily
But she didn't lie about wanting her happiness
She didn't want bad for her too
Ovi only has a rich father but then she has nothing else
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Posted: 12 years ago
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mie nu mi se pare asa,arjun casatorit cu ovi din orgoliu ranit pentru ca .ales fericirea mamei in loc de el ...el care sa sacrificat pt ea ,a plecat de acasa...etc ,etc si a vrut sa o faca sa simta si ea acelasi lucru ca si el dezamagire atunci cand o sa-l vada cu alta femeie .dar nu te pui cu dragostea ,iar ovi o femeie instabila nu stie ce vrea iubeste din punctul meu de vedere o obsesie ia si dezvoltat obsesia pt el fiind o copila ,gelozia invidia tot ce vreti,la petrecerea de nunta a aratat -o pe ea mica fiind geloasa pe fetitele care se jucau cu el ,el nu a iubito niciodata ia spus ca nu o iubeste ,un o poate iubi decat ca un frate pt ca au crescut impreuna.pe purvi cand a intalnit si si-a dat seama ca o iubeste asa, cum se iubesc doi iubiti nu doi prieteni de familie.nu a ceruto pe ovi in casatorie decat atunci cand ea l;a strans cu presul,nu o iubea.deci nu consider vinovati nici pe purvi nici arjun .normal ca el a iubit incontinu pe purvi nu a aceptato pe ovi pt ca a auzit in seara nunti ca a santajato pe purvi.el poate divorta de ovi daca purvi il accepta pe el,el cand sa casatorit purvi niciodata nu la mai cautatsi ia tot bagat in cap sa o acepte ca sotie pe ovi sa o iubesca,dar inimi nui poti porunci.cand a incerct sa dea o sansa casniciei,ovi singura il trimetea in bratile lui purvi amintindui mereu ca o iubeste pe purvi si nu pe ea .a incercat sa se apropie de ea ia facut un copil dar ea fiind invidioasa,geloasa sa apucat sa bea spunandui el ca nu o iubeste deacum decat pe mama copilului adica pe ea nestiind ca purvi are un copil cu el.deci din punctul meu de vedere ovi vinovata.purvi a incercat din rasputeri sa se apropie de familia ei adoptiva stiind ca fiind adoptata datoria ei este de ai face fericiti mai ales pe mama ei,bunica ei surorile ei,tatal ei ...sa casatorit cu onir pt parinti ei si pt a da un nume copilului,nu a avut niciodata intentia asi da copilul dar imprejurarile au fost altele sa sacrificat iar ,din nou pt ovi stiindo o femeie instabila, betiva, si ca sa o salveze din depresie dandui o sansa sa traiasca impreuna cu arjun.stiea ca daca arjun va afla ca are un copil cu ea o va respinge pe ovi iar ea va ajunge o betiva ceia ce sa intamplat.nu la dat cuiva stain i la dat lui arjun care e tata ei a lui pari.deci a dat o sansa casatoriei ovi-arjun .acum cand ovi a ales sa-l paraseasca alegand moda justificand ca vrea sa dea chear ea o sansa purvi -arjun de ce nu divorteaza si de ce sa mai culcat cu arjun stiind ca tot asa-l paraseasca doar ea a cautat, normal el e barbat sexsul e sex nu?nu trebuia sa-si petreaca inca o noapte cu el,ce daca era casatorita,daca avea un pic de creier nu ramanea acolo noaptea.deci nu stie ce vrea.


















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Posted: 12 years ago
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I am neither a Purvi shipper nor an Ovi shipper because I havent liked both from the start. Surprisingly even though Purvi is the second lead , I could never get myself to like the character. And Ovi was way too clingy for my liking
( I do like both Asha and Shruti. )

I support Ovi at times because somewhere I can justify her when I do so.
With Purvi, I somehow can never see sense in any of her actions.

As simple as that.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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:)
I just want arvi reunion now
And want them to go to Canada and never come back
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Weeneka loved this post!
I'm fed up of justifying ovi coz these ppl don't tend to understand
ovi is right n so are we . I was also an arvi fan .
But plz in this 21 century don't tell me that love Is only once..Sacha. pyaar n all
he cheated on ovi not by the physical relation but torturing her psychologically .
Taking purvis name the whole day.
Ovi was wrong only once in her life ...warring arjun!!
But he was always wrong !!

Ur awesome ovi n u are right
Edited by llyrics - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

:)
I just want arvi reunion now
And want them to go to Canada and never come back


I don't want that purvi and arjun don't deserve happiness ...
Srry. if that was too harsh
my pov ofcourse


just make ovi happy now she is the one who suffered !!
Feeling so bad that just for arvi reunion they are makin a beautiful character like onir bad!

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