Episode 271 Discussion: 14th May 2013 - Page 8

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Posted: 12 years ago
#71
just imagine after rk's proposal if aryan comes in between saying "nahi madooo meri hai" 🤣


ps: i know its not happenin..😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ClosetRomantic


While I agree that one should always keep one's eyes open for potential trouble, trust is something which is needed to make any relationship work. There is no such thing like half-trust. Either you trust or your don't. It is even more important in RK-Madhu's case - their relationship will always be in trouble until they learn to completely trust each other. The sad thing is that both of them have proved themselves to be untrustworthy by their actions. And made their relationship an aag ka dariya as a result. Their love will always pull them towards each other but the distrust will not let them be comfortable in this relationship.


completely agree CR 👏 but "blind trust" or "absolute trust" exists? 😕 Why couldn't RK bear to see Madhu with Sultan? why did he get jealous ? bec. he loves Madhu isn't it ? what is love without ownership?selfless love is idealistic..
Edited by _charu_ - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_

completely agree CR 👏 but "blind trust" or "absolute trust" exists? 😕 Why couldn't RK bear to see Madhu with Sultan? why did he get jealous ? bec. he loves Madhu isn't it ? what is love without ownership? Meera wala pyar only Meera cud do..


EXACTLY! charu...infact isnt ownership always a part of any kind of love? "my mom...my dad...my brother..etc etc..."
its just always there!
also i find it very flattering! (wonder y madhu just doesnt become a nun😡)
saying "u r mine" is a way of accepting in public that u love n are not embarrassed about being around him/her...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_

completely agree CR 👏 but "blind trust" or "absolute trust" exists? 😕 Why couldn't RK bear to see Madhu with Sultan? why did he get jealous ? bec. he loves Madhu isn't it ? what is love without ownership?selfless love is idealistic..


Of course love is about ownership. And jealousy is a very natural emotion in a relationship. I guess it is about trusting that the other person will never betray them or hurt them knowingly. Like Madhu is never insecure of Deepali or any of RK's heroines. She is just as possessive as RK but he has given her reason to trust him with any other woman. RK too trusted Madhu completely before the unwedding (despite the revenge plan). If Sultan had entered Madhu's life then, RK wouldn't have been this kind of mess at all. Earlier RK was also confident that Madhu would never hurt him and do anything for him. But her 7-hour-change has made her untrustworthy in her eyes.

Finally, trust really is a very fragile thing. Takes years to build and just a moment to break. Right now both RK and Madhu's trust on each other is broken and now rebuilding it is going to take a long time 😔
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ClosetRomantic

RK too trusted Madhu completely before the unwedding (despite the revenge plan). If Sultan had entered Madhu's life then, RK wouldn't have been this kind of mess at all. Earlier RK was also confident that Madhu would never hurt him and do anything for him. But her 7-hour-change has made her untrustworthy in her eyes.


i wudnt agree to this really...if u remember when madhu was a spot on sets n once she stood by to talk to a guy on sets he got pissed...but rk started trusting her since the incident on set when she saved him from the falling spotlight...however rk made sure that madhu is blinded by him n has no chance of loitering around...rk's insecurities have not stemmed from madhu's 7-hr-change they have been there ever since she went missing and then madhu refused to answer rk about what she was doing with sultan all night...and that she lied to her mom about where she spent her nights...

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: war_is_peace

i wudnt agree to this really...if u remember when madhu was a spot on sets n once she stood by to talk to a guy on sets he got pissed...but rk started trusting her since the incident on set when she saved him from the falling spotlight...however rk made sure that madhu is blinded by him n has no chance of loitering around...rk's insecurities have not stemmed from madhu's 7-hr-change they have been there ever since she went missing and then madhu refused to answer rk about what she was doing with sultan all night...and that she lied to her mom about where she spent her nights...


I don't think RK was pissed when he saw her talking to that guy on the sets. He didn't feel anything for her at all then. He was pissed generally that nothing he is doing is affecting her. Didn't he say something to Bittooji like 'bahut moti chamdi hai, abhi iski band bajayi hai par koi asar nahi'

I don't think he was ever insecure about her loitering around before the unwedding. In fact he didn't feel the need to keep an eye on her that way even after the unwedding. It is only after Sultan's entry and her lying about him that he got insecure.
Edited by ClosetRomantic - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Opti



I can't help recollecting a phrase I loved in the movie "As good as it gets" where Jack Nicholson tells Helen Hunt "You make me want to be a better man". Earlier Madhu made RK want to be a better man so that he can exact his revenge. Now she needs to make him want to be a better man so that he can win her forever.

Agree with your entire take on Madhu' definition of love 👏👏👏. What you have quoted above is very apt for the situation and the character's mind frame.

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