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Posted: 13 years ago
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We have all been generally sympathetic to Emily. A young girl who fell for the charms of Mohit, a folly not uncommon in this age. He must have done a fairly good job of convincing her of his sincerity. When she realized she has been taken for a royal ride, it was too late and she was pregnant with his child. Mohit immediately took the denial mode and refused to have anything to do with her. The court orders compelled him to come out in the open. Now all this is history. I am going to to examine the pros and cons of the different options available before Emily.

Option1

1. She tries to please the RP with SurYa's help, gets the approval of Maasa and marries Mohit . The problems in this option

a) A person like Mohit who did not stand by her side in her hour of need is unlikely to be a supportive husband in future.

b) Bhabo may not agree to Court marriage and unless that is done under Special marriage Act the marriage in the eyes of law is illegal if Emily does not convert.

c) Having been brought up in a liberal atmosphere, it may not be easy for her to adjust to Rathi household as she may not possess other skills like Sandhya to impress Bhabo.

d) Her ability to pursue her religion, maybe go for the Sunday Mass may not be easy in the Rathi parivar setup. Sandhya got the approval to go to college but has been so bogged down by problems that she is hardly able to go. Same may be the case with Emily. Be it work or eating the non veg food of her choice it may be difficult for her to manage.

Option 2

Emily decides to go against her religion and aborts. Abortion is strictly illegal in Roman Catholicism.

a) Her parents and relatives may not be supportive.

Option 3

Emily decides to do it alone. Goes to the court, files for maintenence and becomes a single mother

a) In a conservative society such as ours it may not be easy. She will be subject to a lot of taunts

b) Right from the child's school admission father's name will be asked for and she may not get the respectability she needs.

c) Her remarriage may or may not happen. It is not easy to get a man in India with another man's child in arms.

d) Mohit becomes scot free by paying a monetary compensation and can remarry and get a fat dowry from a Marwari girl. Public memory in a boy's case is short and forgiving. Will it be fair to Emily?

e)Life can be quite lonely as Emily is just in her early 20s

Option 4

Emily dumps the child on the RP and gets along with her life.

a)Is it easy to give away your child and not see it ever. Can a mother do it ?

Option 5

Emily gives away her child for adoption.

a) Can a mother do it ? Will not the guilt of punishing a new born for its father's deeds kill her ?

b) Mohit again gets away scot free.

Option 6

She converts to Mohit's religion.

a) Grossly unfair on the girl to expect her to give up what she has been brought up with.
b) Question that why Mohit doesn't do it can be asked.

I know the CVs will take option 1 and show Maasa and Khap conceding with Sandhya's persuasion. An option which to my mind cannot happen in the India we live in, as in realistic terms it would lead to a total social boycott of RP as Bhabo rightly pointed out. Now as viewers which option appeals to you the most. Pour in your thoughts.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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uma aunty i love to take part in this kind of discussion.
but you have left nothing for me in my point of view but only i can say nice post
Edited by nitishkumar1995 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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umaji nice post
what else to say as nitish said you have done a detailed analysis of momily, this post can be answered only by cvs😆
jokes apart , since this is a family show i think they would try for the first option,
once they get married then it will the sole responsibility of bhabho to bring mohit on the right path
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i want option 1,3 in another way like after all gets ready for marriage.
emily decides she will not get married to mohit.
after that mohit realise his mistake and deeds.
but by seeing mohit character it looks too difficult.
Edited by nitishkumar1995 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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You have pointed all the options and outcomes so beautifully...
what more to add

I think the CVs are going to go with option 1
Though MoMily gets married and Emily adjusts to RP, I don't want her to forget and forgive what Mohit is doing right now. I want her to be stubborn and let Mohit suffer. Mohit should manaofy Emily...in such ways (right now my mind is empty and I can't think what he could do to manaofy her)

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I would say Option 1 and deny conjugal rights to Mohit. I mean be married to him for the sake of the child.

I know it is unfair as Emily will also suffer, but in this case Mohit also does not go scott free.

This will also be a lesson to Bhabo who has openly questioned Sandhya on her relationship status. Though Sandhya was mute I guess Emily will reply back.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Very nice detailed analysis of Momli's issue but everything is in CVs hand. Actually, I did not expect getting Maasa's approval at all. Thought Bhabho would kick him out of the house and SurYa would make him realize his mistake and get married to Emily and settled in their house. I also guess Mohit wants to live among liberal mindset people or house like Emily's.

Looks like CVs are going with option 1.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Uma Aunty great post as always!

Seems first option is the one that CVs are going with.
But I really don't want her to marry Mohit.
Don't know how they will convince Maasa n Panchayet.

Aisa nahi ho sakta that accidentally Emily loses the child and then she moves on dumping Mohit?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Very good post Uma ji 👏👏👏
I liked the ideas of Nitish, Bharathi akka and Farhana as well. 👍🏼
I wanted Emily to choose option 3... but seeing the consequences, I don't want her to. Then again all options have its consequences
What I initially thought was, Emily will choose option 3 but Bhabho & Surya will give her full support. But seems like CVs are going along option 1. If Mohit realises his mistakes and becomes good(don't know when that day will come...) then I don't mind option 1.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Umduji a very good post on the possible options of Mohit and Emily relationship.U have very well defined the pros and cons that the possibilities may take in their relationship.Options 4 and 5 will be like showing Emily in bad light and the purpose of social message if ever the Cvs wanted 2 show will be defeated.Option 6 of her converting to Hinduism cannot be justified as u have pointed out as it is like losing her own identity in the world with which she has lived though in real life i read abt incidents in which the girl gets converted 2 the boy's religion if ever the boy's family is very conservative.But here i doubt the Cvs will ever show this option as the protogonist Sandhya is out there 2 prove otherwise. As the serial goes Cvs cannot ever show Sandy getting defeated so option 1 is the only choice 2 be taken by Cvs though it is very difficult and almost impossible as a very conservative person like Maasa can never approve such a relationship but at the end of the day it is a serial and so they could show Sandy winning and the social message delivered.
I would be surprised if it is otherwise .Sorry 4 the long rant umduji.Ur post is always an inspiration 4 me 2 write long replies 😆.

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