Who is the bigger Culprit - Jai or Pushka- Page 3

Originally posted by: Cordelia

if only things were really that simple!! 😕

Reemz,

In my original post I had written "There are sacred vows between PP and there were none between JP".

Judge had declared JB marriage dissolved and they only needed to turn some signed paper in which JW had signed. So in my mind JB marriage is not an issue. However, PP marriage was still valid so is JW morally obliged to safeguard PP marriage when Pia is doing everything to flush is down the toilet. Is he even conscious enough to realize the fact.

As someone had mentionedd that if it was Rano with Jai instead of Pia he would have wept on her shoulders and Rano would have caringly tucked him into bed like Bani had done before. Pia in this case was the dtermined seducer. I don't absolve JW for succumbing. What JW did that night was no pre-meditated. What he did after that hiding from Pushkar was. But Pushkar also ran around hiiding from JW afterwards. Are'nt we all human trying to hide our mistakes when we know the reprecussions of the truuth coming out will be brutal.

i think its jai...hes older and wiser! pushkar was wayyy young and didnt know what was going on...and jai is still being dumb!! hes not telling bani!

Originally posted by: saggitarian

Is Jai even feeling guilty about what he is doing to Pushkar? He is only feeling guilty for hiding the truth from Bani. Never once has he contemplated on what he is doing to Pushkar. That guy was happy thinking he is going to become a father and has no idea how big a fool he is being made.

did pushkar ever feel guilty about what he did to Jai?!! maybe for about 5 minutes after Bani and Jai had fallen in love with each other... big deal!!

he was more worried about the financial effect of losing JW's approval - the rest of his time he spent hiding either behind his wife or his sister-in-law!! 😆

well first of all i blame PIA....she is a money grabber

and then i blame pushkar because he was a coward....he cudve told Jai that he is in love wid pia....also he shudnt have kicked pia out wen she aborted her baby...that made her go close to jai and decieve her sister bani

and now i blame jai....for letting pia be wid him everywer , letting her work for him and then get drunk and get seduced by her...and now being a dishonest man and hiding the truth from everyone......

we all know it will come out soon as it does in serials or real life....

he shud just tell em all....instead of hiding it

Originally posted by: kubare

Both in my view, and both of them were made to do what they did by the self centered, selfish b!*@# Pia.

Pia is the biggest culprit in both the incidence. How you may ask? The answer is Pia was the one who forced Pushkar to elop with her on her wedding day. Pushkar in the beginning didnot wnat to do that at all, but she emotionally blackmailed him in to eloping with her as she said she loved him and how can he see her getting married to someone else and let her live a miserable life.

The same way she emotionally battered Jai with her monologe that Bani di never loved Jai at all she loved someone else, etc, etc,etc. She always pushed herself on Jai by telling him she undersatnds what he is going through, I am there for you, Ilove you Mr. Volliya, etc and in the last used his break down to her best by seducing him and the ONS took place.

So for me the one and only person to blame is Pia who ruined Jai and Pushkars relationship in the beginning and now too.

Two sane and good human beings fell for the devil, Pia.

Love
Krishna

I agree both Jai and Puskhar made mistakes but the mistakes made by both of them involve Pia playing a key role.

Originally posted by: saggitarian

My point is exactly this...if both of them are doing the same thing then why is Pushkar a bigger culprit...Jai has made a mistake as much as Pushkar by getting manipulated by Pia.

But at this point Jai is hiding a big truth ...and Pushkar has a right to react with anger when he knows the truth.

PS: Personally can never be angry with Pushy for running away with Pia....that was the best thing he has ever done in KS 😆

because pushkar made a conscious decision to betray his mentor, knowing fully what he is like. He had a schoolboy crush / or fell in love with Pia, whatever and purely for his own selfish reasons he ran off with her. when pia wanted to turn back for her sister he emotionally blackmailed her into choosing him!!

he didnt go through an ounce of the emotional trauma that JW had been through causing the ONS, and the ONS itself was as much Pia's seduction if not more than Jai's drunkenness - how does that compare to Pushkar?!!

as for Jai's behaviour after the ONS - he has hidden everything because he is terrified of it's effect on Bani, not for his own pleasure!! Pushkar hid from Jai because he was a wimp who was terrified of Jai's wrath and what he could do to his career or his bones!! no other reason at all!! 🤢

I think that Pia is at fault more then Jai Walia she should be punished really bad!!!!!! I don't like her at all I usto like her alot but she just runied it

I guess both are the culphrits in their own ways.Pushkar ran away with jai's bride leaving jai humiliated and shattered and jai slept with his wife and hid this fact from him.

Originally posted by: saggitarian

I do not agree that his succumbing to Pia's blackmail is because of Bani. He is doing it only because she is threatening abortion. As for the dreams, he did have a dream of little Krishna after which he ran to Pia and begged her not get the child aborted.

if that one dream proves your point after she has threatened an abortion then i believe i have already done my part in my last post.

IMO, culpability also depends on the consequences of your actions. Pushkar behaved as a coward and did have the easier option of confessing to JW which he did not take. But in whatever circumstances the ONS happened, that acthasmuch greater potential to destroy lives especially with a child involved.

consequences are often beyond one's control - your intentions are not. when bani began this property drama she did not think what her actions might do to the man she loved - but the fact that she had "good intentions" frees her from any culpability in the eyes of many people here!! is that fair?!!

Just my 2 cents....no offence meant

none taken! 😊