Do you think the way shiv behaved with gauri before and after marriage was to make her hate him, so tht she wud refuse to marry him/ divorce him, 'coz he was aware of the plan from the beginin and new tht if he married her then her life wud be in danger? 'coz shashank kept tellin gauri in the beginin tht shiv "dil ka bohut acha hai". and the way shiv told gauri tht he never wanted to behave like tht with her, but he wudn't help it, maybe 'coz he felt helpless at tht time??? then netesh plan, he wanted to send her away to kolkatta, so she won;t be near him, and if she is not near him then she might not be in tht much danger, like 3 angel said in her post "mera shaque tht every time gauri saves shiv's life, she faces death in return.